I'm thinking of committing suicide..........?

Question

I love my fiance' but for the year we've been together he has been accusing me of cheating, writing down every number I dial, checking the computer behind me to see what websites I go to, and when I was pregnant with our first child, he slapped me and kicked me out the car and drove off screaming out the window the baby wasn't his. I miscarried later that year. He says he loves me but what kind of love is this? What do you think is going on and what should I do? Sometimes I feel like I just want to die.

Answer 1

If you think that it is worth to save the relationship, then maybe a good place to start is couple's counseling. It does not appear to be a healthy relationship. Only if he is willing to go to therapy along with you, should you really want to try and make this work. But ask yourself, Does a person who really cares about me would act this way? Does a person who really cares about me make me abort? Does a person who really cares about me make me feel the way I do, now? No one is worth more than yourself except God. If you are feeling this desperate, then maybe it is time you move on. Seek guidance in God. If you need a friend, rest assure you have one in me.

Here is something for you to think about:


I AM WORTH A LOT
In a brief conversation, a man asked a woman he was pursuing the question "What kind of man are you looking for?" She sat quietly for a moment before looking him in the eye and asking, "Do you really want to know?" Reluctantly, he said, "Yes." She began to expound... "As a woman in this day and age, I am in a position to ask a man what he can do for me that I can't do for myself. I pay my own bills. I take care of my household without the help of any man...or woman for that matter. I am in the position to ask, "What can you bring to the table?"

The man looked at her. Clearly he thought that she was referring to money. She quickly corrected his thought and stated, "I am not referring to money. "I need something more. I need a man who is striving for perfection in every aspect of life. "He sat back in his chair, folded his arms, and asked her to explain. She said, "I am looking for someone who is striving for perfection mentally because I need conversation and mental stimulation. I don't need a simple-minded man. I am looking for someone who is striving for perfection spiritually because I don't need to be unequally yoked...believers mixed with unbelievers is a recipe for disaster. I need a man who is striving for perfection financially because I don't need a financial burden. I am looking for someone who is sensitive enough to understand what I go through as a woman, but strong enough to keep me grounded. I am looking for someone who I can respect. In order to be submissive, I must respect him. I cannot be submissive to a man who isn't taking care of his business. I have no problem being submissive...he just has to be worthy. God made woman to be a helpmate for man. I can't help a man if he can't help himself. When she finished her spill, she looked at him. He sat there with a puzzled look on his face. He said, "You are asking a lot. She replied, "I'm worth a lot."

Answer 2

No, I truthfully do not feel it's egocentric. Like you stated, why will have to any person are living in distress and anguish for the relaxation in their nugatory lives simply so folks may not be unhappy. And if any person dedicated suicide, then there shouldn't be too many folks that honestly adored and cared approximately that character. I constantly feel approximately killing myself for the reason that I am damaged into 1 portions, and there is not any approach to fix me for the reason that preices are lacking. And the ones charges had been stolen by means of the folks who quite do not care. The intent I have not commited suicide but is for the reason that I am most effective thirteen and there's a means that at some point my lifestyles will grow to be bigger. I've given my self till the age sixteen, if it does not get any bigger I have made up our minds to finish my lifestyles. Right then and there with a nife by way of my center. My very pethetic and damaged center.

Answer 3

Well you need to file a police report but go to stay at a friends or a relative get help do not commit suicide because of some idiot who cant trust his fiance call off the wedding and leave this guy alone he is just a low life women beater chances are you can do better

Answer 4

If you don't listen to anything else today, listen to this. Please do not take your own life. Your FIANCE is the one with the problem. I understand that you love him and that it is hard to let go of something that you are so used to. He kicked you out of a car, while you were pregnant! He does not trust you even though you have not given him a reason to. He obviously had a problem that he needs to get helpf for. You committing suicide is not going to help matters any. There are people out there who will love you for who you are and not abuse you. I think that you should get out of this abusive situation as soon as possible.

Answer 5

That would be a permanat solution to a temporary problem. He is childish and very insecure. You cannot fix these things. These are things that he needs some real help with, and it is not your responsibility. If a man treats you like that when you are pregnant, how will he treat you otherwise? Love is not enough to have a strong happy life together. It sounds like you need to get out. You should not settle for the way you are being treated. Relationships are suppose to be built on mutual respect, and care. I was married to man very similar to those traits, and it led to constant fighting, and my broken bones.

Answer 6

That isn't a love worth respecting. Some people aren't capable of a healthy, giving love. But even if we call that love, love is simply not enough! It takes more than that for a relationship to work. Plenty of peoples lives are ruined in a love relationship that can be very intense. It would be better to start over with someone who will treat you with respect. Once someone has demonstrated that kind of behavior, there is a strong indication it will continue in one form or another for a forever.

Answer 7

You need to leave this damaging relationship as soon as possible. Your "boyfriend" does not love you. He loves himself and you are his possession. Things will only get worse. His goal is to devalue you as a person until you get to the point where you believe this is true. When that happens he knows he has won and that you will never leave because you now believe the lies he has told you, that you are not worthy of the love others and that he is the only one who loves you and the only one that will ever love you. This is a lie meant to damage your spirit and heart. Suicide is not something that will affect him. It will only affect your family and the ones that truly care about you. He will just go on to to do the same thing to the next person he can lure into his web. Remember you are a valued and loved person by God. Get out now and don't look back. Your life depends on it.

Answer 8

There is NO man worth taking your life over! Easier said than done, but I've been there in some ways myself.
If this is "love" from this guy, you do not need it and neither does your child!!
He sounds immature, jealous and could turn even more violent! You need to find a shelter for battered women, take your child and go. It may seem terribly hard to do but think of what could happen if you stay? He WILL NOT change no matter what he says!

Answer 9

Your life is priceless never ever give up for a loser! If you kill yourself while you are dead he will be enjoying life again with someone else while you gave your life up for him and for what? you have a reason to live number 1 live for yourself you deserve to be happy too! Girl you need to know that there is someone out there that will do what he won't do including giving you the love and attention you deserve and desire you need to drop that zero and get a hero because nothing adds up with him but pain, tears and heart ache hold your head up and fight for your life that means kick him out of your heart although it will not happen overnight with desire and determination girl you can do it! You can do anything you set your mind to doing close down to him and do not give anymore you have given enough because enough is enough! It is time for you to start living for you and not him he only treat you like dirt and he will not change if he does it would be only be for a short time because he loss control just to get you back where he wants you he wants to control you stay in your mind thoughts and keep dragging you and taking you through changes. If you want your life back dump him and move on!

Answer 10

You're just at a low point in your life right now. Your fiance isn't making it better for you. Love doesn't slap, punch , kick, or cause you emotional pain. You have been going through a whole lot and seems to me like you need a good counselor or friend to talk to. No matter how you're feeling now everyone deserves to live and be happy. I think you're real depressed. Life is precious please don't end yours. Find someone to talk to. It will get better you just need to be open and honest and talk about it. Please don't give up on your life. If you need someone to talk to email me and I will be there for you.

Answer 11

Killing yourself is not the way to deal with it. I know exactly how you feel since I am in the same situation as you. I ask myself the same ?. How could he love me when he treats me so badly. No man is worth giving up your own life for. You need to leave. If you are afriad of what he would do there is places you can go that will help you out. I feel for you and wish you the best.