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my xwife needed me to come and get the kids early and that messed up my girlfriends plans for the day so she got mad at me and was very cold and hateful when she left she when and got with her sister and they went to a bar and she told me she was going over the phone and i ask her not to go witho me we are supppost to be getting married. she goes and flirts with some guys and shoots some pool calling me every now and then to let me know what shes doing she meets her (cussin) so she said and they act like there on a date so the guys in the bar would leave her alone. she said that he had got jumped on by these other guys so she was going to let him and her sister and her boyfriend follower her back home about 20 miles to give hime a stick so he could get even so he follows her back to her house and stays to about 2:30am. she says that she don't want our relationship any more but nothing happen with them 2. is she trying to hurt me for spite and did she cheat. i love her but i am confusse

2007-06-11 11:55:07 · 7 answers · asked by J.M.H. 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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It sounds as if your gf is tired of your past relationship coming in between the one you have with her. She really should be more understanding depending on how often this has happened. It is very possible for someone to go home after the bar and NOT have a sexual encounter. At this point in time if she wants her space then I think its best that you give it to her because if you try to force the relationship than she will only turn on you more. It is a strong possibility that she has a interest in this person she met that night. If that is the case you have to do your best to let it be. But i dont feel that she has cheated on you. She does say things to get you jealous because she is angry with you for what she deems you doing wrong to her. Let her cool off, have a talk with her and if she is adament still about leaving and moving on you have to let her.

2007-06-11 12:04:10 · answer #1 · answered by My Business 2 · 0 0

Wow that is a tough one. Ok it is good to know you still love her, but the question is does she still love you? If she says she didn't cheat, and this is the 1st time you've ever had this problem, then I would try to trust her and believe her. But you should most definately keep a close eye on her. Don't like go stalk her everywhere she goes because you still need to have trust in her(unless she has lost it this time), but make sure you know who she is with and where. I know it sounds like what our parents did to us when we were teenagers, but just keep it this way for a little while until you know she is completely faithful to you. Hope I helped and thanks for reading!

2007-06-11 19:02:34 · answer #2 · answered by ♡dancingfoolxoxo♪♫♪♫♪☂ 2 · 0 0

I sure hope you are a better at loving then you are at writing.

Practice some spelling and grammar will you please.

and trust your girlfriend this time. I say keep her, but that's just me.

2007-06-11 19:02:51 · answer #3 · answered by apup76 3 · 0 0

she sounds like a ***** just because u needed 2 pick up Ur kids
don't let her treat u like that get some1 u deserve

2007-06-11 18:59:15 · answer #4 · answered by dansaimerxo 2 · 0 0

hmmm.....hello??????.....She obviously cheated. Her cousin? Is that a "Kissing Cousin"? Whether she cheated or didn't, she broke it of with you right? Dump that *****!

Go find yourself someone with morals, and values that equal your own!

2007-06-11 19:01:36 · answer #5 · answered by Larry B 2 · 0 0

She is playing games big time with you. Don't go for it.

2007-06-11 18:58:48 · answer #6 · answered by WE 5 · 0 0

if she said she didn't cheat just believe her.if that happened to you and you told her wouldn't you want her to believe you.

2007-06-11 19:01:38 · answer #7 · answered by sexybabygirl 2 · 0 0

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