im a guy and i get afraid of being rejected so how do i convince myself not to be afraid of rejection!
2007-06-11 08:54:59 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We are all afraid of rejection, this is natural. We face rejection every single day, not just within a relationship.
If you smile at someone and they don't smile back, this is a form of rejection. If you apply for a job and don't get it; this is a form of rejection. Life is just full of rejections.
Get use to it and learn to deal with it and go forward.
2007-06-11 08:59:45 · answer #1 · answered by Patty G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rejection is like drinking out of a carton of expired milk. It's an initial shock, leaves a bad taste in your mouth, but soon it over and you go for a new carton. Unlike some things in life rejection is a quick pain. Your fear of rejection controls the way you interact with the opposite sex. Woman can tell when you are uneasy and in some cases can be a turn off. I have had a lot of instances in my life where I didn't talk to a girl ,because I thought she would reject me.only to find out later that the girl was interested in me. Hey take a chance just talk to a girl you will be fine. Get rejected just pick up your face put in on and on to the next..............Good luck.
2007-06-11 09:03:02 · answer #2 · answered by newburg_2_fine 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Swallow a million tsp. white table sugar, dry. A study got here across that this stopped hiccups as we talk in 19 out of 20 human beings. Repeat as much as 3 extra situations at 2-minute periods if necessary. Step2Gulp down a tumbler of water if the sugar does not artwork. Step3Slowly eat a bite of dry bread. Step4Breathe out and in of a paper bag. do not use a plastic bag below any circumstances, and don't try this longer than a million minute. Step5Gargle with water (see 'the thank you to Gargle'). Step6Repeat the above steps till your hiccups provide up
2016-11-10 03:18:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
From where I'm sitting, its a young thing to be afraid of rejection. Yea, when your younger or inexperienced you don't realize how short life is and its easier not to put your self out there. I was in sales and competitive jobs so I discovered early, its not the win that propells you, its the enduring putting of yourself out there that propells you to sucess! The world is your oyster and its a secret to alot of people. Apply your self, be relentless in a good way, you gain confidence and really get to know who you are in the world. This only makes you more appealing cause you learn how to size up people, situations, you learn its ok if someone doesn't get you, cause you have the confidence to know many others will, and they will warmly get you. You build character, humor, and will appreciate people (women) and be better rounded. The world needs men who can promote themselves. Endeavor!
2007-06-11 09:09:42 · answer #4 · answered by kim 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That comes with confidence. If you are not confident then you will be afraid of rejection. You have to approach the situation thinking "whatever happens I'm cool with it". Because if not, it will bother you and you won't be able to approach a female because you are afraid of rejection.
2007-06-11 09:00:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
always remember that there are many girls out there for you who would love to be your gf. be confident in yourself & don't let rejection put you down & make you think less of yourself. be able to move on from girls who may not have the same feelings as you, unless you feel that girl is SOO special that you want to hold on to her then fight for it. there's nothing wrong with taking a risk if you feel you TRUELY love & care for someone cause it will all be worth it in the end, but remember stay confident & if you get rejected by someone you might have had like a lil crush on, just brush it off & move on. stay strong & follow your heart (=
2007-06-11 09:01:43 · answer #6 · answered by anonymous 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Truthfully, there is no real answer. I don't have a girlfriend, but I've been rejected. It's not as bad as it seems, trust me, so just go for it, you'll be sorry if you don't. Even being rejected is better than not asking at all ;).
2007-06-11 08:59:26 · answer #7 · answered by M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rejection is not a bad thing. It keeps you from wasting your time. There could be 1000 different reason why she's not interested in you and they all have to do with her internal thoughts and feelings. It is not personal.
2007-06-11 08:59:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have been rejected many times and it always hurts on the inside but u will always be rejected its just something thats happends all the time no way to prepared just find out if she really likes u then ask
2007-06-11 08:59:56 · answer #9 · answered by slayer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since we can't win 'em all...you are going to be rejected at one time or another.
Just say to yourself, 'hey, what have I got to lose, it's not like I had this girl to begin with so it's no real loss.'
Better to take the chance than not take it at all.
Because you take a chance, you will find someone who is great for you.
2007-06-11 09:00:56 · answer #10 · answered by Cdn Chic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋