My boyfrined and I broke up 2 days ago, We got in a huge fight about me running red lights.. He was worried about his daughter safety while I was driving.. Yes I understand that... But he told me 100X i sware so I blew up... and I told him to get out of my truck, he told me if he got out he would shoot my horses.... So I said if you shoot my horses I will shoot his daughter! I reallllyyy wish I wouldnt have said that... I want him back so bad its not even funny, He said he would think about it but I would have to get his trust back, How can I gain his trust back ASAP?
I also have bipolar and that makes you say things you dont mean.
2007-06-11 07:17:38 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The fact that you are bipolar isn't an excuse, you just choose to make it one.
You threatened his daughter, that is way over the line. If I were him, not only would I never see you again but I would report you to the police. He needs to get a restraining order on you and fast. Lets be honest, he needs to cut you out of his life for good. The fact that you are bipolar makes you a bad match for any guy, sorry to say but it is true. That you are running red lights with his daughter in the car just proves that fact.
That being said, I can't believe he allows you to even see his daughter let alone be responsible for her at times. What is he thinking?
You really need serious medical help, I hope you get it soon.
2007-06-11 11:40:34 · answer #1 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you must accept that you might not be able to get his trust back, but you can try, and that is the right thing to do. You may want to phone him or sent him a letter and tell him that you are sorry and that you know you said the wrong thing. You must somehow learn to never run a red light again. This, of course, is for your own safety as well as that of passengers, and you don't want to get a lot of tickets, either, so tell him he was absolutely right, then stop running red lights and leave earlier before you drive so that you will not be in such a hurry as to be tempted to run a red light. I like to tell myself that red lights or so that I can relax and breathe deeply before continuing, then I do that. You could send him flowers or candy as a love offering if it is possible. If you have a friend that would help you, you can ask that person to talk to him and tell him that you have changed.
You say that you are bipolar and this is the cause of your erruption of temper and maybe also related to why you run red lights. Your doctor or county mental health can help you with this. There is medication that can help you, and you can learn relaxation technique or take yoga class, and there may be other things you can do, such as talk out your problems that will help you to be a better companion and be in control of your feelings and manners in a way that pleases you and others more. If you have a sense of humor, a good joke sometimes makes all the difference. And of course, now is the time to show your boyfriend in every way that you love him.
2007-06-11 14:34:07 · answer #2 · answered by Bond girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What u said about his daughter is not only disturbing but also gives him every right to take ur daughter away. Horses and kids are not the same to use to get back at each other. Horses and his favorite car but not his daughter. U need help.
2007-06-11 14:23:00 · answer #3 · answered by memyslf&I 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋