Family & Relationships - 11 June 2007

This is just a way to kill slow/down time at work. Any one who expects to find sound advice or logical ideas here is just fooling themselves!

Enjoy the laughs and take it for what it is worth!

2007-06-11 07:02:36 · 16 answers · asked by Steve J 2 in Marriage & Divorce

We have 3 kids together(7,5,2).Were just a couple days away from payday so I'm broke.Any ideas?

2007-06-11 07:02:03 · 13 answers · asked by oregoncheeto 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-11 07:01:53 · 10 answers · asked by Jammy 1 in Friends

I love my fiance' but for the year we've been together he has been accusing me of cheating, writing down every number I dial, checking the computer behind me to see what websites I go to, and when I was pregnant with our first child, he slapped me and kicked me out the car and drove off screaming out the window the baby wasn't his. I miscarried later that year. He says he loves me but what kind of love is this? What do you think is going on and what should I do? Sometimes I feel like I just want to die.

2007-06-11 06:59:31 · 51 answers · asked by I'll tell it like it is 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

my boyfriends sister is having a party this saturday and i know for sure... my boyfriends ex girlfriend is going to be there... i really dont want to talk to her or see her because i know what she did to my boyfriend... but my boyfriends sisters rally want me to go... i already told them that i dont want to go because she is gonna be there but they insist on me going...i wish i could make her feel like **** that day but i dont want to seem like a b***.. so what can i do to make this day a good day for me and bad day for her... or should i just not go?? please help!!!!

2007-06-11 06:57:54 · 2 answers · asked by cupids_victim11 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-11 06:53:29 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A guy tells people that he normally against relationships.. but he is with someone and he thinks she is awesome b/c... She loves sex just a much as he does and she's fun and laid back. Sometimes like one of the guys.. could this be the only reason he is with her? B/c shes a nimpho?? B/c she can drink him under the table?? Would this be something for her to try and stick around for? Just another jerk guy who only gives a **** about sex and getting drunk? Whatever happened to loving someone for who they are? I know that is part of who she is... but there should be more to it. Is he just trying to sound cool to his friends?. I don't get this

2007-06-11 06:52:49 · 19 answers · asked by Crystal B 2 in Singles & Dating

How many times does it take to realize maybe marriage ain't for you?

2007-06-11 06:51:59 · 41 answers · asked by TNT 1 in Marriage & Divorce

im hurt and confused.....my boyfriend was seeing this girl last year, well about 2 to 3 weeks later me and him started to go out. about 3 months later this girl said that she was pregnant with his baby. and well now she filed child support. i know that it happened before me but it still hurts me. to top it off he already has a daughter who is three, so there for i already have one baby mom to deal with, and trust me we dont get along. now for this new girl, we also dont get along. im just scared that what if he goes back to her. i love him. and im gonna try and stay strong but its hard. and its possible that i may be pregnant. how should i go about this....

2007-06-11 06:50:35 · 15 answers · asked by Erica 1 in Singles & Dating

Meaning they know your nickname, your id & password and can read all your questions & answers.
I joined this yahoo!answers because I've been having problems living together with my mother in-law and my husband told me to bring my complaints somewhere else. So I did, I posted questions related to my living situation. Some of course talked about my mother in-law in a bad way. My husband likes to check on my questions from time to time, which I don't mind, but I don't understand what his purpose is, I mean if he doesn't want me to complain to him then why read my complaints here & get upset afterwards? Anyway, after a big fight last night I posted a question related to my mother in-law, and today in front of his mother in the middle of a heated fight, he brought my account up and threatened to show the question to his mother. I of course didn't want that to happen and I couldn't believe that he could do that. I wrote those questions anonymously, in a way to vent my anger,

2007-06-11 06:49:43 · 31 answers · asked by trax2345 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I recently discovered that my wife has a secret collection of sexy lingerie that I have never seen her wear. I also found 2 toys and 4 bottles of flavored oils. Also, having previously mentioned her dislike of thongs to me, there were quite a few items that had matching thong panties. The lingerie has no store tags, so I'm assuming its been on her body at least once, nor can she say she just bought it for me as a "surprise" Is this enough proof of an affair and should I confront her, or should I sit back and continue to observe?

2007-06-11 06:48:40 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We been married for 1 yr now, I feel my wife still treats my mom as a stranger. It doesn't feel like they are daughter and mom type of relationship...how do I imrpove that? Please help...

2007-06-11 06:48:12 · 4 answers · asked by Auto S 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have asked several questions on here and I get mixed opinions. I have come to the conclusion that my husband is "acting" like he is angry just to derail me from asking him any questions and to discourage me from talking to him about anything. For instance, just about every single time we get into an argument he will either run into another room and shut the door or leave for hours. Five months ago he cheated on me and keeps telling me he can't deal with me wanting to rehash what happened between him and her. He also said that if I wanted to move on I would stop talking about it. He said he knows I will not forget but I should move on. It's not that easy. He is not a violent person but as of lately he has started flipping chairs and slamming things to show me he is upset. He didn't start doing this until several months ago. As long as I ball up and cry and get out of his ear he is fine. But when I am persistent he gets upset. Is he playing games? If so, how can I stop it?

2007-06-11 06:44:35 · 14 answers · asked by Hoping he will bless me with #1 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Let me rephrase the question Why does "SOME" black people excuse me... "African americans" always have to say "You know what I'm sayin"? or "You nah mean"? At least 5x per sentence? Why do "SOME" african americans wear their pants hanging from their knees? Before you say I'm racist..... thats right I'm black!!!. I never say "You know that I'm sayin or you nah mean" If I have to ask that 5 times per sentence, obviously I'm not explaining myself properly. Also, I never wore my pants sagging down to my knees where everyone can see my boxers. That's not a cool look at all. Can you see an employer hiring you looking and talking like that?

2007-06-11 06:43:24 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-11 06:43:23 · 4 answers · asked by TrophyWife 3 in Friends

I know that my wife has an affair because she goes out late and she have been calling and getting call from this guy. Should I just spy on her to get proof or just let it go and end it. I think that knowing it would hurt me more so I just let it go and end the relationship. Help!

2007-06-11 06:43:07 · 15 answers · asked by sos 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Some say they divorced because they simply weren't happy. Some say the spouse "changed" What can be done to lower the divorce rate? Shouldn't there be like a pre-requisite where as in order to get married, you have to attent marriage counseling for at least 3 months. At least this way, you'll know what to expect in a marriage.

2007-06-11 06:41:21 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I feel like a selfish, cold-hearted person but I can't shake the feeling that something just isn't right in my marriage. This ain't my first rodeo so I know what the signs look like but I keep telling myself it's just me. My husband stays on the computer most all of his off time. Playing cards of some sort. Says it relieves his stress. My step daughter is 14 but I can't get her to clean her room much less help with anything else and neither does he. He mows the yard and works. That's all a man is suppose to do. They don't like my church and don't want to go there which is ok with me but I love the folks there and miss them. His ex-wives stay in touch with him. One stops by his work to catch up on his life, his daughters mother just happens up on us wherever we may be. The daughter wants them back together and maybe I am in the way. When her Mom shows up she acts like she hates me but when we are home she calls me Mom and tells me how much she loves me. I'm just confused. Am I crazy?

2007-06-11 06:39:18 · 12 answers · asked by rose v 3 in Singles & Dating

My fiance and I have been together for 2.5 yrs, engaged for 5 months, and supposed to be getting married in September. A few weeks ago he broke down, extremely overwhelmed with his constant newfound negativity and has turned into a man that now has the thought of possible divorce on his mind. He has a few friends that are going through a divorce right now and he can't snap out of it. However, he is a wonderful guy and is thinking about my feelings as well as his own. There is absolutley nothing I can say or do to help. He started going to therapy which has only made him dig deeper into his past and seems to be freaking him out more. I get frustrated and sad and mad and any other emotion you could think of. We live together and have for a couple years. Should I leave for a little while and see what happens and give him space or do I stay and live in the unknown??

2007-06-11 06:39:00 · 22 answers · asked by BrusselSprouts 2 in Marriage & Divorce

not physically but verbally
see her parents are divorced and her mom isnt an alcholic or anything but sometimes she'll come to school crying ill ask her why but she doesnt say anything and when i go to her house her mom seems nice but my friend acts like she is afraid to say anything around her
i dont know what to do
ive tried talking to her but she wont say anything
she tells me nothing is wrong
please help!

2007-06-11 06:37:53 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-06-11 06:37:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

describe your best kiss and what he did to you that made it the best

2007-06-11 06:36:47 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-11 06:36:08 · 2 answers · asked by Sweet Thang 2 in Singles & Dating

I've been married for 15 yrs and w/him for 22. The relationship has been somewhat disfunctional from the start...not sure why I've let it go on for so long. We have 2 kids together, but I'm just not happy. I have met someone that I believe would treat me like my mom said I should be treated.. What do I do? Do I stay at home so my kid's lives aren't turned upside down? Or do I look to make myself happy?

2007-06-11 06:35:51 · 13 answers · asked by Crzybtch 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Matt you too..

2007-06-11 06:34:21 · 14 answers · asked by Oceanbreeze 2 in Singles & Dating

I live in Holland and the average height for men here is 6ft1. I'm 5ft11 and i would like to have a partner who is between 5ft6 and 5ft10 but they are very hard to find. I would like to be with a man who is shorter than me and who can appreciate tall women and thinks they are beautiful. Where can i find such a man in a country full of giants? Where would you start looking? I would like to hear some advices and tips. Thank you in advance.

2007-06-11 06:33:40 · 11 answers · asked by possessed Regan 4 in Singles & Dating

why is it when us men, get horny and randy, as we go up 4 the early nite.the other half always say NOT TO night love im tired, or the best 1 is ive got an head ache???????????????
or the bed makes too much noise, you wake up the kids/guest

2007-06-11 06:32:58 · 20 answers · asked by Lee 2 in Singles & Dating

suppose that u have a bad-tempered, easily annoyed husband. if a male friend of your's proposes to u to marry him what would u do then?suppose that he is almost your own age
and single and u have 2 kids

2007-06-11 06:31:45 · 13 answers · asked by donya 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I told a guy friend that I had feelings for him as more than a friend and I did not expect anything in return. He replied by saying he was glad I told him and that he always has a great time with me. He added that he appreciates that we can be honest with each other. He has never told me how he feels about me and is against the long distance thing. I took it as a not interested and have tried moving on from it. However I find that hard to do when he contacts me 3 times a week. I don't know what to do.

2007-06-11 06:31:04 · 2 answers · asked by Jen_n_TX 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-11 06:30:43 · 16 answers · asked by not me 6 in Singles & Dating