Cause everyone at my age are doing it and Im about to go into my senior year and still havent done it, I just want to wait at the right time but not too long I dont want to end up like the 40 year old virgin whats your thought about this?
2007-06-11 08:37:48 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I lost my virginity when I was 15, so I completly respect you for waiting because as excited as I was about losing it, it was nothing like what I imagined it would be and in the end I regreted it. After it was all said and done had I of waited, it would have been so much better. I could have done it with someone who cared about me AS MUCH as I cared about them, it could have been "special". As a 22 yr old woman with 2 kids, Im telling you that sex is sooooo much better when you TRULY love the person. Never do something just because someone else has done it or because someone else wants you to do it...thats crazy. You do things because its what YOU want and people respect that. Im just saying, that for a girl sex is also emotional not just physical like it is with MOST boys...and I say boys because thats what they are when its just a physical thing and they could careless who the girl is. SO since its more emotional for us women its better to love the person and to make sure that the person loves you back just as much that way your heart doesnt get broken.
2007-06-11 08:50:45 · answer #1 · answered by jessieboyd2003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way! What are you left out of? Everyone has their own personal experience with sex. It is not a race and each person is different. I waited until I was 22 and do not regret that at all. Actually, I wish I had waited longer (or at least chosen someone different! lol). People are impressed that I waited so long. It is easier to just "do it" than to say no and wait for the right time. Take your time. Sex isn't the coolest thing you can do. (Dogs have sex all the time... it doesnt make them special or cool does it?) Do it when you are ready with someone who respects you. Do it safe and don't try and rush it. There is no reason to.
Good luck!
2007-06-11 08:44:21 · answer #2 · answered by kennedy643 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take your time. Don't think about what everyone else is doing,because the ones that have lost there virgin and also me, feel used and abused because that guy that you think you will spend the rest of your life with after you give him your virginity will not be. And that's something that you can not take back, so don't makes that up, I wish i would have wanted until I was marry. It is so special when you do.
Keep Christ in your life and wait on him to show you the way.
2007-06-11 08:51:28 · answer #3 · answered by Strawberry Shortcake 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no reason to feel left out, I was 12 when I first had sex, and I have 3 kids and 1 on the way now. Looking back I wish I would have waited cause man, having all these baby mommas calling is bad news. Just wait until you find the right girl.
2007-06-11 08:52:47 · answer #4 · answered by Joker 69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
losing your virginity is your own personal choice. 'doing it' should be anything BUT done because of pressure. chill out and give it a little time. my first was when i was 19 and in retrospect i wish i had waited just a little bit longer. i dont regret it, but i do still wish that.
the 40 yr old virgin is a MOVIE and a comedy at that. i'm not saying it's never happened to anybody, but it's really not ruddy likely.
try to relax and be comfortable with where you are sexually no matter when anything happens. know the other person for at least a month and take at least a week of when the question of 'do we want to do it' before you give a final answer. that way you know you want it at the time (ie you're really ready for it) and with that person for sure!
hey-you never forget your first. make it special for you! lol.
2007-06-11 08:47:51 · answer #5 · answered by Dear Abby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't feel left out b/c I would not care b/c that is their life and this is mine. If you find a special person you want to do this with, then good for you. Trust me, I don't think you are going to end up like the 40 yr old virgin. Don't feel pressured to do it just to do it. If you want to do it, make sure it is good and that it is with the right person and it is not wasted. You are not the only person who is waiting for the right time. Sex is too important to rush into anything.
2007-06-11 08:44:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep yourself a Virgin. If you want to copy the other seniors, do so in a positive way, ie: sports, homework, etc. Being a Virgin is the only special something you can give your husband that you have not given to your boyfriends. Stay a Virgin until you are married. You will want to have this experience only with your husband. Try to have ALL of the seniors see how cool you are, and have them adapt to you. Always make a difference in your life in a positive way. I promise you, this is one decision you will not regret.
2007-06-11 08:53:50 · answer #7 · answered by Alicia M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it. Just wait for the right one. Just because everyone else is doing it doesn't mean that you necessarily have to. I'm 17 and I'm a virgin and I really don't care if everyone else is doing it. As long as I lose it with the one I love and not some girl I'll only see for one night.
2007-06-11 08:42:04 · answer #8 · answered by mKsTpN0y 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok.u dont have to lose ur virginity just cause everyone else is.i was a virgin till i was almost 17.it was with someone who i thought i was inlove with...i was wrong.but still.wait until YOU feel ur ready.and it doesnt mean that u will end up like the 40yr old virgin.haha.even if its not with who u want to spend the rest of ur life with...just wait until you are ready.cause there may be a lot of 12 and 13yr olds doin it but that just means that most of them are ho's just when ever ur ready then u do it.just be safe.hope everything works out
2007-06-11 08:44:22 · answer #9 · answered by babygirl_12589 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it because everyone else is doing it. AND you probably won't end up like the 40 year old virgin- that is a movie.
2007-06-11 08:41:19 · answer #10 · answered by BeLiZe Gyal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋