I have been working for this company for a year now, and I really enjoy it alot. I get along with everybody like a family. The problem is that it is a 45 minute drive, and I have requested a raise, and it has not been granted. I know that several of my collegues did get raises, and I did not. My performance is good, I think, and everyone always tell me that I do a great job. My financial situation is tight, and I really need to bring home more money. I have 2 kids, and my husband already works overtime. I got the heads up on a possible job 10 minutes from my home, and I don't know whether or not to go for it. I would not quit one job, unless i have another, but I really need a raise, and I really like this job. What should I do?
2007-06-11 08:50:39 · 17 answers · asked by ACE Tx 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
with gas prices being what they are yeah i would definately check out the other job and yeah you have alot on your plate and 45 min down to 10 would be a considerable amount of less time driving absoloutly go for it . good luck .
2007-06-11 08:56:35 · answer #1 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you talked to your boss - the person who approves raises - about your request for a raise being rejected? You think your performance is good but he or she may not agree. What everyone always tells you about your job performance may not mesh with what goes in a report that is used in evaluating performance for raises. Why not ask your boss why you didn't get a raise. Don't react to whatever is said except in the most even-handed way (you hear what is being said, you say you will consider what you have been told.) In the meantime, apply for the other job. When the news gets back to your boss, he or she will probably let you go if the new job is offered to you. If they ask you to stay, tell them that perhaps the new job is a better 'fit' for you since you did need that raise but realize that you're probably not in line with the company's expectations. Be sure that you aren't burning bridges. Have the discussion be the most positive and accepting it can possibly be. But anyone who has a family will understand you have financial stresses too. Don't stay for promises. Maybe you can get the raise in the form of some other benefit that helps you financially - for now.
2007-06-11 09:05:24 · answer #2 · answered by kathyw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as this other job is something you want to do, then there's no harm in filling out an application. A 45 minute drive is quite a bit. Getting the other job will save you time and gas money. Unless there's anything holding you back from applying, then I say go for it. What have you got to lose?
2007-06-11 08:54:33 · answer #3 · answered by 2Beagles 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Taking a new job saves you 70 minutes a day in travel time along with the cost of gas. If you change jobs closer to home, you already have a raise. Get the other job first before you quit the one you have.
2007-06-11 08:57:23 · answer #4 · answered by Patty G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need to pursue other options that pay more. From what you wrote, compensation is a factor in determing where you work. You already know what you get paid at current company and they don't view you as someone that should get more right now. Go see what else is out there and if something better comes along, more than just money, then pursue it.
2007-06-11 08:54:53 · answer #5 · answered by David B 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you make the same amount of money with your new job, that might save you about $40 a week, just in gas. Plus, you get home quicker! Take it!
2007-06-11 09:07:48 · answer #6 · answered by Sondra 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
needs must hun.. go for the other job - secretly. If you get offered the job then you go to your boss and tell them you have been offered another job that pays better. They'll either offer you more money to stay or say goodbye. If they say goodbye then they werent worth it anyway - obviously didnt appreciate you. If they offer more money then its your decision to weigh up the options!!!
you've got nothing to lose by going for this other job hun!
good luck!
2007-06-11 08:56:54 · answer #7 · answered by Lynsey F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My experience has been that its hard to find a job where you like the people. But you have to weigh your priorities. Is it more important to have a higher paying job closer to home, or to have a job where you like the people though farther and not paid as well. It is totally up to you. I know people who have done either choice, frankly it took time but either way they ended up being happy. Its your choice.
2007-06-11 09:01:34 · answer #8 · answered by brk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW!! I am actually in a similar situation! Just trust your heart and your living situation. You can always stay friends w/ them all and a connections. You need to do whats best for your family
2007-06-11 09:59:06 · answer #9 · answered by giggly33 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your first loyalty is to you family not your employer.
Your employer is not meeting your needs.
It will benefit you family to make this change.
I know the comfort to stay where you are is great, but look at the greater good to your family by moving on.
2007-06-11 09:37:50 · answer #10 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋