Family & Relationships - 11 June 2007

he goes out and spends money on rediculous things such as rentals from Blockbuster and Junk food when really we can put that money to better use. What can I do?

2007-06-11 09:14:55 · 11 answers · asked by raemom05 2 in Marriage & Divorce

an ex got back in touch recently, and wanted to chat. He didn´t give me much time to make other arrangements so I couldn´t meet him as I had to go to work. I haven´t heard from him since, even though I have sent him a message to say that my reason was geuine, and that I would have met him if I wasn´t at work.

I really feel that he has taken the mickey out of me again, and seems to be dangling a carrot, then taking it away.

Should i call him and tell him that I think that he is being unreasonable and that i don´t appreciate the way that he keeps playing with my feelings or should i just leave it and walk away. I think that he should know that he is hurting me again, and that i don´t like it.

What do you guys reckon?

2007-06-11 09:14:28 · 11 answers · asked by Loli 2 in Singles & Dating

he's in prison in lowa

2007-06-11 09:10:23 · 3 answers · asked by Ashley M 1 in Family

My boyfriend and I have been living together for the past year and we've been together for two years. I expected that shortly after we moved in together, we'd get engaged. We've had the talk and he keeps saying it will happen "soon." Six months ago, he said we'd be engaged in six months and it still hasn't happened. He's unemployed at the moment, so I'm sure that's affecting things. But I really want to move forward with our life together and I feel like he's taking his time. What should I do?

2007-06-11 09:08:45 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-06-11 09:07:52 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

How much would a seamstress charge to remove layers of fabric from a wedding dress?
I am having a destination wedding on a beach in just about a year. I found a dress that I absolutely love. However, it would be too hot to wear on a beach with all the layers of fabric that are in it. I want to know how much a seamstress would charge to remove a few of them?

2007-06-11 09:07:46 · 5 answers · asked by Kayleigh♥ 4 in Weddings

2007-06-11 09:06:50 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

If one night out everyone was asking some girl in your college if she liked one of your friends and she acted all embarrassed and ran off (obvious that she does like him) what would you do?
Tell your friend or not?

(i'm the girl who likes the friend by the way)
and it was all guys asking

just want to know if they'd tell him or mention anything

2007-06-11 09:02:46 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I heard about an idea where each couple gets x amount of dollars and goes to the grocery store to pick up ingredients for dinner. Then they make dinner together. Has anyone every done this or something similar? Any ideas or advice?

2007-06-11 09:00:20 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-11 08:59:13 · 16 answers · asked by possessed Regan 4 in Singles & Dating

my bf david uses xD whats that mean?

2007-06-11 08:57:51 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We have seen several counselors about this and other issues in our relationship,and he goes along,but blows off their advice to him concerning areas he must work on.We are financially 'ok',not poor,nor wealthy,but when it comes to him spending any money,he is a miser.I have to 'ask' for everything,and 99% of the time get told 'no'.So,I have to sneak behind his back to get necessities for us,even underwear from Walmart.Im tired of the sneaking part,I just want him to give in,and say 'yes' once in awhile,show some support of the home,etc....My kids are grown,so its only us two.My income goes towards bills,but some has to be used to supplement where he refuses to budge.His income is used for bills,and such too,but he only allows me to spend $75 for 2 weeks grocerys,so I supplement from my stash.

2007-06-11 08:57:40 · 13 answers · asked by ms ellimae 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My dad and his almost wife Paige are gettin' married. I'm really nervous because last time my dad got married,it didn't work out and they got devorsed. I'm afraid that Paige won't be the right girl and they'll get devorsed,too. This is a sticky situation for me. I'm the flower girl in their wedding and my dress is the cutest little thing I have seen. I'm really excited that we get to keep it!(I think we'll get to keep it,and if we do,I wanna bring it home w/me!) NE ways,I need advice! I'm scared!

2007-06-11 08:56:24 · 3 answers · asked by grace_hansen_2015 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-11 08:56:14 · 6 answers · asked by Ramallah 1 in Family

im a guy and i get afraid of being rejected so how do i convince myself not to be afraid of rejection!

2007-06-11 08:54:59 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

wen breaking the ice w/ someone, and starting a new conversation, wat r a couple of questions i could ask to start a conversation?

2007-06-11 08:54:57 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

That marriage is 50/50? Shouldn't it be 100/100? thoughts?

2007-06-11 08:54:50 · 15 answers · asked by juda75 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Well our school is going to Six Flags. But it's an "unofficial field trip." Basically parents, and not the school, sets the trip up, but the school still helps with it. Anyways, parents and teachers were debating if we should be made to wear our uniforms. After much debate, we cannot be forced to wear our uniforms on a field trip not run fully by the school. But many parents and teachers want this as we would be easier to find, representing the school, less likely to misbehave, etc. So the deal I have is if I wear my school uniform on the trip, I would get 15 points Extra Credit in every class. That sounds like a great deal (because I am always worried about my grades, and I really need some EC in some classes), but none of my friends are doing this. My friends don't care as much as me about grades, so they are not doing this. What should I do? Should I do it to boost my grades? I mean, its only clothes, but I also want to have fun. Should I do it? Can anything bad happen?

2007-06-11 08:53:21 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-06-11 08:53:03 · 25 answers · asked by carnivore al a mode 2 in Weddings

I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years and have wanted to get married for a really long time. After a lot of pestering he finally proposed to me in February and gave me my ring last week. I then discussed with him the possibility of setting a date for 2009 which seems agreeable and realistic but he doesn't seem keen and asks me what the big hurry is. I really do love him but is it really fair to make me wait longer. Does he really have true intentions with me? What do you think?

2007-06-11 08:52:16 · 38 answers · asked by Pearl 5 in Weddings

what do you think about under age and engaged?

2007-06-11 08:50:53 · 17 answers · asked by babygirljaz109 1 in Weddings

I have been working for this company for a year now, and I really enjoy it alot. I get along with everybody like a family. The problem is that it is a 45 minute drive, and I have requested a raise, and it has not been granted. I know that several of my collegues did get raises, and I did not. My performance is good, I think, and everyone always tell me that I do a great job. My financial situation is tight, and I really need to bring home more money. I have 2 kids, and my husband already works overtime. I got the heads up on a possible job 10 minutes from my home, and I don't know whether or not to go for it. I would not quit one job, unless i have another, but I really need a raise, and I really like this job. What should I do?

2007-06-11 08:50:39 · 17 answers · asked by ACE Tx 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-11 08:44:49 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I kind of saw this question a bit late. If you are a catholic and you are looking for one. its one of the most difficult things.

As what Mr. Vijay mentioned legally irrespective of the Church Anulling a marriage only a Divorce through a court is valid.

But keeping the religions sentiments which many of us in India are bound to, to have the second marriage recognised by the church: below is how it goes -

Catholism kind of preaches against Divorces and its only Annulment that takes place. For this you would need to go to the local Bishop Palace / Archdioce and meet the Church's Judicial Vicar, present your case. Once the Judicial Vicar accepts your case you and your spouse would be put before the Church's panel and cross questioned, there would be arguements, submission of evidences and after this the Legal team of the Church investigates and only if convinced gives a decree of annulment.

Now this rarely takes place unless Adultry is proved and which is next to impossible!!

2007-06-11 08:44:12 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

so i really like this guy, but im not sure he likes me. i think he does. its summer and he is going away to college next year so he doesnt want anything serious but we hang out and do stuff all the time. i want a relationship with him but i dont know what to do because i dont want to lose him as a friend either. HELP ME.

2007-06-11 08:43:03 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ive been in a relationship for almost 3 years now. We have alot of strong feelings for eachother but lately we have been arguing non stop. So we have decided to "take a break". We are still going to communicate but just not see eachother since it always seems to turn in to a fight. Even though this was my idea, i feel a bit abandoned. Even though he is on my very last nerve i dont want to be apart from him. Do breaks really work? I really dont know what can be accomplished other than just cooling off. The problems will be there when we get back, if we get back. Please understand this is a serious (adult) relationship, we have been through alot together and have really stuck by eachother and we had planned on eventually getting married. But does this break really mean we are at the end?

2007-06-11 08:42:39 · 48 answers · asked by persian princess 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Im my girlfriend's seccond boyfriend shes had. when she told her friend she had a boyfriend she didnt believe her? y?

2007-06-11 08:42:37 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im a 22 yr old woman who is married with 2 kids. Im currently living with my parents due to the fact that I was pregnant when my husband was sent to Japan to be stationed there and I was high risk and the military wouldnt let me fly over with him due to potential complications. Anyway my question is this: How do you deal with parents who go through your cell phone to see who you have been talking to? What do you say when they ask you 50 questions as to where you have been (even if you take the kids with you)? How do you handle it when they tell you that if you cheat on your spouse they will disown you? Keep in mind that I am 22, married, with two kids AND I pay rent and buy groceries, further more they invited me to live here until everything was taken care of so that I can move...however long I needed. I still need to be respectful to my folks of course, I always have been and I try to make things as easy as possible for them by cooking and cleaning ALOT, plus taking care of the kids.

2007-06-11 08:39:25 · 10 answers · asked by jessieboyd2003 1 in Family

2007-06-11 08:39:01 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Cause everyone at my age are doing it and Im about to go into my senior year and still havent done it, I just want to wait at the right time but not too long I dont want to end up like the 40 year old virgin whats your thought about this?

2007-06-11 08:37:48 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating