Family & Relationships - 11 June 2007

OK, so I was at a carnival, and there was a ride called the zipper, and i rode it 5 times with my friend who i like but who already has a bf, and we held hands the last 3 times we went on it, and now i want to tell the bf because due to a computer error my other friend is teling everybody and i dont' want it to get twisted thru the grapevine. My friend and I are going to tell him tomrrow morning, but since he's my friend i don't want to piss him off too much cuz hes a good friend. What should I say to him? I don't even know how we ended up holding hands, one minute we were sitting there and the next we were holding hands. I'm in 8th grade so find something age-appropriate to say, and don't say i'm too young because that doesn't help me any.

2007-06-11 18:29:51 · 15 answers · asked by Thomas 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-11 18:25:49 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Say there were these two really good friends a guy and a girl, and the girl had been starting fights with the guy for the past month over stupid things and just overall being a ***** to him (but was the best friend ever before that) The guy finally says "enough, if your gonna keep starting **** with me for no reason, just dont talk to me"...after about a week the girl realizes what a b*tch she's been (never has before) and is completely discusted in how shes been treating her friend (who really cares about her) She swears she's back to the way she used to be, Would you forgive her?

2007-06-11 18:25:26 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

alright...now to clarify. he really doesnt hang out with the other girl much so i dont see how he's "in love" i just think hes confused. And not seeing him isn't an option...any advice now?

2007-06-11 18:23:45 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-11 18:22:19 · 9 answers · asked by annie78 3 in Family

I have known this girl for bout 6 months now, she is coming back in town from school next week and I asked her if she would like some lunch since we had already done coffee during her spring break, she said yeah so i'm thinking of doing it mid-week? i also asked her if she would like a walk in the park (as a friendly offer) and she said sure

I do like her but I also dont wanna ruin anything which is our friendship (I value that more than anything and dont want it to be ruined by me telling her i like her). I just hope when i asked her for a walk in the park afterwards, that she didnt take it the wrong way...something in which she wouldnt want to do..i know she doesnt like me more than a friend even tho she has never directly said it, but has hinted it...

lunch and a walk in the park, as friends, good idea? thanks. i wont ask her to hold hands or anything, lol

2007-06-11 18:20:04 · 7 answers · asked by Wayne D 1 in Singles & Dating

I came across my husbands email and phone account because we got charged twice and I called the company to get it worked out and they reffered me to the account online. I have come to find that my husband has been calling and emailing a woman who is also in Iraq and who used to be stationed with him. In one of the emails he mentions missing hearing her scream his name. I am in utter shock, disbelief, heart broken right now. I have not talked to my husband in days because they have supposedly been on blackout. I was able to view his call logs as well and he calls the other woman way more than he even calls me. I can't wait till he calls so that I can let him know that I know. What is the best way to go about dealing with this? He's already been home on randr and I would have never in my life thought he would cheat on me or has. I came across this all on accident. Im feeling so lost right now. Obviously we need to get a divorce because my trust for him is broken.

2007-06-11 18:19:49 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Call it what you will but i find older women very attractive, i just can't figure out to meet any interested in a younger man (i'm 23)
Any suggestions?

2007-06-11 18:19:25 · 10 answers · asked by Ryan 1 in Singles & Dating

Long story short: High school sucks. I hate being a junior....
Ok here's my story on a list about a guy I know:

1.) We both have each others number
2.) I gave my number 2 him on paper
3.) I Think he likes me too. It's completely obvious even my friends notice it. (You know what i mean...)

4.) All my girlfriends said I should call him first. (Hes really quiet all the time, he never really talks that much in class.)

~~~
I called once but then chickened out during the ringing so I hung up. I called again the other day and no one picked up. It's been two days since I did that, you think he would of checked his phone. So....my question is, do I give up or call again? Or do I give the benefit of the doubt? He's not outgoing, super shy, you know. I don't know what to think anymore. Help a poor junior teenage girl out. Was it always this difficult when you were in highschool? (Also, wouldn't his cell say "missed call"?)

2007-06-11 18:18:20 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-06-11 18:18:09 · 9 answers · asked by 黒いサファイア/Black Sapphire 6 in Weddings

I am in field sales, and one of my VIP customers always complains about his wife and his marriage. He says that his wife doesn't care about him and that he's sick and tired about the marriage. He once told me that he found me attractive, but nothing more. Why does he do this and what must I do next time he does this?

2007-06-11 18:14:50 · 23 answers · asked by Confused_Rep 4 in Marriage & Divorce

If so would you tell her the real reason...

BTW I don't have a weight issue so no mean comments. This is only out of curiousity.

2007-06-11 18:13:52 · 15 answers · asked by Girly 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok so i have a Best friend but lately she doesnt seem like even a friend. Like today we went to the mall and she didnt want to go in any stores and she just kept going on, on how she wanted to hang out with this one guy J. And last night we had a sleepover and all she did was talk to J on the phone because she thinks hes "so cool" even though hes a drugie and a soon to be drop out, and now its even hard to hold one conversation with her on the phone because nowadays its always " Can i call you back, J is calling me?" Its obvious she likes him but other guys before like we could just all talk but now its just like im not good enough for her ya kno?

2007-06-11 18:10:21 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I am a recovering addict. My Mom is still in her addiction. She has surgery on Thursday. I'm driving her down there & taking care of her after. She is a Methodone addict. She asked me to hold her dope and give her some as soon as we leave the hospital. The fact that she's sneaking it through me tells me the Dr. doesn't want her to take it.
I've taken her to Narcotics Anonymous meetings but she's not ready to quit.
Would you give it to her? She'll have withdrawls if I don't.

2007-06-11 18:10:20 · 14 answers · asked by me 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

In fact I've NEVER talked to a girl before or kissed a girl... or dont anything like that....

AM I NORMAL??

2007-06-11 18:09:34 · 8 answers · asked by Radiant Beam 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-11 18:07:10 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My fiance and I have a great relationship. There is an age difference, but that doesn't affect the quality of our relationship, other than this issue.
When we got engaged 3 1/2 years ago, I agreed that I didn't want anymore children. He has 3 grown children and I have a now 8 year old (I had her when I was 18). It seemed to make sense, at the time.
But then my sister had a baby, my best friend had a baby, his daughter had a baby, I babysit babies every so often, etc.
And now, I want a baby.
I've told him directly that I want a baby. That's the end of the conversation. He has no response.
I recently got a IUD and it was expensive (but more convenient then Depo)
So I don't know what to do. Do I have the UID taken out and tell him that if he doesn't want a baby, he should do something about it?
Do I stick with a 3 1/2 agreement to not have any more kids when he still hasn't married me? And grow old with only one child and admire the babies around me?
Thanks!

2007-06-11 18:04:46 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

HER: We are here because my boyfriend and I are having a discussion about what I deem unacceptable behavior. When fighting my boyfriend has done the following: held me down, gotten on top of me, held my wrists, blocked the door and told me I am not allowed to leave until I listen to him, look at him,etc. All if he feels I am not listening.This is a great concern to me. I am trying to explain that this is intimidating and aggressive behavior. I am 5'4" and he is a 6'. HIM:I was taught growing up that you should NEVER leave a situation angry. Being that we were having a fight that was unresolved, I thought to myself, "I want to fix this-I don't want her to leave the house angry. What if something happened? How would I feel if she were in an accident?" My reaction was to try and keep her there until things were resolved-so when she was trying to abandon the situation,I tried to hold her down so we could get this resolved. I know this sounds bad but I would NEVER hurt her! I love her

2007-06-11 17:58:01 · 22 answers · asked by dahlia 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have my ex boyfriend who i havent see and wont comeover anymore so how do i get him to come over out side what do i tal kabout and how do i turn him .i think you know my looks are grate but hes havng trouble getting together agin ?

2007-06-11 17:54:27 · 1 answers · asked by briana.wruck 2 in Singles & Dating

I am an 18 year old guy and have asked this question multiple times and never really gotten a good answer. I am trying to have no feelings what so ever. I dont want to feel pain anymore and thats all I have felt for years and years now, since I was a little boy thats the last time I smiled. All my friends left me or turned on me, have no family, and never had a girlfriend or even kissed a girl(guess I am not attractive or something). I just dont want to feel anymore, I have found some times where I feel nothing but want to never have a feeling again. I am close to this, I care about almost nothing can some one help me alittle further.

2007-06-11 17:52:30 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Ive been married to my wife almost ten years we have 4 small children,she up and left one day, shes given me every excuse in the book why she left but the thing is i can admit to my wrongs but she played her part to.Anyway bring up things from the past doesn't help anything.I love my wife more than life itself and God is the only one I put before her.Shes been gone for almost a month now and she tells me she doesnt want me back but if I give her time she might change her mind,Ive told her I love her from head to toe that I worship her as my queen that she is my every thing and that my presious children need a father and not a part time dad they are everything to me and i cant see waking up or coming home from work and them not being there.It kills me, every second feels like a day ,a day a year ,a week an eternity so a whole month im toar up ,but she said the damage is done but let her think about it which i havent really been doin cause ive been calling her everyday.

2007-06-11 17:47:19 · 14 answers · asked by ELITE 1 in Marriage & Divorce

If so, how is this possible? How can they tell?

2007-06-11 17:45:55 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There is this girl that I have huge feelings for. She supposedly likes me but she treats me like crap honestly. Telling me that she cares about me and stuff and then goes and hangs on other guys. I hate her for that but I still care about her (craziness). I know that I should just leave her alone but I just can't. Is there an easy way to forget about someone like that, or at least drop nothing but friendly views of someone?

If you've been in this situation or a similar one what did you do?

2007-06-11 17:35:56 · 5 answers · asked by Devan! 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-11 17:34:47 · 13 answers · asked by D-Homie 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

if a guy gets it in halfway, or just a little. & your cherry didnt break.

is the girl still a virgin, or not?

2007-06-11 17:34:11 · 3 answers · asked by cassie 1 in Singles & Dating

for instance I don't want to look obsessed but what do guys take as hints?

2007-06-11 17:31:47 · 18 answers · asked by lexi 3 in Singles & Dating

Why do guys wear boxers but others wear briefs (tighty whity's)? I think boxers are a lot more comfortable. Why do some men want to wear briefs? Why do women prefer boxers over briefs ?

2007-06-11 17:25:45 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-11 17:23:09 · 13 answers · asked by Talia Hart 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I know he loves me, but I can't help but feel jealous. We have been married for almost 3 years. I keep wondering if I was just a "rebound"....I thought we had put it all behind us until recently when he got drunk (which almost NEVER happens) and he couldn't stop talking about her....it has brought all the feelings back up again, all the uncertainty. I have suggested councilling but he doesn't think it is necessary. I don't like feeling like I was the alternative. I love him dearly, but I hate feeling this way. What should I do?

2007-06-11 17:17:28 · 27 answers · asked by wiccan_an_proud 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Do you think you can really truly love and forgive your spouse for cheating? It's been 5 years and I can't get over it.

2007-06-11 17:09:01 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce