There is this girl that I have huge feelings for. She supposedly likes me but she treats me like crap honestly. Telling me that she cares about me and stuff and then goes and hangs on other guys. I hate her for that but I still care about her (craziness). I know that I should just leave her alone but I just can't. Is there an easy way to forget about someone like that, or at least drop nothing but friendly views of someone?
If you've been in this situation or a similar one what did you do?
2007-06-11 17:35:56 · 5 answers · asked by Devan! 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah, I am into right now. Hundred times I planned of freeing myself from my so called "jerk" bf but I just can't. I love him, and until the day I can say I don't love him anymore perhaps will be my independence day.
Sounds crazy, but I chose to be happily crazy than to be wise and lonely.
2007-06-11 17:49:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To answer your initial question:
It is hard to forget people we know aren't good for us for the same reason bad experiences stay with us longer. Bad experiences imprint deeper so that we will avoid doing the same thing again.
As for the behavior you describe; she could be 'shopping around', to see who has the stamina and endurance to beat out the competition; or, she could simply be testing out her 'power over men' if she's just entering puberty... if this game is played after puberty, it's just a game, and nobody will be a 'winner' in the end, 'cause the deck is stacked...
Perhaps she doesn't know your level of interest in her. You can often find out where you stand in a relationship by telling her you want a more meaningful relationship, and asking her how she feels about it? Ask her what she expects or wants of your relationship. It's easier to work it out if you know these things. And it's the only way to know for sure, ask. You might get a pleasant surprise, as I often have during my 60 years on this earth. Good luck, bro.
2007-06-12 01:12:28 · answer #2 · answered by John Silver 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you think if you can fix her, you will be fixed. And then the two of you can be happy. Don't torture yourself.
2007-06-12 00:42:08 · answer #3 · answered by Max 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like u like her get back with her
2007-06-12 00:41:40 · answer #4 · answered by ***Lovin*** 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its you want what you cant have. so all i can tell you is to learn to move on. you can do better.
2007-06-12 00:42:49 · answer #5 · answered by leslie m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋