why is it womens good words are not tonite love??

Question

why is it when us men, get horny and randy, as we go up 4 the early nite.the other half always say NOT TO night love im tired, or the best 1 is ive got an head ache???????????????
or the bed makes too much noise, you wake up the kids/guest

Answer 1

My husband wanted sex last night. I ignored him. The man thinks with touching my shoulder and trying to yank down my undies, I'm suppose to be turned on. I don't know about you what kind of man or lover you are. But my husband either has no clue about how to please a woman. Or just doesn't care to. So I personally think if he is going to waste my time. I rather not be bothered.

Answer 2

Well its not all women who will answer this way
But I bet if she is a new mom.. the I'm tired response is very true!!
And most men don't realize that sometimes a women just has to feel loved.. don't forget forplay is a big part of making love and if women only get the Let's do it from a man.. you are bound to get a lot of "I have a headache" in your life..
Remember that sex starts before you reach that bedroom..
Like hugs, kisses, etc...
Make her feel loved and I bet the excuses go right out the window..
But remember.. now and again .. she just really might have a headache or is just plain tired or not in the mood...YUP IT DOES HAPPEN!!

Answer 3

Well I'm not married, but I am just the opposite of that! In fact, I am the one who is told NO, for VARIOUS dumb reasons. I know some women dont like sex that much. I would assume that is why they turn their men down. But other...I have no idea! I can see sometimes people dont feel in the mood. I have those days too. (and lately becoming more and more, caused by rejection) I feel mens pain on this issue!

Answer 4

It was Napoleon who said 'not tonight Josephine.' it's up to women everywhere to redress the balance. Of course, there could be something lacking with your technique. Maybe you should start being thoughtful, gentle and loving about 3 or 4 hours before you get to bed, and she'll feel like an early night too.

Answer 5

If you have done something that has made your mate angry, she may feed you that line instead of starting a fight about what the issue really is. Sometimes, after a long day of cleaning up after you, washing your clothes, cooking for you, chasing your kids, serving drinks or food to your friends, or waiting for you to come home from wherever you have been all day, she really does have a headache.

Answer 6

Well sonce men are diffferent than women their thoughts and ways of getting in the mood are more mental and emotional than physical.

Best thing to do is just pamper her and get use to rosie pam and her five sisters

Answer 7

you are obviously told no enough to know a few lines. if it came from the same woman i would say that she doesnn't want you. if it comes from different women, then they may be truthful, but majority of them just aren't interested. really, would you rather us say "look, i'm not feeling you, good night?", "you are not a turn on" or maybe you'd like to hear, "i'm just not that into you"... just take it as it is and move on.

Answer 8

because they wouldnt like u to ask them,
with my ***** i grab her hand shove her on the bed take off her clothes and my clothes and go on with my monkey business

she loves it

additional info:
mate u better check if shes shagging someone else if they dont want sex it sometimes means theyre seeing some other plonker

Answer 9

you men are not doing it good then or she no longer loves you or she has been out with another man

Answer 10

Im female and I seem to have this problem too... so it isnt just us that say we are too tired.