My husband and I were married a month ago. We had lived together for 18months before the wedding and our sex life was okay 2-3 times a week. But since we got married it has been incredible. Every night and sometimes in the afternon. He will come home earily from work just to have sex. I am not complaining at all---I love it. But why is it like this now? and is it going to last? We also have been trying all these new positions and watching porn and using sex toys. It is like a dream come true, I married the best sex of my life!
2007-06-11 09:43:25 · 21 answers · asked by Uhg....... 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
give it time - won't be long before its back to 3-4 X per week - then once/week - then once/month - you'll have some kids and you'll be telling him that you're too tired - and then he'll start going out one or two nights a week - then you'll start getting jealous and he'll get mad and then he WILL have an affair -
then you'll catch him and he'll promise not to do it again - you'll forgive him but every time you argue about something you'll throw it up in his face (this could go on for years) - meanwhile now every time you have sex you think he's comparing you with someone else - and your marriage sucks but now you stay together for the kids........... blah blah blah
enjoy while it lasts - check out every married couple you know that's been married for 10-15 years
on the other hand you could get a jump on the whole thing and start running around with other guys right now - that way he won't make you miserable later on
2007-06-11 09:51:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good for you!!! I think it's normal although I don't know that I would expect to stay that wall ALL of the time, because everyone goes through cycles.
It's awesome that you guys are feeling really secure with each other since you got married! That is really wonderful.
My husband and I have been married for 5 years and the sex is still rockin', but there are lulls in the action.lol. Sometimes it's 3 times a day for a week and then maybe on 1 time a day.
Congrats on your marriage.
2007-06-11 09:49:58 · answer #2 · answered by nite_angelica 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bravo!!! Good for you! I should hope we all marry the best of our life! LOL! Seriously, you're right, this is awesome! Congratulations! I think it's normal to have ups and downs in any relationship, especially sexually. I don't know if it'll continue FOREVER, but you'll definately find your ebb and flow to it. I can only hope this is what happens to me when I get married, we should all be so lucky!!! :) In all honesty, just enjoy while it lasts! Maybe he's extra happy he got you to marry him and is in the mood to show you why!! While it's never wise to base a marriage on sex (or anything at all), hey, live it up! Sex lives go up and down like anything else, this is an up, live it up, and when it goes down (and I don't mean literally), talk about it. Tell your husband how very much you appreicate all of the fabulous sex you've been having. There's no motivation like appreciation! Keep the lines of communication open and enjoy it! Congrats!
2007-06-11 10:51:09 · answer #3 · answered by sarahlizjudd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
properly simply by fact of this they say opposites attraction to. You and your husband are the two well-known, no longer something incorrect with the two of you will. some human beings have it extra and a few have much less and a few have none. a minimum of your husband has much less and not none. talk on your husband approximately your sexual fantasies and tell him he won't be disrespecting you if he roughs it up slightly, you will take excitement in it..... interior the propose time get your self a toy to help out whilst he's no longer around. Or he can use the toy on you, make it portion of your foreplay. sturdy success.
2016-10-07 07:45:05 · answer #4 · answered by riopel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Consider yourself lucky and enjoy it. That is all I can say. My sexlife was very limited before getting married and until just recently (when I said I could no longer deal with her "if you want it more go elsewhere" attitude and told her I would not go elsewhere until she left, then asked where she would be living) almost non-existant after she got her ring.
2007-06-11 09:58:01 · answer #5 · answered by s1lvermidnight 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will go up and down. My man and I have a wonderful sex life. I've never told him no, in over 8 years. Have fun and do your self a favor, don't take it for granted. Feel like the lickiest woman alive. I do.
2007-06-11 09:52:17 · answer #6 · answered by Ivy_Woman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, yeah, we were like that too - but we hadn't lived together, no did we get into porn and toys - we were wonderful enough without the accoutrements! We just enjoyed each other!
2007-06-11 10:04:08 · answer #7 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm just curious why you would choose to come on the internet and discuss it with strangers. Sounds like a good deal to me.
Why worry, just enjoy it in the present.
2007-06-11 09:47:05 · answer #8 · answered by Kia A 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What is "normal"? If it's working for you, then it's "normal" for you.
Congrats and enjoy...nobody can tell you how long it will last but I would imagine as long as you two keep mixing it up and don't let it get routine or mundane, it'll last indefinitely. ☺
2007-06-11 09:49:43 · answer #9 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are in the honeymoon phase. it might simmer down a bit as time goes on.enjoy it while it lasts
2007-06-11 13:11:30 · answer #10 · answered by road runner 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋