my boyfriend and i have been going out for two years, i love him sooo much. He's perfect, sweet, kind, loving understanding and a genius in Columbia law school currently going at 20. He is goreuous 6'9, broad sholders, tan, black hair, blue eyes, in amazing shape. One problem he is a virgin, by choice philosophical/religous reasons.I lied to him and said i was. He is Catholic, doesn't act holier than thou and very understanding. A friend of mine dated him for a while she told him that she wasn't a virgin from the start, they were together for awhile. Anyway he was at a bar and bumped into an exboyfriend whom told him i slept with him and others, I didnt know this happened. He asked me, he never has, and I lied. Then I said i did it because i loved him "No you dont, you want to be with me, you though it would hurt you chances so you lied, you dont care about me. I hate this it happens my whole life i though you were different. how can i trust you, i dont know" How can make it better
2007-06-11 12:26:00 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This guy should stop living in his little dream world, or he is going to eventually find himself an old man; and still virgin! I think he is trying to play head games with you. I wonder if he is one of those guys where no girl is quite good enough for him so he keeps making up excuses to break up. I don't think there is much you can do because the problem not you, its him!
2007-06-11 12:40:50 · answer #1 · answered by Flying Dragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him u want to talk 2 him about it, from what it sounds like he will listen. explain 2 him y u did it, talk about it, and apologize. Hopefully he will understand enough 2 4give u, which he shud if u have always treated him well and this is the 1st serious thing u have done wrong. goodluck :)
2007-06-11 12:31:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell him how you feel. If you were scared to tell him, let him know that. If he loves you like you love him, he shouldn't care. After all, he would find out eventually if you two married. You definitely don't want him finding out that way.
2007-06-11 12:30:07 · answer #3 · answered by vmarie84 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MAKE UP SEX...........KIDDING...
let him no every day u r sorry n u just wanted things 2 go well so u lied let him no u wont give up on him
2007-06-11 12:36:11 · answer #4 · answered by da barbie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you lied you broke that trust give it some time
2007-06-11 12:32:17 · answer #5 · answered by rkhd1999 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋