My 2 best friends are kind of leaving me out all the time, even when we hang out. i love them, but they are really confusing me. we used to be so close, but im just drifting. i know this sounds stupid but i used to be 1st and second on both of their myspaces, now im ten, or not even on it! i think their mad or something. HELP!
2007-06-11 02:18:35 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
ive already asked them if their mad at me, and if i hurt them, and they said no. They arent the kind of people to use me, at least i hope not. I told them that i felt like i was feeling left out and kinda depressed, and they were just like, okay. we were so close, we had so much!
2007-06-11 02:28:38 · update #1
okay, so i figured out. they are being mean just to push me away. they are making catty comments, and doing "little" things to upset me. thx for trying to help ya'll
2007-06-14 08:31:18 · update #2
First step is to talk to them about it.
Good luck!
2007-06-11 02:21:44 · answer #1 · answered by hollybear 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask them what is wrong tell them your problem try to figure it out if they ignore you are you see something isn't write well those friends weren't meant to be and it could mean that they were using you when you were really close and now they have what they need and now are just drifting away...you never know those friends might have not been your real friends.
2007-06-11 02:22:43 · answer #2 · answered by iLoVeNaThAn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hun the best thing you can do is talk to your friends. Yeah you may fall out after the conversation but you've got nothing to lose because they're not acting like friends with you now anyway! on the other hand you might just be over sensitive and they dont realise!!
worst case scenario - you lose these friends, find yourself some new friends sweetie, some that care about you.. if they're treating you like this then they're not worth having as friends anyway!
good luck xxx
2007-06-11 02:23:48 · answer #3 · answered by Lynsey F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay, this same exact thing happened to me......minus the myspace part bcuz i dont have 1!!!.......ok me and this girl have been friends since kindergarden and we were SO close......we cryed @ the end of skool bcuz we thought we wouldnt c each other anymore.....then im 2nd grade we met someone elese so we were a 3some where ever 1 went we ALL went....... well in 6th grade the one that had been mi friend since kindergarden became a snobby prep and we werent on the same team and then the other gurl just stopped talking to me in 5th grade just bcuz the other gurl hung out w/ me more!!! i mean this was a SUPER CLOSE frinedship me and the gurl 4rm kindergarden went to sunsplash, universal, the mall, the beach, and
everything........i even went home wit' her every day and spent the night@ her house every weekend in 5th grade!!! i miss her so much!!!: so just try to get new freinds......its working 4 me!!!
2007-06-11 06:26:20 · answer #4 · answered by ♥senses_fail♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask them if you have offended them in some way. The only way to find the real truth is explain how they are making you feel and see what they say. If they don't want to be your friends anymore, then they aren't worth your effort and you don't deserve to be treated like this.
2007-06-11 02:23:36 · answer #5 · answered by Kelly773 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have officially been dumped. Best way to find out why is to ask. Maybe you're gone boring or maybe they are planning to steal away one of your boy friends or something. Just ask, it wont kill.
2007-06-11 02:23:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to them about it but if that does not work maybe it's time to find new friends.
2007-06-11 04:02:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried talking to both of them and getting to the bottom of whatever is on their minds
2007-06-11 02:22:52 · answer #8 · answered by plumprump26 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋