Alright this past year I have had my heartbroken 3 times. I thought I would be able to manage it, but I was wrong. During the last day of school I asked my best friend out and she turned me down saying that all she felt for me was a strong relationship. I have been doing my best not to show how broken I am, but its getting harder and harder every day. I feel that nobody wants me, and that no matter what I do it will stay that way, I know this makes me sound like I am going through depression, but who knows it very well might be. Any advice for what to do to try and fix my broken heart and to move on would be helpful.
2007-06-11 05:24:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Here is the thing.
You need to get out. Take a walk. And just take some time off. You have the summer use it. See before anyone needs to think about a relationship they need to realize and be happy by themselves. Realize that this person doesn't make your life just makes it better. You won't be alone forever. You right now are vunerable and needy. You have to have someone to feel happy, and that is not the way to go. It could cause more problems later and lead to many more heartbreaks. My advice would be to take some time off and realize that you can be happy without a girl. Find who you are and don't ask anymore out until you can stand alone.
2007-06-11 05:31:01 · answer #1 · answered by Chris 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude head up, go to the summer, have fun get trashed and get with as many girls as you can... and dont listen to janicajayne... every question on a guy today she has put something about needy.. i guess its needy to want to be wanted... right... just get out there with confidence, be a little bit of a dick, and have fun... girls are all over and who knows who youll meet, as for the best friend thing.... wrong move dude, just officially made things weird with her... fix that, if she is your best friend keep it that way and she will give you all the help in your future relationships from a girls perspective... it works wonders trust me... there are more girls that are looking for relationships then guys... so if you want one your chances are looking pretty good good luck
2007-06-11 12:32:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop looking for love, searching for it only leads you to someone that most likely won't last anyway cause you'll be so wrapped up into trying to fill the lonely void that you probably won't take the time to get to know them. And once your heart heals you'll realize that they are not what your looking for and break up with them which could possibly break their heart and that's not fair. I say take this time to reconstruct yourself, love yourself more and when the time is right you'll find love it could possibly already be under your nose.
2007-06-11 12:35:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
accept that you don't need a girlfriend right now
take a break and spend sometime with yourself
talk to people not to advance in a relationship. just to relate.
it's not that no one wants you, but that you're probably looking too often
2007-06-11 12:29:09 · answer #4 · answered by franni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get out and have some fun... thats the only way to deal with it.
go out with your friends and so stuff - you need to distract yourself, or itll only get worse. dont sit around your house and think about it - go out and enjoy yourself. i know its hard, but you can do it = )
2007-06-11 12:27:14 · answer #5 · answered by toothPASTE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you 17 and under?
if so you still got your hole life my nabor is 40 and is just going mayerd so just wait!
2007-06-11 12:27:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get psychological counseling, you are too needy.
2007-06-11 12:26:27 · answer #7 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i dont know
2007-06-11 12:26:52 · answer #8 · answered by viswa s.s 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋