i have a boyfriend! but when i go party and get drunk i always in up kissin a girl. i love my boyfriend but i seem to be look at girls more now days! and i like to watch girl on girl action in porn more!
2007-06-11 09:45:38 · 43 answers · asked by Chelsea 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My answer would be yes you are but just ask yourself two questions.........
when you look at a girls body do you get arroused??
when you think of a girls body do you get arroused??
if the answer is yes then you are on your way.
The only way you will know for sure is try it once.
I am going to say you will like it and for the record dont be ashamed there is nothing wrong with it.
2007-06-11 09:51:50 · answer #1 · answered by HEAVEN 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Learn to SPELL... it has far more serious consequences and implications for you than your sexuality.
By the way... I've mostly stopped answering this question. As an openly bi female with years of experience, I used to try to give some real-world mature advice. But this topic always gets overrun by people who DON'T know they're talking about! They are quick to "diagnose" you one way or the other and to tell you it's OK.
But there are far reaching issues that THEY don't know. Be especially wary of advice from guys, they just think it's HOT. And most girls who chime in either aren't bi or they're posers. The extent of their knowledge is based on rumors or porn flicks (which are NOT good indicators of girl-love).
A few kisses and watching porn does not make you bi. A steady GIRLFRIEND might be a sign.
One day you will be older and may wish to choose on gender or the other. It won't be easy. Every experience you have will only feed the fire and one day you may not be able to put it out. This might not sound bad now, but someday you might want to have a conventional marriage and family. Think about it.
It's OK to like certain things, or even be addicted to them... but acting on them is a choice. It's easier to choose now while you're young, believe me.
2007-06-11 09:48:40 · answer #2 · answered by Kia A 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
that isn't really a question that you can ask someone else, it's something that you've gotta decide yourself. try not to worry about it too much though, whether you are or aren't bi your still the same person so it doesn't really matter. but i think if you usually end up kissing girls then you probably are bi....just be careful if you love your boyfriend and he feels the same way then maybe you should tell him...and don't cheat on him with other girls if you decide you are bi!
2007-06-11 09:51:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no formal application for bieng bi. Enjoying the beauty of woman does not make you bi. I think that women look better then men, but I am not atraccted to women. This is a question that you are going to have to ask your self. And getting drunk is not a good way of getting to know yourself. You should be more careful, but have fun!
2007-06-11 09:50:01 · answer #4 · answered by lovepinkbeloved 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't give in to it!! Keep yourself straight.........don't even let yourself "think" like that. You can overcome the "bi-sexual" thing if you stay positive with it. Find a church, where members are invited to come down to the front to be prayed over. You don't have to state why you need prayer, but if asked, just say "it's a personal need." It will help you tremendously.
2007-06-11 09:53:23 · answer #5 · answered by wildflower 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well are you attracted to girls when you're not drinking? Are you kissing them when you're not drinking? Probably yes then. Talk to your boyfriend though, because you don't want to cheat on him if you love him. Tell him you're confused and you may want to experience something with a girl. (Not with a guy though, make that clear) He might understand and suggest finding another girl you would feel comfortable experincing it with.... you never know. But don't cheat.
2007-06-11 09:50:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok for starters being Bi is not the same as being Gay, if you want to play in both feilds tell your bf he might like it. Then again this might just be a faze you might do your thing with a chick and not like it. Or you might change your mind on men all together.
2007-06-11 09:50:59 · answer #7 · answered by daledean_hojo 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like you might be since you really like girls. However this could also just be an experimentation phase. Do you see yourself with a steady girlfriend 10 years from now?
2007-06-11 09:48:40 · answer #8 · answered by E 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first of all, that's cheating.. and that's probably what you should be more worried about. Considering you don't sound at all like you love your boyfriend when you're shopping around for women, and kissing them.
Second, you should be less worried about labels and date whoever you have a connection with.
2007-06-11 09:48:24 · answer #9 · answered by LoveisfirE 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You might be Bi curious, you wont know unless your sober and try to kiss a girl sober to see if it feels right and if it does you have your answer. If it dont feel right, then it just might be that when your drunk your innerself just wants to explore a different thing. Try kissing a girl sober who knows you might surprise yourself.
2007-06-11 09:58:52 · answer #10 · answered by D S♦T♦A♦R♦S 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋