Family & Relationships - 11 June 2007

I still feel sorry about our divorce..I've been trying to let it go for years. I've already apologized several times in the past. I'm married now and I'm trying to forgive myself. HELP!!

2007-06-11 03:30:25 · 16 answers · asked by football2002 3 in Marriage & Divorce

whats the one thing that greatly makes up your personality that you just hate and wish you could change about yourself, and maybe have even tried to change, but you just cant....nothing about appereance, just personality defects! mine is my temper....sometimes i just fly off the handle becuase of nothing signifcate, that and i get pissed. really pissed at stupid little things that dont mean anything...something that i know i need to work on more, but just cant.....u guys have anything like that?

2007-06-11 03:27:07 · 15 answers · asked by betsy 2 in Singles & Dating

i love my boyfriend very much. he's 16years older than me but he's the man in my dreams. i haven't stopped loving him since i saw him for the first time. of course he's divorced man. no kid. he and his ex wife were together for few years but oneday she told him she wants divorce and she left him in a week. she didn't tell him why, and she didn't even want any money from him, she just left. that was like 7years ago.
anyway, i want to get married him but he keeps saying he wants to live with me but doesn't want to get married anymore. so, first time, i thought like he doesn't love me enough to get married or he is seeing someone else. but it doesn't seem like that and he doesn't even let me go. he just says "without marriage". guys, why is that? is this because he felt frustrated from the past marriage? because i may want divorce later as she did? i want to know why. and i'm still in 20's, never been married. i can live with him as he wants but what if he wants to move on later? :-(

2007-06-11 03:26:15 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-11 03:24:20 · 4 answers · asked by abigail 1 in Singles & Dating

I plan on shaving it all off this weekend.

2007-06-11 03:21:53 · 6 answers · asked by Me 3 in Singles & Dating

what are the best egg laying chickens?

2007-06-11 03:19:44 · 16 answers · asked by mailbox_5 4 in Singles & Dating

He then gives a peek and says - "you're pretty down there"?

2007-06-11 03:19:20 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have known this guy for about 8 days, and he have been inseperable! He is awesome to me, treats me with a lot of respect in every form, and he is a blast to be with. We hold hands or he puts his arm around me all the time in public, and we kiss. The best part: When he says he is gonna call, he really does! He has even introduced me to his family (aunts, grandparents, parents...) and everything is going so great. We have so much in common.
He has left for a business trip today, and will not be back for a few days, and he is planning on taking me out again. Does this kinda sound like he may be in the mindset that he wants a relationship? I know a lot of the time girls seem to over analyze a situation, but I was just wondering what you guys think...

2007-06-11 03:19:05 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

like if someone cuts him off in traffic, he's pissed off for 5 hours..... He gets moody and quiet, but won't talk about what's bothering him......if I leave or go away from him when he's like that he calls me over and over and over apologizing saying he just wants me to be in his company, but not to talk about it.....what can I do? He needs to calm down....Been dating four months and I really like him:(

2007-06-11 03:19:05 · 16 answers · asked by Cinnamon79 5 in Singles & Dating

my mom told me i could not date but i was so i broke up with him (now hes mad)
but i still wana go out with him so my Q is how can i tell him i want him back !!!


*cant spell* (i'm 14)

2007-06-11 03:18:46 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 28 years old...have not had many relationships. Dated alot of guys but I guess I am a bit relationship stupid.

Anyway...I started talking to this guy I met on myspace...we literally had conversations that lasted for hours for a few days before we decided to go out. We went out...had a great time.everything went really well...there was none of the normal first date nervousness or anything. The next week we talked almost every day and saw each other a couple more times ...but then this past week-end I tried to call him to see if he wanted to do something Saturday night and he never got back to me...now it is Monday and I have not heard from him.

Like I said...I am a bit relationship stupid....is this normal? Mostly the guys I date just want to sleep with me so they run whenever I call but this guy is different. Any advice would be most appreciated.

2007-06-11 03:18:41 · 4 answers · asked by mich62879 1 in Singles & Dating

whenever me and my friends go out my friends get all of the attention from the guys.every guy i've ever met either likes my friend and no one has any interest in me whatsoever. No one approaches me.I don't understand i am nice. why can't guys see this?i recently started to think i was attractive but i'm not up myself about it. I don't hate myself,i actually quite like myself and i don't act desperate. still no one will talk to me. I have a crush on this man and all i ever do is look at him and he stares back.i have a few social anxiety issues too. could this be why no one approaches me

2007-06-11 03:18:30 · 6 answers · asked by jenny 1 in Singles & Dating

I would like one that comes well recommended, but have no one that I know that can provide a personal recommendation. I want to make sure that I have one with a good reputation & that will get things done right & professionally & that gets things done- I don't want this dragging out forever. Looking in the yellow pages, there are SO many. I've heard divorce lawyer horror stories & don't know where to start.

2007-06-11 03:17:13 · 15 answers · asked by eliziam 5 in Marriage & Divorce

My friend is still married, there is no love they are together for the sake of the children. He has met and rightly or wrongly a wonderful lady but he can't commit as he wants to see his children grow up they are 11 and 15. He has told her she must wait 7 years and just to be his mistress. From what he says she wants to wait but thinks the time is unreasonable.He is also so busy with work, home, and charity work she doesn't see enough of him, yet they are in love, what should I advise

2007-06-11 03:14:21 · 14 answers · asked by mollygirl20002000 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Over the past few months my husband has been getting very jealous and accusing me of things on a regluar basis. I know in my own mind that I haven't done anything wrong but I feel like I am always being put on the stand for something with him. A few months ago he changed my cell phone number "to prove I wasn't up to anything" he checks my cell phone and even checks the internet history to see what I do in my spare time. He has yet to find anything which I think is a good indicator that I am honest and loyal! Now this is the biggest thing and I am really upset about it. Our mutual best friend is guy, he comes over daily (when my husband is home of course) I help take care of his son (who's mother passed away). Anyway, my husband accuses me of flitrting with this friend of ours which I feel is totally untrue because I don't have any sexual attraction to him at all, he has become more like a brother/family member to me. I'm really upset about this and don't know how to deal - suggestions?

2007-06-11 03:09:56 · 15 answers · asked by AilanisPlace.com 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I was watching 'Morse'about half an hour ago and thought that this was a good question so I posted it.It came up on "singles &dating"and had about 30 answers in about 30minutes so I thought I would try it on "marriage & divorce"

2007-06-11 03:06:10 · 37 answers · asked by Matteasr 2 in Marriage & Divorce

what is meant by orkut.com friendship, is this a real?

2007-06-11 02:59:56 · 1 answers · asked by shah 1 in Singles & Dating

I was dating this guy for 3 months. He went on vacation to another country for 2 weeks and when he came back he said its weird bc he was gone so long and we should be friends We do work together and its been a week. I have said hi to him once and usually he cant even look me in the eye. I have caught him staring at me. I dont understand how someone can just pretend they dont even know you. And his excuse for this ending was very odd. I mean is he mad because I have been acting happy and not run to call him or talk to him. I'm trying to be the bigger person here

2007-06-11 02:56:30 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I just split up with my girlfriend and dont want her back, however now my life is miserable and I dont know what to do, the feeling of misery wont leave

2007-06-11 02:56:01 · 21 answers · asked by learn2focus 1 in Marriage & Divorce

How many guys hate there ex-wife? I hate the fact that even though we been divorced for 7 years she wants to control my life still, how do people deal with this? Is it just me or do all ex-husbands have this problem?

2007-06-11 02:54:43 · 11 answers · asked by mrjts 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I have s lot of evidence against her but she always deny. I feel I love her the more now than ever. The reason why I think she is doing it is she thinks I am doing it too but I am not. 1/01/07, I found her very wet when we want to make love after she raturned from watchnight service. This has never happened in our 8 yrs of marriage.When I asked why she was extremely wet she denied after cleaning herself pretentioustly. I the showed her the evidence in my groin and she seemed not to know anything about it. She later asked me to shave her and I refused. The next thing I saw was she was neatly shaved. This she couldnt do prior our marriage. She attempted it twice in the marriage but couldnt shave properly and I have to reshave her. But this time she claimed she did it herself. She is also in constant touch with her ex-boy friends. I always kept every known evidence to myself and pretends nothing happen. that is why she is always denying. but I could also be wrong. Is she doing it or has.

2007-06-11 02:54:02 · 16 answers · asked by kwame dzeble 1 in Marriage & Divorce

When we first got married my husband did not want a joint bank account but finally agreed to it. Almost three years have passed and he still unhappy with the situation. I bring home a little more than he does, but we still cannot afford to just split everything down the middle. We just purchased a new home and will be very limited to the money that we have left each pay period. We get into arguments about money all the time because he wants to spend money eating out, drinking and having a good time with this friends. Don't get me wrong, we all work hard and there's nothing wrong with that. But I will tell him a bill is due and he will actually get upset because he feels like all we do is pay bills. Well what are you supposed to be doing? When he hangs out with his friends he doesn't check the account. He just assumes that he ought to be able to go have a good time since he has worked hard. But bills come first, right? To be continued ...

2007-06-11 02:53:37 · 13 answers · asked by Hoping he will bless me with #1 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My 25 year old daughter was invited to a friend's house for a get together. Her friend's mother in law showed up. My daughter's friend decided to cook hamburgers for everyone and remembered that my daughter does not eat beef. My daughter told her friend that's ok, she'll make herself a grilled cheese sandwich. The friend's MIL told my daughter, "I'm kind of pushy and I will make your sandwich the way I want and I will let you know when you can eat it." My daughter told her, "The hell you will! I'm "kind of" pushy too and picky and I'll make my own sandwich." Then this MIL called my house to complain about my daughter. I told her my daughter is 25 years old and fights her own battles. Next time think before she tries to boss my kid like that again.
What would you of said?

2007-06-11 02:51:56 · 10 answers · asked by Jessi 1 in Family

I am divorced with two daughters from my marriage. I sometimes take my daughters shopping to buy them clothes and things they may need. I have am infant son with my girlfriend and she becomes angry when I spend money on my daughters. She feels like I am doing my ex-wife a favor by buying my daughters clothes. I pay $600/month in child support on my two daughters and $500 for my son. I also buy things for my infant son. I see no problem with how I spend my money. Am I wrong?

2007-06-11 02:50:40 · 22 answers · asked by southern_border_texan_70 2 in Marriage & Divorce

couple going for it like mad, I was with my husband and our 15 yr old. the couple were out on a hugh slab of rock in the middle of the river...

2007-06-11 02:48:52 · 11 answers · asked by ticonderoga1186 4 in Family

Imagine that all the televisions of America go blank, starting tonight.What would you and your family do on a typical night without television? Explain in
detail.

2007-06-11 02:47:19 · 7 answers · asked by Sweetcheeks 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend and I got into a fight the other night and he said sarcastically that I was a good girlfriend (situation is difficult to explain-why we were fighting) so basically he called me a bad one. I've been trying to find ways to be a "better" girlfriend..... Have any ideas on how I can be a better girlfriend even when he apologized and such? He said he didn't mean it but it still is there and he still said it and makes me feel as if I really am a bad girlfriend.......


How can I be a better girlfriend???

2007-06-11 02:45:57 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-11 02:33:33 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-11 02:33:00 · 6 answers · asked by emzy 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Will some women purposely try to make a handsome man feel worthless and ugly?

Why do they do so?

2007-06-11 02:32:53 · 2 answers · asked by Greattobehere 1 in Other - Family & Relationships