My boy friend asked me to have sex tonight because his parents wont be home. I have been a virgin all my life and really want to do it but I am not sure exactly how. Where do my breats and vigina go? What should I show up in, my clothes then strip eachother? Or should I just show up in my bra and thong? Where should we have it? HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-06-11 09:21:03 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i dont think you should have sex if your asking all these questions
its really obvious really
i suggest you wait
2007-06-11 09:23:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
So your biggest concern about having sex for the first time...is what to wear???
Honey you aren't ready.
How bout your religious beliefs? How about if you love him enough to give this away? How bout STDs and pregnancy? None of those are your concerns. But you want to know what clothing he would like best.
Interesting.
But just so you know--never show up in nothing or in bra or thong. Always imagine worst case scenario. And in this case, if you are driving over there (if you are old enough to drive)--what if you get pulled by a cop for speeding or a taillight? Imagine the embarrassment trying to explain why you aren't dressed. Imagine being arrested for indecent exposure and calling someone to bail you out of jail.
2007-06-11 09:28:58 · answer #2 · answered by phantom_of_valkyrie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen dear, you don't sound like you're ready for this. Just because his parents aren't going to be home is not a good reason for having sex. The sex is just the first step to a whole lot of other problems. Have you thought about birth control? How about sexually transmitted diseases? What if he tells all his friends. Men and women think differently about sex, you should talk to your mother, school counsellor, or doctor. Be patient, sex isn't all it's cracked up to be.
2007-06-11 09:29:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wear a trench coat with nothing on under it, or a really big jacket with nothing on , or a bathrobe.
dont worry about the specifics , just lay there and let him do all the work.
make sure you use extra protection. He should have a rubber and you should use VCF or something along those lines.
I answered this in the hopes that you are not 12 and closer to 18
2007-06-11 09:30:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont do it! I'm a guy telling you this. Once you loose it it's gone and you will be taken over by it. Save yourself.There is not too many young woman like you in the world.Keep it that way.If he really loves you he will wait and if he doesn't then he just wanted to get into your pants.Keep em closed till you find someone worth marrying.
2007-06-11 09:26:11 · answer #5 · answered by blackstayadmirer 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask all these questions then sweetie you aren't ready. Don't feel pressured to give up your virginity just because your boyfriend wants to. Don't make the same mistake I did wait until you are 100% ready and trust me you will know when that is. Good luck with your decision.
2007-06-11 09:27:45 · answer #6 · answered by fire_fly0434 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Judging by your grammar and naiveness, I would say you are far too young to be having sex. Wait until you are in love and are at least 18 years old. When the time is right, you will know exactly what to do.
2007-06-11 09:24:52 · answer #7 · answered by Ray-Ray 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
ok im not sure how old u r..i juz give u my 2 cents worth.
u wanna do it, prepare to get hurt. very hurt, emotionammy. i dun care wad u show up in i believe he wont care either,, as long as he gets your (ahem!)..
sex is a beautiful thing, if u wanna lose it at such a young age, u will regret it in d future JUST LIKE ALL THE Stupid kids all over the world including ME..he dumpe you, u never get yer virginity back, u get preggie, u think he cares?
hell no.
yup my 2cents worth..
(dunno if i sound harsh or insane or wadever, heehee juz got over a bad relationship..)
2007-06-11 09:29:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u'll be fine! as long as your old enough, the two of u will know what to do with each other. 'my parents won't be home' doesn't really sound like a romantic way to have your first time, BUT if u're in to it, and wanna do it, u'll have fun.
wear something that makes you feel pretty! remember this is your first time, the story u'll tell the rest of your life, so make it a fairytale. AND DON'T FORGET PROTECTION! fairytales don't end with 'and then i was pregnant"
2007-06-11 09:26:01 · answer #9 · answered by platinum66 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
U just show up n he will do the rest. its not that big of a deal. use protection all the time even on ur first time. it wont b good for u until ur 3rd time anyways. wear what u want to wear.
2007-06-11 09:29:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask these questions than you are not ready for sex. You should consult your mother/ parent reguarding what to do for sex. Don not tell them you are planning to do it. And PLEEEEEEASSSSSE WEAR PROTECTION. We have too many stupid parents already!
Anyway - didn't you have the "birds and the bees" lecture from your parents yet?
I think you are to young - what are you 12?
2007-06-11 09:28:54 · answer #11 · answered by locumbeta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋