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HELP!!!!!! i need boy advice and quick

2007-06-11 07:15:28 · 50 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Friends

50 answers

stop calling and texting him! if he likes you he will come and get you hon!

2007-06-11 07:17:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

He gave you his number to be nice, and then when you bombarded him, it scared him offf.
You DO need boy advice.
First of all, 13 is too young to have a boyfriend. Hang with your friends, enjoy your freedom, think about the future you want. As soon as you get a bf, you will find out most boys are WAY more trouble than they are worth. You will get your heart broken more than once.
The younger you are starting out, the more you will get hurt. Why start? Treat boys like they are boneheads, and you will be just about right. SOME boys somewhere are polite, and funny, kind and unselfish, but I never met one.
Boys are about doing exactly what they want all the time, and if they find a girl who will cooperate, ok. If not, they will keep messing around until they find someone who will put up with them.
You DESERVE to do what YOU want to do, too--within reason and safety.
Good luck finding a boy who will follow YOU around. You will be bored in a day or two.
Stop calling him, texting him, and IF he gets in touch with YOU, then you might WAIT a day-and then answer-
Leave him wanting more--Boys like that. Honest....
Next time, let HIM ask you for your number, and answer him IF he calls. Call--back and forth--but don't badger boys-they HATE that. Don't be so desperate.

2007-06-11 07:36:02 · answer #2 · answered by Lottie W 6 · 0 1

im a man not a boy .. sorry
lol
jk
just leave him.. dont show ur interest too much.. human mind functions like the following

i dont want the things i have but i would like the things i cant have...
prove me wrong anyone

so leave him and dont show any interest at all he would come back trust me .. even then dont give him space.. and he will do something u will love which is romantic and he'll go through hell for that to show u how much he loves u...

comeeee on ur a girl i shouldnt b telling u all this u should b telling me... :D:D
do wat i told u trust me


additinal info:

wait a minute.. 1994 isnt ur birth year is it..
come onnn its too young to go out with a guy just enjoy ur life forget about him.. im sure u will find a very good person in the next few years.. maybe when ur 16 or 17.. because u'll b mature enough to act and would have experience with ppl like this "boy"

2007-06-11 07:20:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Repeatedly calling and texting when he is not responding makes you appear over-anxious, if not a little desperate. It's possible that he is unable to respond at the moment. He could be in a movie theater, or on a job interview, or driving and trying to be a responsible cell phone user, something we don't see often enough! If he checks his messages when he is finally able to return the calls/texts and finds that you have called over and over again it will not sit well with him, trust me.
To find out if he is just avoiding you, try getting a friend you know he likes to call him and see if he answers that person!

2007-06-11 07:21:27 · answer #4 · answered by mombat 2 · 0 0

Using the description "boy", I would have to say perhaps you are TOO young to be remotely concerned with the dating scene. The very fact that you did not know the obvious answer to this Q.....is in itself proof, confirming the first mention of advise I gave you.

He is not into you.
It may hurt, but as many others have said, or pry will say.....STOP texting him, STOP calling him!!! Its desperate, and makes someone unworthy, put in a place of TOO MUCH WORTH.....leave the "boy" alone, and give yourself time to grow before you date "boys" please!
~7~

2007-06-11 09:08:13 · answer #5 · answered by º§€V€Nº 6 · 0 0

if he doesn't call back or text you back he probably doesn't want to answer it because he is too nervous to talk to you. this only applys if you didn't ask for his number. or maybe he found someone else and for got that he gave his number to you. if you have no idea on what he thinks or how he feels than move on to the next guy. it is a pretty big world out there.

2007-06-11 07:24:38 · answer #6 · answered by EtHIoPiAn PrInCeSs 1 · 0 0

Stop calling and stop texting. If he wants to talk sweetie he will call you back I promise. You probably have scared him off the rules are you call once and leave a message maybe twice depending on how cute he is but if he doen'st return your call forget about him. Good Luck!!! FYI if you keep calling you will seem really really desperate.

2007-06-11 07:21:18 · answer #7 · answered by KH 2 · 0 0

I hate to say it, but forget him! If he would be a man and answer your calls and messages, then it would be different. He's probably either got a girlfriend or something and just isn't man enough to tell you.

Good god, that sounds so negative!!! I'm sorry! :) But seriously, he's immature and should be pushed to the side! Go find someone that will actually answer his messages and calls!!!!

2007-06-11 07:21:40 · answer #8 · answered by Rock Goddess 3 · 0 0

Call a couple times, leave a message, then let it be. If he didn't want you to call him, he wouldn't have given you his number. I don't know about it, but I have definitley gone a week without my phone because it was dead or other reasons. If you see him around town, causally ask, "Hey! You get my message?" That's that.

2007-06-11 07:19:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

It depends does he know your number if he does maybe when you call he's avoiding you. If he doesn't know your number then he just doesn't answer strange numbers. In your text message did you tell him who u were if u did then he know's thats your number. No guy is worth begging if it was meant to be than it will be.

2007-06-11 07:22:08 · answer #10 · answered by Crystal 1 · 0 0

My advice is two fold, either confront him and ask him why is is being so rude or forget him he isn't worth you wasting your time over. There are lots of boys out there that would be happy to answer their phones.

2007-06-11 07:20:25 · answer #11 · answered by mamafresh3 2 · 0 0

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