We talk about having a threesome, but i am thinking more along the lines of another guy to play with both of us. I want to make sure she is not going to be freaked out when i ask her.
2007-06-11 05:34:58 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I should explain that i am bisexuaul but am very happy with being faithfull to my woman, she doesnt know i like guys also.
2007-06-11 05:42:38 · update #1
well. if shes confortable havin 3sum with u, then she should be confortable of whoever u want to chose to have it with ya. if i was u, i would like have her out in a nice evenin first n talk about it. give her clues first. then straight up tell her about it. dont be nervous about how yo gurl feels. just ask her politely n nicely if shes confortable doin it with two men. u get wat im sayin.?. aniwaise. if she doesnt like it, u might as well go with the flow with her. n accept it. =]. welps. thats all i could say at this point. hope its good enough fo u. =]. -kalibaby.
2007-06-11 05:45:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you married the wrong sex partner. I think you may be gay or atleast bi-sexual and in that case why would marry
not knowing if that person would satisfy you.
If I was your girl I would tell you to get lost and find that man you want since I ain't good enough!.
When in a relationship threesome is not something you do. Personally though I would be worried about her liking this other guy more then you have you stopped to consider this?.
Really though this is just wrong! Love the one your with tell her that this whole threesome thing doesn't interest you.
2007-06-11 12:41:21 · answer #2 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the next time you talk about a threesome with her let her know that you would not mind bringing another guy in if he was bi and that should set the tone. another thing you both have to think about is talk is one thing action is another. you have to think of this other guy doing your wife and though you get what you want you may also get something you dont. you dont always like watching someone touch your spouse. but its the same for her. she may very well enjoy being with the other female but when you start doing her it could be different. and if she goes for you being with a guy you need to give her a girl every now and again as well.
good luck.
2007-06-11 13:43:52 · answer #3 · answered by becca_2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can never be sure of that. Ask her if she wants another woman or a man. Let her know that you are open minded enough
Good Luck
2007-06-11 12:39:46 · answer #4 · answered by kkapustka 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk her into checking out a swingers club. Find one that has an orientation session. Ask questions and somewhere along it will come out. She may go for it. You just never know.
2007-06-11 13:37:03 · answer #5 · answered by bocasbeachbum 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a fool. Stop all this threesome talk and work on making glorious love to your girl.
2007-06-11 12:42:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ahh.. well.. I'd just discuss that with her.. I used to tell my ex that we can have a 3-some me him and another guy and he always said NO! But if he said yea ok.. I dont know.. I wouldn't be that excited I dont think.. LOL are you sure you want another man touching on your lady infront of you???
2007-06-11 12:40:43 · answer #7 · answered by 04/12/2008 :) 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be honest with her...she may like it...she may not...only one way to find out..ASK..
If it were me...i wouldn't go for it..im an only child..and if there's one thing i dont do..is share my man :P
2007-06-11 13:10:53 · answer #8 · answered by cnn360coffeebubbles 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u should joke about it at first and see what she says
2007-06-11 12:40:08 · answer #9 · answered by redneckgirl_2005_tx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, you should have told her in the first place....
2007-06-11 12:49:09 · answer #10 · answered by flip flop freak :) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋