Family & Relationships - 11 June 2007

My husband is very insecure, every time I hang out with my friends he thinks that I'm going to meet with another man. I love him very much and have never cheated on him. I was in my previous relationship for 6 years and I think he feels threatened by that. I think we have gotten past the point that he thinks I still want to be with my ex. Once I broke it off with my ex I had no intentions of getting back with him...he still doesn't believe it. Now everything I do, which could be as simple as going to the dentist gets him all suspicious about whether I'm with someone. I have always been truthful, faithful and open with my husband, it really upsets me that he's constantly accusing me of things that I have no thoughts/intention of doing. Please help me out!!!

2007-06-11 10:17:46 · 15 answers · asked by flakka 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I need help here, pls say anything u feel will b useful!
I feel, to a certain extent that i scare away boys that are interested in me after they start knowin me properly. Or maybe they just lose interest, i dunno tel me wt u think is wrong. I'm suspecting that i set the standards too high; i want 2 have intellectual debates with anyone i go out with nd i believe in treating a girl wiv respect, politeness, etc. Boys approach me VERY frequently, all sorts of them; and they say stuff like i'm very attractive, sexy, beautiful, pretty but the ones that i'm interested in and start talkin 2 never get round to asking me out and i havn't a clue why, wats wrong?
I'm just wondering if anything i've said so far or any of the qualities below are a turn-off.
-quite sporty and has a slim, athletic but feminine build. UK size 8, US 4. im 5'5''
-academic babe- i'm a law student :-)
-not on the wild side (good girl but not goody-2-shoes)
-doesn't follow d crowd
-socialises, bt not a partyanimal!

2007-06-11 10:17:19 · 18 answers · asked by fishy_S 2 in Singles & Dating

Would you go out with me? I have blonde hair and blue eyes. I'm chubby, but sweat under the armpits in some shirts. I would consider myself pretty, but I do get zits {Like everybody else} I can be really funny, but really strixt all at the same time, I care about others' feelings and I am always ready to listen to a problem or if you just need to talk.

2007-06-11 10:13:23 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

shouldn't they have a bra for that i mean my ex's was like BAM when we had sex

2007-06-11 10:06:43 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been searching and searching for the perfect song to dance to with my father at my wedding...does anyone have any good suggestions?

2007-06-11 10:05:16 · 17 answers · asked by elizabeth321 1 in Weddings

after being married for 8 month one night she left its been 4 months now we been meeting and talking about getting back together even took her away on hoilday for a 1st anniversary she never eva gave me a strate answer why she left.......a few weeks ago 1 of my mates sin her at this party with this bloke i asked her about it she said it was just a gay mate. i spoke to her old boss aswell because she lost her job 2 weeks before she left i found out she was sleeping with 1 of her clients at work !!!! and now iv found out that she been living with him all a long she went to his on the night she left and now i dont know what to do?? i love her so much but she still wont admit whats really going on!!!!! can anybody tell me what she is playing at????

2007-06-11 10:05:14 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i'm turning 14 soon and i have no idea what i want for my birthday. I mean i already have an ipod and a stereo for it. So if you guys could give me ideas i would love it. I know most people would just say like jewlery but please be specific. OH yeah don't say makeup because i have enough to last me a life time.

2007-06-11 09:58:49 · 4 answers · asked by GirlyGirl 2 in Family

What is love, and what can be mistaken for it? I always read questions like, "Do I love him?" and some answers are "You can't love him unless you know him." What is and isn't love?!!?!?!

2007-06-11 09:58:14 · 2 answers · asked by Ugly Duckling 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Hi I am indian and my name is priya every indian guy i know is after me.I dnt undrstand when i ask y u like or lv me they first say u got a sweet name bt yyyyy

2007-06-11 09:55:10 · 11 answers · asked by saraswati106 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-11 09:53:49 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband and I got married two years ago at a private ceremony and this year we saved up money to have a larger ceremony and reception for both family and friends. However, my mother-in-law decided not to tell all the out-of-town relatives that I have never meet that we were ever married before. So now half of the people at the wedding know we are married and half do not know. How to I control this situation so that nothing awkward happens? So now instead of renewing our vows my mother-in-law wants us procede like we are just getting married the first time. It's a weird situation. Any ideas?

2007-06-11 09:48:47 · 17 answers · asked by Selina Kyle 5 in Weddings

i have a boyfriend! but when i go party and get drunk i always in up kissin a girl. i love my boyfriend but i seem to be look at girls more now days! and i like to watch girl on girl action in porn more!

2007-06-11 09:45:38 · 43 answers · asked by Chelsea 1 in Singles & Dating

My daughters Father, whom I have been apart from for almost 2 years gave me a poem this morning that implied he was miserable w/o me and wants me back. We had a very messy break up in which he burned me and every one in my family. But I still love him and would love to have my family back. Only thing is how do you restart something like that? I don't want to confuse our daughter so...does anyone have any input on making it work after it's been severly broken? Do marriage counsellors work?

2007-06-11 09:45:25 · 28 answers · asked by anjilla_kohl 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I had a baby nine months ago and I have been excercising to loose weight and been pretty successful. The bride had us all get fitted for these custom made expensive dresses at the end of January when the wedding isn't until the end of October. Now I am already 4 dress sizes smaller than I was, and I am pretty excited about it, but I am a little concerned that getting the dress altered will cost just as much as it was to get it made. I am just frustrated...is there anything I can do besides not loose weight LOL! I think it sucks that I have to pay twice as much for a dress that we got fitted for ages ago; who needs measurements 10 months in advance?

2007-06-11 09:44:31 · 12 answers · asked by Rasta 3 in Weddings

2007-06-11 09:44:16 · 19 answers · asked by Scoupers 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My wedding is next year and I would really like to MAKE a nice favor for everyone, but I want a uniquie one and I have a very TIGHT budget. Give me some help please

2007-06-11 09:43:37 · 22 answers · asked by Mrs. Popour 1 in Weddings

My husband and I were married a month ago. We had lived together for 18months before the wedding and our sex life was okay 2-3 times a week. But since we got married it has been incredible. Every night and sometimes in the afternon. He will come home earily from work just to have sex. I am not complaining at all---I love it. But why is it like this now? and is it going to last? We also have been trying all these new positions and watching porn and using sex toys. It is like a dream come true, I married the best sex of my life!

2007-06-11 09:43:25 · 21 answers · asked by Uhg....... 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Before I married my now ex husband, we both had children from our first marriages. We had a daughter together. All the kids go with my ex at the weekends. Yesterday after the kids were dropped off, my 6 yr old daughter told me that daddy had been really mean to my son all weekend. Apparently my son was sitting in my daughter's spot on the sofa and my ex told him to move. My son ignored him (is diagnosed as oppositional defiant and is ADHD). My ex grabbed him by the ear and dragged him across the floor. Another incident occured when they were at the mall. My ex's fiancee put a quarter in one of those toy machines where you try to grab a toy. She was doing this for her son but my son jumped in and pressed the button. My ex husband immediately slapped my son across the face twice. I am livid about this. I told my son that he is not going with his stepfather any more but mys on is really upset about this and insists he wants to go. Should I insist he stay home with me?

2007-06-11 09:41:15 · 42 answers · asked by MO 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-11 09:41:01 · 7 answers · asked by CJ O 1 in Weddings

I was with my HS sweety for 9 years before we decided to get married. 6 years later, she left me for another man, We got divorced 1 year later. We had no kids, a good life, we did lots of things together, I was never a couch potatoe, and here I am 10 years after the divorce, and finding out that I can't trust
a single woman on the planet. I have tried to 'love' again, but my heart just wont let me. Will this ever go away?

2007-06-11 09:40:09 · 39 answers · asked by -R 4 in Marriage & Divorce

ask questions about your ex? Just wanting to know why it ended. The guy is just a friend, sometimes it seems like he is interested, but I never know with him. He asked if I still talk to my ex and I said every once in awhile that the guy cannot understand that we cannot be the friends we once were because of what he did. That you cannot go back after that, then my friend put his head down. Why and why did he bring it up out of the blue?

2007-06-11 09:33:37 · 6 answers · asked by Jen_n_TX 3 in Singles & Dating

I have this guy friend, and we are getting pretty close to dating. He is extremely cute and very sweet, but he always has bad breath. Its a complete turn off. How do I tell him to go and brush his teeth without being mean? We are comfortable with each other enough to just come out and say it, ya know?

2007-06-11 09:28:08 · 39 answers · asked by Ray Ray 4 in Singles & Dating

Do you think young couples who marry are MORE likely to get divorced??

2007-06-11 09:27:09 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-11 09:26:03 · 21 answers · asked by sepatterson32 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I went to groups, to find people who are parents at my kindergardners school, and found a man who was looking for young boys to molest in the Portland Metro area, he said looking for a young boy to teach the joys of m2m pleasure and to love. Well this scares me because I have 2 young boys, and live in Portland, how do I report this to yahoo?

2007-06-11 09:21:05 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My boy friend asked me to have sex tonight because his parents wont be home. I have been a virgin all my life and really want to do it but I am not sure exactly how. Where do my breats and vigina go? What should I show up in, my clothes then strip eachother? Or should I just show up in my bra and thong? Where should we have it? HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-06-11 09:21:03 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-11 09:17:52 · 5 answers · asked by may 3 in Singles & Dating

My wife and I are going to have a baby soon and she thinks we should start putting money away for his education. We both have lucrative careers, but I don't agree with the idea. I worked my way through college and med school and feel like I appreciate it more having worked for it. I don't want my children to go without, and they won't, but I don't feel the need to pay for their educations in the future. Is this selfish, or does anyone else agree with me?

2007-06-11 09:16:45 · 11 answers · asked by Yogi 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-11 09:16:20 · 14 answers · asked by ksoccer 1 in Singles & Dating

don't ask...i;'m just in a REALLLLY revengeful mood right now...so think of a way to punish a, b, and c

a) this guy TOTALLY betrayed me. as a music partner....and he's also an arrogant hipocrite. and he likes this other girl (NOT that i like him.) HOW RUDE!!!

b) THIS guy didn't like me back. i've been swooming in love with him for 10 months and because of HIM i could never ever be myself in the same room as him until recently. how to GET BACK?

c)THIS IS THE WORST GUY EVER!!! he made fun of me and called me a rat in front of the whole class. i really really hated him and being nice was the only excuse he had for being mean to me.

be on my side if you're gonna come up with any torurous "get back" plans...and if you lecture me i'll ....

2007-06-11 09:15:41 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating