when you meet someone,start to love him/her,have sex and break up while you love him/her strongly or when you meet someone,start to love him/her strongly,you don't confess you're in love because of your pride and you lose this love and get restless?
2007-06-11 07:09:53 · 13 answers · asked by unicorn 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The second one hurts the most in the long run.
While the first hurts pretty bad, there is a sense of closure so to speak.
The second isn't as immediately painful, but you'll be left with that lingering regret and self doubt. There is nothing worse than "What ifs."
Thats just my opinion.
2007-06-11 07:13:59 · answer #1 · answered by smashcruiserarc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer to who hurts the most is simple! The person who really loved the other one with true love is the one. Because they put all of their faith into their partner, trusting them and wanting to be with them all their life. Also, never mix pride and love together. Pride deals with the brain and love deals with the heart. Brain and heart are two different things. When it comes to love, forget your brain.
2007-06-11 14:16:16 · answer #2 · answered by ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What hurts the most is the loss of trust at the end of a relationship. Life is short. Make sure the people in your life always know you love them.
2007-06-11 14:14:02 · answer #3 · answered by mediahoney 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it hurts more to have already had some1 truted them enough to have sex with them and then end up breaking up than to just lust after som1
because crushin on sum1 w/ out it turning into sumthing you wouldnt have to worry about remembering all the memories and trying to get over the past b4 you broke up where as loving and having sex with some1 is very emotional and will leave memories some even un4getable
2007-06-11 14:17:01 · answer #4 · answered by ♥BitterSweet♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are going too fast, you have to give yourself time to get over one before you can engage in another, It is not fair to go out with someone unless you tell them that you are hurt and trying to get over someone. You must do that , then be honest with yourself and the other person. I know , I am doing it , I am just as hurt as I have ever been in my life.
2007-06-11 14:15:44 · answer #5 · answered by hog rock 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If we can agree both scenarios hurt, what does it matter which one hurts worse? It's a contest you'd rather not enter.
2007-06-11 14:15:10 · answer #6 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the first one.
the second one is because of ur own stupid self but getting hurt by someone else is wayyy worse than getting hurt by someone else.
2007-06-11 14:13:07 · answer #7 · answered by HOLLiSTER PREP 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
always when you confess about something, it makes you feel good wheather you loose it or not.
i think hiding your emotions is more painful.
2007-06-11 14:14:48 · answer #8 · answered by Persian Male 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
done both. both hurt like hell. but the second one always leaves you wondering what if.
2007-06-11 14:13:35 · answer #9 · answered by princessfionafantasy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm a virgin so i have to comment that the second one would hurt me more
2007-06-11 14:13:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋