My man to be still talks to his female friends on the phone and some are his ex's should I be mad and dump his *** or just get even and do something to make him mad or is it really a big deal and I'm blowing it out of porportion????
2007-06-11 05:31:10 · 5 answers · asked by MrsCAPTAIN !!! 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
first you have to take into consideration how their relationship ended, if it was on mutual terms for both of them and their split was without incident then you should expect that the possibility of them remaining friends is highly likely, however if the seperation was via some hurtful incident on either part due it be cheating etc. and he insist on corresponding with his ex then your in your right to fully be upset because your man would then need to remind himself why he broke up with that person and keep that in the forefront of his mind, she's his past your the present and if he is willingly doing something that he knows is making you upset then he needs to re-evaluate the situation and come to terms with what really matters to him which is you.
2007-06-11 05:51:53 · answer #1 · answered by Cute kinky Chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are over reacting.
But if you are suspicious about something tell him that this makes you uncomfortable. Don't keep it inside.
And DO NOT try to do anything irrational like create competition cause it only strains the relationship.
Talk it through.
2007-06-11 05:51:10 · answer #2 · answered by tweet48 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's up to you..Do you feel insecure. Talk to your bf and tell him that it bothers you if you don't like it but then what's wrong with him talking to his ex. Do you still talk to your ex?I don't have a problem with my partner talking to his ex as long as he doesn't hide it from him and I know what's going on. You have to trust him too..
2007-06-11 05:40:27 · answer #3 · answered by Stanley the Westie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it bothers you, then find a new man who doesn't do that. Obviously you have trust issues here and why would you be with a man you don't trust?
2007-06-11 05:35:05 · answer #4 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've been through this and i told him so many times that i hate it when he talks to her but he never listen so i was tired of fighting about the same damn thing so then we decided to be friends and i've been happy ever since !!
2007-06-11 05:36:39 · answer #5 · answered by no name 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋