Hi Guys,
Would u marry a girl ie an"Arrange Marriage",
IF that girl has Blood Pressure & also she had been operated in her past. ie (the surgery was coz of sum birth born problem & not her fault)......She is physically normal except her blood pressure & some little surgery marks......Also she has an average face & body.
But she has a beautiful heart & a sacrifising nature.....She is loving, caring, honest, simple, sweet, smart, friendly, a mind reader......I mean all those good qualities the guy look for.
Be practical & honest in ur answer... dont act to be a goody .......So wud u accept or reject her?????
(Its for my frnd, Sincere answers expected. Thnx for ur answers)
2007-06-11 05:20:47 · 32 answers · asked by simple 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I guess this is the most stupidest question i've ever heard in the history of Yahoo Answers!...why u ask .. read on...
if ur friend is the boy.. he already likes her.. or he wouldnt take it this far to ask the question to his closest buddies.. he needs your approval becoz tomorow.. you all shouldnt shun him.. becoz he wife doesnt come pretty close to be good enuf to hang out with your group..cutting a long story short.. he likes her.. support him.. and let them be happy for the rest of their life..
If your friend is the gal..then i guess she should stop doubting the intentions of the boy who has agrred to already live his life with her..she should stop feeling inferior..and start thinking of the happy days they would be having being together and how if the conditions (B.P. etc) mentioned by u can be rectified such tht it doesnt cause any hindrance to their daily life..
Hope i was helpful..! do let me know wat happens at the end of this story!..and yea kidding abt the question being stupid..peace out!
2007-06-17 23:42:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is possible I would. I would not say no simply because she had surgery or high blood pressure (which can be controlled by medication) I dont know what an average face and body means but those arent always important. A mind reader might make things easier since I wont have to tell what I want all the time.
2007-06-11 05:26:01 · answer #2 · answered by dave n 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will recommend your friend to accept that girl. Once again you go through your question. I am a transaction analyst . We find many answers from the question itself. Your definition about the girl is more than enough to recommend the girl to accept her . How many positive points you have given in your letter when compare to negative points. Blood pressure every body has got and only thing is you should control by taking medicine. Regarding surgery marks as you said it is from her birth onwards. , From this you can understand that the girl is not responsible for that. SO, all these things put together there is no point in rejecting that girl .Please advise your friend to accept her and give her a happy and good life . All the best, Yours VRVRAO
2007-06-17 05:07:36 · answer #3 · answered by Raghavendra R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In most cases as long as she's female, breathing and human most other short comings can be overlooked.
Being a female she's probably over thinking her situation and should just relax. Every-thing's already been arranged so it's not like the boys family is going to back out. At least not without embarassing the boy's family. This being the case I would suggest your friend enjoy preparing for married life.
"The man is the head of the family...but the woman is the neck and she can turn the head anyway she wants!!!"
-My big fat greek wedding
2007-06-11 05:35:35 · answer #4 · answered by pickler_1999 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u thinks so that she is beautiful heart & a sacrifising nature then theres no doubt of rejecting her from my side. but not all are same. everybody has diff. opinion. maybe the answers getting be right but those will think from their side not urs friend. they dont even know what would be the likes or dislikes of him/her. pratically i m young(still 14 yrs) but though always like to understand the peoples problems and all. u may ask him only wether he thinks so that he will get in love with her or not. if he thinks so then dont mind about the life. this life is too short maybe the risk of taking it be very hard but the time will be always in the memmory, lifetime.....
tell me too wether boy rejects or accepts...
2007-06-19 06:28:27 · answer #5 · answered by SAHIL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A succssful married life is all about compatibility, friendship between two adults, girl&boy now, man&woman, very soon! a very personal question like this cannot be adequately answered, really! But, generally, the girl in your 'story' is certainly very eligible, she will certainly make a very good bride, an excellent wife, and a dream of a life partner to a compatible guy!
2007-06-17 17:50:12 · answer #6 · answered by swanjarvi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For about what I know about myself, I wud've gave it a good thought. The reason being is my parents arelooking gal for and they do not consider my opinion at all. Secondly, I've a fried,she is very fat but still I maintained friends with her because she had a beautiful and caring heart.
So, the fact is only 23-30% boys will demand only looks and rest will like a better person from within.
2007-06-14 02:52:26 · answer #7 · answered by A2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not see why any sincere and loving man shall ever refuse or not like a girl like that...and why in first place your friend thinks she's any lesser than other..rather i'd say she's much more a likeable and lovable person than others.... I Would Have ...for sure. Tell her she'd find the best of a person , not to take any desperate steps, and wait for the right guy.
2007-06-18 18:20:13 · answer #8 · answered by maverick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it is arranged i might refuse.but if i know the girl or if she loves me even if i dont .then i will marry her for sure.but cant say some times when u see a girl it feels like this girl is for u.at the first view than nothing matters.and as u said she has a sacrificing heart,loving caring which is always my choice.so before seeing the girl cant say .iam very sentimental guy i dont like to hurt specially this type of girls.when she will feel so dissapointed when everyone rejects her for her disease.
but i will pray for her she will get a nice life partner and a long life also.
2007-06-11 07:17:22 · answer #9 · answered by pirsa363 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Reject. I do not do arranged marriages but even if I did why would I choose someone like this when there are millions of others with the same qualities without the problems?
2007-06-11 05:26:18 · answer #10 · answered by vaivagabundo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋