I am an 18 year old guy and have asked this question multiple times and never really gotten a good answer. I am trying to have no feelings what so ever. I dont want to feel pain anymore and thats all I have felt for years and years now, since I was a little boy thats the last time I smiled. All my friends left me or turned on me, have no family, and never had a girlfriend or even kissed a girl(guess I am not attractive or something). I just dont want to feel anymore, I have found some times where I feel nothing but want to never have a feeling again. I am close to this, I care about almost nothing can some one help me alittle further.
2007-06-11 17:52:30 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Are you emo? Emo guys are hot. You should have no problem finding a girlfirend.
2007-06-11 18:37:36 · answer #1 · answered by karen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being 18 isn't easy. If you look at others you age and think they have the world in the palm of their hands, that is because they are good at acting. Others who are not acting, may be covering up their true feelings with drugs. Yet you will find some who are jumping in and out of bed with many different sex partners, and finally those who are always have had just a little to much to drink. The lifestyles I just listed don't mean happy people, just band aid solutions for other UN happy teens. I'm happy to see you recognize your problem, because that is the 1st step in resolving anything. Try to stop thinking about what has happened to cause you to feel unhappy. Try focusing on trying to cheer another person up, then without realizing it , you will be feeling better about yourself. Seeking a professional counselor may be helpful also. I found true happiness and peace when I opened my life to having a meaningful relationship with God. I was there at one time also. Never quite happy, something always felt like it was missing. It was after I felt I hit rock bottom and there was no way left to look but up. I still had disappointments , that is a part of life... there are good and bad days. It is all in how you look and what is going on around you , then how you deal with it. Dealing with life is much easier with God. Best of Luck!
2007-06-12 01:17:19 · answer #2 · answered by dandeelion05 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HMM.. You remind me of someone. Quit putting yourself down and face life. Stop jumping to conclusions saying "Oh I guess I'm not attractive". Your problem is that you have low self esteem. Everyone feels pain once in a while.. I mean cmon, be happy. Atleast your not suffering with diseases or cancers? Right?? I've never ever had a boyfriend.. and I'm not ugly or unattractive. Maybe you have to go out there and show who you are and talk to people. Be social and meet people. It's really easy if you get yourself involved. get outta your shell and stop being depressed. Life goes on.....
2007-06-12 19:04:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first, DO NOT COMMITT SUICIDE!!! it never helps, second, you're 18! are you in college or going to college or in high school? if you're going to college, don't go to a place where people know you. try and get away from it all. If you go where all your classmates go, they'll make you feel like a loser. try and go out of state or to a college so large people won't see you. my school is about 5.5k so i see my old classmates fairly frequently, I even had a class with one last semester. or, you can go to a school so large you won't find people you know as easily. for instance, the largest school in my state has 24k students. 8 from my class went there. they've seen each other a handful of times, and as far as classes go, it's very rare. and if you do, those classes have 1000 students in it. the small ones have 2-300. third, GET INVOLVED. join 2 or 3 clubs! find a frat! go to parties, just relax and enjoy life.
2007-06-12 05:06:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Careful man. Look I think we have all been there. I am sure that there is someone in your life you can talk to. Nothing is worth hurting yourself. Trust me I know. I have never had a girlfriend or kissed a girl. I just have not met the right one. I do not hate myself for that though. You will meet someone. Just do not hurt yourself. There has to be something to live for.
2007-06-12 00:58:43 · answer #5 · answered by Surfer guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is no way to live. I'm sorry your life has been so painful, but it doesn't HAVE to be that way. You seriously need counseling, or you are going to commit suicide. Humans NEED to feel, which is why you are having such a hard time blocking your feelings.
Please, please get help.
2007-06-12 00:58:23 · answer #6 · answered by luvrats 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋