The guy I'm trying to work things out with ; we haven't had sex in 5 months and he says it's because he ain't all about sex and can go without with no problem. What yaw thank? NOTE: We aren't really boyfriend and girlfriend anymore so he could be doing anything, but he says he wants us to get back together. Oh he's 27 yrs old
2007-06-11 06:07:29 · 26 answers · asked by sharon b 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because he hasn't had sex with you in 5 months is no big issue to him He could continue like this indefinitely because he is getting it somehwere else (thus not lack it). If your not the one to do it, someone else will.
A man needs sex to survive. We dream about, desire it constantly and will acquire it by any means necessary.
If your now just friends (not bf/gf), what do you really care?
2007-06-11 06:15:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know how he feels. I'm 27 too and I can go without sex for a few months. I don't think he would have anything else going on if he wants to get back together with you but he doesn't want to push you away either.
2007-06-11 13:13:39 · answer #2 · answered by Bones00 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can tolerate not having sex for 2 months... given that there arent willing females around me.
The united states is really low in the top ranks of how much sex per year (I've got this one in a mens health magazine). The philippines was higher than the US.
27 years old wow. He's got to be making the move on somebody, maybe even as we communicate.
2007-06-11 13:14:21 · answer #3 · answered by luvisuzu 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is what I think....and I'm saying this because it happened to me, so I speak from first-hand experience.
Okay, me and my husband split up (he's 31), and then we started talking about working things out etc...so we both agreed that we would take it slow. We didn't have sex but maybe once a week, or even less. Well,,,,I found out that he was trying to let his other girlfriend down easy, so in the mean time he was still boinking her. In short...it could be that he has someone else and you just don't know about it. He could be trying to end it with her peacefully so he could work on things with you, so in the mean time still sleeping with her. That's just my opinion...
Oh and now I'm getting divorced... : ) And happily so. Turns out that he wasn't what I wanted anyway. I found that out a few weeks later. Maybe you should think about moving on. Sex is not only something that makes us feel good, but it brings couples together, closeness/intimacy. He obviously doesn't care about your emotions. I'm not a bitter person at all, but I just think that your man should be making you feel loved and wanted. Clearly he isn't. You may wanna reconsider the relationship.
Good luck : )
2007-06-11 13:15:33 · answer #4 · answered by glittereyedg 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I could tolerate and I have been tolerated. I'm 21 and she's 28 and we've been going out for 9 months, and I could honestly tell you, sex isn't everything in a relationship. Her love is more important and I do respect her wishes. It's hard, but I'll rather tolerate it than loose her.
2007-06-11 13:18:14 · answer #5 · answered by Jose P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he might not be into the physical portion of the relationship, but more of the intellectual portion...there is a reason you two ended in the first place. he only wants to see what else you have to offer other than your goodies...if you really cant understand that, then you don't need to be with him. You might be better off with someone who wont respect your mind, body or soul, but only what they can get from what's between your legs. Think on it
2007-06-11 13:14:11 · answer #6 · answered by plumprump26 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is just going about it with someone else. It is apparent that he has/had someone on the side when he was with you, and he appeared to like the sex better with the other person. Has nothing to do with you, you just picked an a**hole for a boyfriend. Try again and good luck.
2007-06-11 13:15:02 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I've gone years without sex with another person. There are ways to take care of it yourself you know.
"We aren't really boyfriend and girlfriend anymore so he could be doing anything" And therefore it would be none of your business.
2007-06-11 13:12:31 · answer #8 · answered by elurle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There could be any number of reasons. Maybe he has an STD he doesn't want you to see. Maybe he's got someone on the side. Maybe he turned gay. Maybe he found religion. Maybe he has low testosterone levels....the only way to really find out is to ask him. Even then he may not tell you what's really going on.
2007-06-11 13:12:36 · answer #9 · answered by J D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For some people sex is just not the most important thing in a relationship.
2007-06-11 13:11:27 · answer #10 · answered by from_a_dark_place 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋