My guy friend moved to another state a year ago. We didn't know each other v well before he moved but he has kept in touch by chatting..say once a mth. Sometimes he flirts a little and I've started having feelings for him. I'll be in his area for work soon and he said he'd love to meet up. Last time we chatted he asked if there's anything he should prepare before I arrive. I said 'just make sure you don't have a girlfriend!' as in reality, I don't know if he does or not. He seems too goodlooking for me! He replied 'come over here quickly!'. He also wrote that he had fallen for me. Now I'm worried, as I don't know if he's seeing anyone and I don't have the nerve to ask? Anyone got a view on this, especially guys!
2007-06-11 06:23:34 · 18 answers · asked by sonia 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well he is certainly interested in giving you one
how long term it will be is anyone's guess
but you can swing the odds in your favour by making sure you give him one to remember (with extras and a second helping)
2007-06-11 06:27:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The guy is definetly interested...but it's good for you wanting to make sure. When you go out, just start some little small talk, like what you been up to? Are you seeing someone? how's work? Stuff like that. and if he is an honest guy, he'll tell you everything, but if he isn't then he's there for one thing while you are there. Sorry.
2007-06-11 06:32:21 · answer #2 · answered by Jose P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's single and interested.
If you want to be sure, ask him right on. It's nothing to be embarassed about. The worst that could happen is you being disappointed. Guys like girls to be direct sometimes (saves us guessing).
Never judge whether you are worthy to someone just be your looks. It's more about your personality.
Have the confidence to face him. Confidence is sexier than what you are wearing or how good you look.
Good luck
2007-06-11 06:31:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say he definitely likes you. Why would you say he seems too good looking for you? No...looks aren't everything. Just come out and ask him if he is dating anyone? It sounds like he's given you the green light now go for it. Just slip the question into conversation while you two are out. Good luck.
2007-06-11 06:28:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well sometime your talking to him and your talking about work or something just put in a joke like "Well what does your girlfriend think about that??" 2 poss answers: ah she don't mind, and ah i don't have one! I think thats the easiest way to find out . Good luck!
2007-06-11 06:28:41 · answer #5 · answered by Marc M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask the guy straight, he wont mind if he hasnt then it is WIN WIN! if he has then you can coose wether you want to see him even tho he has a girlfriend. It sounds like he likes you a lot. Good Luck.
2007-06-11 06:29:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him if hes seeing anyone. If not then aks him to dinner or something. It should all work out. If he admits to liking you then there should be no problem. hope that helps. Good Luck! =)
2007-06-11 06:27:42 · answer #7 · answered by iloveyou-♥- 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The most effective way in knowning is coming out asking him
2007-06-11 06:27:35 · answer #8 · answered by plumprump26 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
instead of you doing all the running suggest he visits you, say for a weekend, and then you should beable to assess the situation more, at the least it should tell you whether or not he is interested and not just stringing you along.
2007-06-11 06:34:40 · answer #9 · answered by dover56dover 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on what you are looking for. If you want a serious relationship then you should ask him if he has a girlfriend.
If you want something short term, then don't ask him. Enjoy the moment.
2007-06-11 06:31:26 · answer #10 · answered by danny5000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋