whats the one thing that greatly makes up your personality that you just hate and wish you could change about yourself, and maybe have even tried to change, but you just cant....nothing about appereance, just personality defects! mine is my temper....sometimes i just fly off the handle becuase of nothing signifcate, that and i get pissed. really pissed at stupid little things that dont mean anything...something that i know i need to work on more, but just cant.....u guys have anything like that?
2007-06-11 03:27:07 · 15 answers · asked by betsy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I always know what I want to say when I want to say it. I know how to make people sad...its horrible because I do it and I dont' even realize that I'm doing it. example I got into a fight with a girl at school last week and she was screaming at me all I had to do was say one little sentance and she shut up and moped the rest of the day I felt horrible...I really try not to do it it bugs me
2007-06-11 03:33:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes i think everyone has smthing in him/her that makes himfeel proud or disgusted about himself.
Personally, i think that i am quite able to look right through people. I can detect smthing in them as though they were made of tissue paper!
People think i'm rather friendly and make them laugh. Well, i hope so! My mom says i have a loving heart and can love others. Well, i like being friendly!
BUT, i must admit i am a bit lazy. I haven't learnt how to master it but i really must or else this laziness will drown me and i won't succeed.
I also have the tendency to point out faults in others and say that they do this and that. Maybe i criticise too much!
I try to change but smtimes you can't really do it in one day, can you?
Smone once told me if a stranger looked at me, he'd feel that i'm a nasty person coz i look serious to the point of being cold and unfriendly-i was quite surprised! Smtimes you think you look ok and people like you but in fact it is not.
This friend stayed with me and she discovered i'm not a beast - she admitted that @ first she was v.reluctant to befriend me but now everthing is ok!
You can't be perfect. You can't change to please others.
God gave you a personality, why should you create another?
2007-06-11 10:42:55 · answer #2 · answered by keer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My solf nature. I am really soft spoken at heart and sometime I can't stand up for myself. As an example me and my wife got into an arguement one night and she blurted out that she hates my family. Most people would have said something back but i kinda walked away and sat in the dark by myself. I did this once and I really hurt someone's feelings and I don't wanna do it again so I hold everything inside. I want to be more outspoken so that I can get my point across instead of taking the back seat in everything.
2007-06-11 10:33:19 · answer #3 · answered by desaun08 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you should be checked to see if you are bi-polar...
I tend to let people walk all over me...hate to have to pull the tough love card on people I care about...but I'm getting better at not letting my friends and family members take advantage of me. It's a process and I am enjoying the outcome of my choice to tell them no when they request a hand out rather than a hand up.
You can change anything about yourself if you set your mind to it and be consistent. Best Wishes.
2007-06-11 10:34:37 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm too proud. I hate admitting I am wrong and will argue til I'm blue in the face if I believe I am right. Also I hate losing... whether it be a game of football or monopoly!! I find it really difficult to lose graciously. However I have gotten better at this last one since my son was born... I don't mind losing to him at anything!!
2007-06-11 10:30:45 · answer #5 · answered by Chelsea Shrimper 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope i love all of me. Sometimes I do get angry or upset and act badly. However my emotions, actions, characteristics, or the degree on my wall do not define me as a person. Everybody acts badly from time to time, nobody is perfect however thats the paradox, if nobody is perfect does that not mean we are all perfect in our imperfections.
2007-06-11 10:33:40 · answer #6 · answered by Joseph 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This doesn't happen very often, but every now and then, I turn into a "My-Way-Or-the-Highway" type of person. I refuse to hear anyone else's ideas. I am hell-bent on doing things my way and I'm very mean about it.
I am actually working on this - it's difficult, but I'm getting better.
2007-06-11 11:02:26 · answer #7 · answered by YSIC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My inability to relax around other people. I do not like crowds or being around those I do not know. I hate it and I get sweaty and worry I am going to say the wrong things.
2007-06-11 10:31:52 · answer #8 · answered by Deb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My low self-esteem which results in great frustration and as you will know out of frustration comes all manner of emotions. I am working on it and it is getting better so fingers crossed I'll be normal soon LOL & PMSL
2007-06-11 10:32:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate my high morals and standards, it turns people off when I have to constantly correct them when they say the wrong thing or act stupid
2007-06-11 10:30:21 · answer #10 · answered by TaymanL 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋