my boyfriends sister is having a party this saturday and i know for sure... my boyfriends ex girlfriend is going to be there... i really dont want to talk to her or see her because i know what she did to my boyfriend... but my boyfriends sisters rally want me to go... i already told them that i dont want to go because she is gonna be there but they insist on me going...i wish i could make her feel like **** that day but i dont want to seem like a b***.. so what can i do to make this day a good day for me and bad day for her... or should i just not go?? please help!!!!
2007-06-11 06:57:54 · 2 answers · asked by cupids_victim11 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
my boyfriend is not going!!!
2007-06-11 07:31:17 · update #1
By wishing ill on someone else, all you are doing is hurting yourself. What happened between your boyfriend and his ex is none of your business. Yes, he may have told you, but it's not up to you to get this girl back. I would suggest that you go to the party and have fun. Don't pay her any attention. If you end up in a conversation, don't be mean. You don't have to like her, but at the very least be cordial. Keep the conversation to small talk only. Or excuse yourself politely from the conversation and walk away. The only person at the party who can cause you to have a bad time is... YOU.
2007-06-11 07:09:49 · answer #1 · answered by Erin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go, try not to think about her, and have a wonderful time with your boyfriend and his sister. If you have to interact with her at all, be the better person and be nice as nice can be. Let her see how much better you are for your boyfriend than she was. Isn't happiness supposed to be the best revenge?
2007-06-11 14:07:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anne S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋