Family & Relationships - 11 June 2007

So I have been seeing this guy. Really he is a great guy. We have only been seeing each other for about 3 weeks. There are alot of things I am not attracted to. For one, he is 27, has a job (trades men) but doesnt own a home or even live on his own. He's not financially stable and it seems like he has no goals or career aspirations. Whereas I am 23, very successful in my career, bought my own house, live alone, financially secure and I have a five year plan and huge career aspirations. I am cute and stylish and love the finer things in life. He dresses bad and doesnt have appreciation for designer clothing, fine dining etc.
I know we have only been seeing each other for a few weeks, but it bothers me... should I cut my losses now, or see where this can go. I'm just afraid I will get to attached and it will hold me back from my goals. I am at a loss here... Also, if I end this, how do I do it? He is good friends with my best friends family.

2007-06-11 07:29:24 · 18 answers · asked by kkml 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-11 07:27:56 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

instead?

2007-06-11 07:27:56 · 7 answers · asked by Jahpson 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I saw a commercial about a TV special, where wife, is cutting her hair, I guess to try to leave, because her husband is trying to marry off their 13 year old daughter, I would like to know night and time it is on. Station also. thank You

2007-06-11 07:27:29 · 3 answers · asked by Anne2 7 in Marriage & Divorce

There is this boy I work with, his name is Joey. Last week, I admitted that I thought he was cute, and he said I was really sexy..... Should we become boyfriend/girlfriend???
He suggested it, but I was unsure......
I like teasing him and love the way his eyes curve when he smiles or laughs!!! By the way, we are lifeguards......

2007-06-11 07:27:06 · 3 answers · asked by Smart Kitty 7 in Friends

theres this guy i know..he told me he likes me..i thought he was joking coz we joke a lot at each other and we have been good friends since high school..i found out he really likes me but i still acted he was just joking around..after that he stopped being sweet..we dont joke anymore..and we aint that close anymore..i want him to be my boyfriend but i dont know what to say..and we are far apart..i dont know what to do..

2007-06-11 07:25:08 · 2 answers · asked by rentaw02 1 in Singles & Dating

This is the second time that she will be in jail. The first time the father and her told them she was in time out. She was able to say goodbye to her kids before she went to jail for about 2 months. This time she did not get to say goodbye and will most likely do 6 months or rehab. Not sure how to explain this to them?

2007-06-11 07:23:29 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

On May 16 2007, my friend V. call me borrow my money. She move to Louisiana with her husband and come back to Houston once every 2 weeks to visit her family. She ask me to used my credit card to cash out $1000 and deposit straight to her bank account to let her borrow to pay all her bills. She said that she have the cash with her but she can't deposit in the bank because there is no BankofAmerica in Louisiana and she forgot to deposit the cash in the bank when she come back to Houston two weeks ago. She said that she promise to paid me on that weekend when she come back to Houston. So i let her borrow the money, I call her right after i deposit the money to her account to let her know that the money already in her account. She said that she might not be able to go back to Houston on that weekend because she have to go to Alabama with her husband for his work meeting. She'll be back next weekend. on May 27 of 2007, she call me to let me know that she already back to Houston and she said that she only have half of the amount, she going to pay me half first and then send me the check ( other half) later when she come back to Louisiana. I said that's ok, and ask her is she come over on that afternoon to pay me the half like she said she does. She said "no, I have to go to the church early today, i said i pay half first doesn't mean i pay you today!). I said ok and I ask her (on the day you borrow my money, you said you have the cash with you, and now you said you don't have the cash with you, and your husband can't cash out his pay check because he get out of work to lake on Saturday, what's going on here?" She said "oh, I just buy $1,700 Flat TV for my dad as a early happy father gift because his TV start falling apart and I didn't come back to Houston that often so I decide to buy him a TV.) The next day, I call her through her mom house to ask when did she come over to pay me, she said that she have to take her niece and nephew to go watch movie and then she have to head back to Louisiana on that night, and that she don't have the money to pay me, she will pay (send the check) me all at one when she come back to Louisiana. I’m not working; I stay home to take care of my two children. My husband is the only person who is working in my family. I’m so scared that if she really doesn’t have money to pay me back, what am I going to do, I don’t have money to pay the bank, my husband make enough money to pay the house bill and to support the family, we don’t have any extra money to pay for any deft as it is we already have to much deft that we try to pay off. So I call her husband (He know about this too) and tell him to remind her to send me the check when they come back to Louisiana , so she won’t forgot ( my friend she always forget things that she need to do) and that I really need to money to pay the back to the bank. I try to call my friend on her cell phone but she never pick up her cell phone on that day so I have no choice but to leave her the messages about send the money to me through Western Union because it guarantee , it won’t get lost ,and it faster and she need to send it to me right away like that I can receive it on that Wednesday, the latest is Thursday, because I really need the money. On Monday night ( June 4, 2007), her and her husband come to pay me the money they said that they borrow the money from her mother in law to pay me back. Next Morning, she call me and ask if my bill come back yet? I said the mail usually come in the afternoon, that I may be received the bill on that afternoon. She said when the bill come back go pay of that bill and cash out another $1000 to let her borrow again. I said that I can’t let her borrow money again because I run in depth myself at that time ( I own my kids doctor $600 that I have to pay off ). She said that she really need the money, because after she pay me she don’t have anymore money to go to Georgia for Vacation. I said that I’m really sorry about that, but I can’t let her borrow any money at that time. Two hours later she call me in anger voice and said “first thank you for let me borrow the money, but you know what from now on you don’t have to worry about I’m going to borrow your money again because you been harassment me by leave me those message, you act like I ‘m take your money and gone way, that I’m not going to pay you. I don’t like the idea that you calling me so often about this situation.” I tell her that I didn’t mean to harassment her, that I’m never thinking that she going to steal my money. I ‘m just afraid that if she send the check in regular way, the check might be lost then I ‘m in trouble with the bank. She doesn’t believe me and accused me harassment her, and then she hung up the phone. Two hours after that I try to call her to said I’m sorry that I make her feel that way, and to solve the misunderstanding between me and her to save the friend relationship but she never pick up the phone. My husband tell me not to call them again, he said in this situation she was wrong and I was right, I have to right to ask for my money back, that she try to play walk around game with me, she intend not to pay me back the money, and if I didn’t call her husband on that day, she will not pay back my money. I want to know if I was really right and she was wrong in this situation. she still haven’t call me back yet! I don’t want to call her to said sorry to her because everybody said she was wrong, she liar to me. I , myself also feel that I was right in this situation. If she call me to said sorry then I’ll forgive her and be friend me again. If any of you in this situation, what are you going to do?

2007-06-11 07:22:28 · 21 answers · asked by bachtuyetlai 2 in Friends

everytime you argue. I feel like he throws the word "divorce" around way too often. he is going to another country to visit his family and i asked if was going to come back adn he said we will see. Then he said of course he will. I think he is just wrong for even saying these things. Should i pack his stuff for him and tell to stay? or what?

2007-06-11 07:20:47 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

and a relation wanted to stay for a month out of desparation in their life??

2007-06-11 07:20:33 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-06-11 07:19:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Until I met my present boyfriend, I was a very lonely widow. I am very comfortable and happy with him. Then an old flame revived our freindship. Also I see there are other men that show an interest in me that attract me. I don't want to remain single, but I am confused and most of all I don't want to hurt someone I love.

2007-06-11 07:18:58 · 2 answers · asked by Bond girl 4 in Singles & Dating

i want to start dating but all the girls I've talked to are more concern about how much money i got and who i know it's like they're not interested in me but what i can do for them i stay in Vegas and it's like all the females are like that and i treat women with nothing but respect and now i fell like going back to california because the girls seem more down to earth

2007-06-11 07:18:05 · 6 answers · asked by travon c 1 in Singles & Dating

my husband's "mistress" (whom he left me for 6 weeks ago) randomly sends me really rude and uncalled for text messages. they almost always come COMPLETELY out of the blue. like she is trying to start something. i'm to the point where i just completely ignore her. i never even let him know i got the text message. we were trying to be friends, my STB Ex and I, and she was getting in the way of that for a while, but now we're doing good a friends again. she seems to like drama. she braggs about how much $$ he has (though he has none, he just uses credit cards) and complains whenever i ask for $$ for our daughter (waiting on court date for official child support to begin). is she just doing this to drive a wedge between us so we will fight more and NOT be friends? or is she just a bit jealous and insecure?

i just dont get stupid girls! we simply want to be friends for our daughter's sake and b/c both of us agree we can't go from 8 years together to absolutely nothing.

2007-06-11 07:17:54 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfrined and I broke up 2 days ago, We got in a huge fight about me running red lights.. He was worried about his daughter safety while I was driving.. Yes I understand that... But he told me 100X i sware so I blew up... and I told him to get out of my truck, he told me if he got out he would shoot my horses.... So I said if you shoot my horses I will shoot his daughter! I reallllyyy wish I wouldnt have said that... I want him back so bad its not even funny, He said he would think about it but I would have to get his trust back, How can I gain his trust back ASAP?
I also have bipolar and that makes you say things you dont mean.

2007-06-11 07:17:38 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im 19, still havent experience the whole intercourse thing with my bf yet but im planning to...so is it true that we bleed and it is very painful the first time...?

2007-06-11 07:16:56 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How do you cheer someone up online or over the phone or something? They tell you they're really depressed. You can talk to them, I know that, but talking usually won't make them HAPPY. So what would you do to cheer them up?

2007-06-11 07:16:39 · 13 answers · asked by Dido 4 in Friends

HELP!!!!!! i need boy advice and quick

2007-06-11 07:15:28 · 50 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I know people say sexual compatibility is important, which is why many people do not abstain from sex till marriage, but is it not true that your first time is not going to be that great anyway? But with practice and communication, that is when it gets better and then you would become more compatible? Which would you rather have? Sexual compatibility with someone you do not even like? Or sexual compatibility with someone you love, who may not be sexually compatible, yet, but over plenty of communication, practice and time?

2007-06-11 07:14:08 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-11 07:12:30 · 38 answers · asked by 1pac 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay guys be true. What do you want most in a girl, tell all because other girls will be reading this. No holding back, you may help some girls. Also what can you live with out in a girl?

2007-06-11 07:11:23 · 13 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

when you meet someone,start to love him/her,have sex and break up while you love him/her strongly or when you meet someone,start to love him/her strongly,you don't confess you're in love because of your pride and you lose this love and get restless?

2007-06-11 07:09:53 · 13 answers · asked by unicorn 2 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend Cindy and I are 18 and soon to be 19. We are nearly done with High School, only a couple days left. We have played around before with me wearing some of her clothes before and it was sexy and fun. Over the last few months I have started to wear panties almost all the time at her suggestion, and I find it kind of exciting. We have gone shopping together and she has helped me buy feminine things to wear for her. Now she has said that she would like to get me a wig and do my makeup nice and take me out somewhere all dressed up. I am nervous but excited thinking about doing this. Where would be a good place to go for my first experience out as a girl? What do you think I should wear if I do decide to go through with this?

2007-06-11 07:09:07 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

one is white 5ft 9 brown hair and blue eyes. he has a wicked awsome scar on his left arm from when he rolled his car 18 times. i've been dating him for 3 months

the other is a tall black man, very handsome ( acording to my best friend and she knows hott), and very funny and sounds romantic over the phone. i've never met him but when i talk to him he sounds incredable.

*so what do you say??????? give me your advice

2007-06-11 07:09:07 · 29 answers · asked by queen_of_argyll13 1 in Singles & Dating

It's not a 2 carat platinum like I hoped for.. he got me a one carat white gold ring. I hope he doesn't do this with the wedding ring. You know how embarassed I'll be? Should I tell him or exchange it for something else on my own?

2007-06-11 07:08:53 · 56 answers · asked by JuDyLicious 3 in Weddings

I posted this question the other day, but hopefully I will get more dads to answer this time around. What would be a cool gift to get from your daughter for Dad's Day this year? I have a budget of $10-$30 including wrapping and card. I am looking for specific gift ideas - please no "gift cards" or "whatever you get him he will love" answers. Thanks!

2007-06-11 07:06:29 · 17 answers · asked by d_nanner 2 in Family

Hello I know their are plenty of questions relating to this subject but im just feeling so down that i need some answers for me personally. This past year i moved from an area where my boyfriend and i werent too far apart from each other. we saw each other almost everyday and were very intimate with each other. as a matter of fact we were each others first. we havnt seen each other for a few months but we kept in touch and never broke up because we still wanted to maintain a relationship. Well for about a month i didnt hear from him but when i did he, through teared eyes, told me that he had gotten another girl pregnant. His reasons were that a very close family member of his is dying and he wanted to have a baby before the family member died. Hes always been so great to me and i never suspected him in the past. I just love him so much and i dont know what to do because what makes it worse it that it seems the baby was concieved around my bday. Help would be appreciated please

2007-06-11 07:05:53 · 7 answers · asked by Tee 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm hooking up with one of my best friends. We started having more than just a platonic relationship toward the end of April. I never looked at him the way I do now. We aren't official, but nether one of us is talking to anyone else. (We have no time to where always together) So my question is how could i drop a few hint to let him know I like where our friendship has gone but i want it official?

2007-06-11 07:05:20 · 3 answers · asked by Miss_Royalty 2 in Singles & Dating

I need some wedding invitations for a beach wedding!!! Some of the sites I looked at the invitations are 100 bucks and that doesn't include anything else, like reply cards!!
I just want some cute invitations, beach theemed, sea shells, sunset, something like that, but not paying 200 bucks for 30 invites. Can anyone help me, I would APPRECIATE IT!!!!

2007-06-11 07:05:16 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I was at a club this past weekend and I saw the cutest guy ever! We talked exchanged numbers and hooked up afterwards. We've been hangin out and talkin on the phone all every minute since we met. This man is gorgeous. But the problem is my cousin called and said that he was her cousin...so that means he may be my cousin too. I asked my mom if she knew him but I didnt tell her what happened. She told me that "his mom is my grandpa's sister" so that makes him my what? I'm so shook up I haven't even got a chance to sit down and think about what that makes him to me! I think I jus f'd up big! But he's still callin and wantin to see me! And I actually had feelins for him that I haven't felt in a while. What should I do? No rude comments please (this situation is already bad enough!)

2007-06-11 07:05:06 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating