how does it feel to experience motherly love and how can you encourage those who've never experienced such lov

Question

iam a teenager and i was brought up by my uncle, i was told my mother died when i was two weeks old.

Answer 1

Motherly love is an overwhelming unconditional love. Mothers get exasperated by their children when they play up, they dont necessarily always like their behaviour, But they still love the person.
Be grateful to your uncle for loving you enough to care for you while you grow up. When you are a woman you will have children of your own and then you will know what a mothers love is like and how much your mother loved you before she died.

Answer 2

hello sorry to hear that i would say it depends on the mother some mums can be loving it is a case of the child knowing that they are loved because the mother from birth would bond by breast feeding or the voice it is something straight from conception until you are a mother you cant really explain the unconditional love on both sides both the mother and child have a love that can never be broken i will say that also there are mums who for some reason cant love their child or at least it appears that way to the child a lot of people in the same positon as yourself who i know including myself simply say that the rule is to give the child or another person the love you feel you never received not being afraid to say i love you or extra hugs is a bonus it gives confidence and to apologise if you are wrong so the child or person knows that they too can give an apology all these little things help and don't forget that if you feel secure with your uncle he too has played a great role to try to replace your mum( which no one can )when later you get married etc and have your own children it will become clear but the real thing is to remember that although sadly your mum isn't here you are a valued person and I'm sure she would be proud of you that you have asked this important question

Answer 3

Dear gannga, My heart goes out to you with sincerity, I'm not sending pity or talking down to you. My life was very much the same but different, My parents left me in the attic to die, if it were not for my brothers smuggling food into me it would have been obvious that I would not be answering your question. I was in hospital for a period of a year when I was eventually found by the Social services. when I was able to leave hospital at 1 year 3 months old , I was placed with a family who through the next 14 years sexually and physically abused me. Very much like you missed out on the motherly love that we so needed at the time and really there is nothing to replace that love no matter how much you look. One thing I believe is that no matter where in the world we are, mothers who died are still with us, giving us direction and guidence. All we need to do is ask her for it, she will never let you down, but you have to listen, look at dreams and feel the atmostphere around you and you will get your answer. My sons Mother died when he was 11 years old, the most tragic thing that had happended to our family, but even now he tells me that he can feel her with him and that for him is a comforting factor as he feels at peace knowing she is still around. Although your Uncle may have tried his best at bringing you up there is nothing like a mothers love, but with tears in my eyes it is sad to say that a mothers love can not be replaced by anything in this world. What you can do is when you have a family of your own, give your children all the love you possess even through the hard time, every time they go off to school or even out to play and even at night time, the last thing they like to have on their minds is saying, My darling, I love you with all my heart. This gives them comfort and reassurance, this way you can try and fill the gap your mother left and I can bet that she is with you all the time.
Best wishes gannga for the rest of your life.

Answer 4

Find a female family member, a mother of one of your close friends and talk to her about what is lacking in your life.

They can't be your mother but she can be a close "motherly" person that will make a positive difference.

Don't forget to be grateful to your uncle....it's not easy raising a daughter.

Answer 5

I'm sorry your mother passed away. I have a mother and I still can't answer your question. I still as an adult have yet to have be granted my mother's love. So I think as long as your loved by someone be happy because love isn't always given by the ones that are there.

Answer 6

Sweetie, for me, I love my children more than I love my own life. A Mama would give all to protect her children. When they hurt, I hurt. When they are happy, I am ecstatic! It's like a part of your heart detaches and goes with them. I have three girls and I love each of them so very much in many different ways. Sorry you lost your Mother, but I can assure you had she been given a choice of your life or hers, you would still be here asking this question.

Answer 7

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Answer 8

Since you asked, my mother was the warmest, most understanding person whom I have ever known. The way she was still ennables me to carry on at age 57.
I just hope that someone has taken the time to understand you, and listen to you.
I don't know what else to say. If you want a word portrait of my mother, ask.

Answer 9

you poor baby.. well i was brought up in a big famliy of cousins, aunts, uncles and we knew motherly as well as fatherly love ( and spankings haha) its one of the greastest things in the world and i've seen guys be motherly too.. its just caring sweety.

Answer 10

Sorry to hear of your loss, my mother is alive but I do not have the support and love that some people have. It's a shame.