av been with two girls and they have both cheated on me!! why are sum girls a bunch of u know wa!! i havent been this upest since me grandad died 4 years ago sum one help me b4 i do sumthin stupid
2007-06-11 11:58:36 · 16 answers · asked by an146442 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do you catter to there every need? Do you try to buy her stuff to win her love? go to daviddeangelo.com. Be a man and not a girl. Your in contol of the situation not them.
2007-06-11 12:02:32 · answer #1 · answered by mermer7@sbcglobal.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, calm down. This isn't the end of the world, you just picked two bad girls. Refine your taste a bit. Before dating someone, find out if they have cheated before. If they have there is a strong chance they will do it again. Some girls cheat because they feel like they can do it and get away with it. Be sweet, but don't give the impression that a girl can walk all over you. Be strong, but not overpowering or aggressive. Also try to go for someone you are already friends with instead of someone you meet at a party or through friends. If they like you first as a friend they are less likely to hurt your feelings because they know how good a person you are.
2007-06-11 19:03:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do anything stupid - it's just not worth it. These girls obviously aren't the sort you would want to be with anyway if that's what they are like to think to yourself, I have had a luck escape. Next time you meet a girl you want to date, take your time and get to know her so you can build up some trust and a good friendship before things get serious. That way, you will soon find out if they are the cheating type before you give anything of yourself. Don't let girls like this get to you - we all get dumped once in a while - it's not a nice feeling at the time but the funny thing is you usually end up meeting someone else much better!
2007-06-11 19:05:34 · answer #3 · answered by Bexs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This world is ugly. Either people cheating on people or people being cheated by people. So what will you do? Go and cheat people? Or will be rather be cheating people?
Making complaints here does not makes a different. Choosing a girl who falls in love with you easily means that she can falls in love with another easily too. Furthermore, you have yet married her, so she did not cheated on you.
If a relationship ends, if she choose to see another guy, are you saying that you have no share of fault here? Maybe you are also one reason that contributes to her action.
A relationship requires the effort of two to maintain but one to destory.
Water
2007-06-11 19:14:57 · answer #4 · answered by i_love_my_ap 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your problem is you are looking for the wrong type of GF.
Try not looking w/ your eyes or other bits & find a person who is compatible with you.
Remember if your relationship is based purely on sex or you are too dedicated to the other person without them being the same way for you, you are setting yourself up for failure.
And I was also cheated on in the past & it has helped me open my eyes to what a good man really is!
2007-06-11 19:43:42 · answer #5 · answered by D W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you seem young- what are your hobbies- well lets put love on the back burner for a lil while atleast until u get your mind right okay- have fun- go out,hang out- do the things that you love to do, do the things that make you smile.have a great time doing it- keep busy & have a blast- the girls wanna play so set them aside & enjoy some "you" time..good luck sweetie.
2007-06-11 19:03:35 · answer #6 · answered by kimmiegaddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nice girls wouldn't cheat on you, maybe you're just going out with the wrong type! Broaden your horizons, visit different places and clubs, I'm sure one day you will meet the right girl for you. Good luck.
2007-06-11 19:04:54 · answer #7 · answered by kathyc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they did that to you then just forget them. I've been cheated on once and it was honestly the best thing for me. I really didn't want that relationship to end but it was a blessing becasue of what I have today.
Evreything happens for a reason they say, right? :)
2007-06-11 19:02:07 · answer #8 · answered by CoorsHeavy™ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rise above it An ,its not those women you want if they treat you like that.
Who needs enemies when you got friends like that!
Think of yourself as suceeded in losing the women who treat you badly,and count your blessings that its happened now ,and not at a later time,when you,ve been going out with them for a few months/years.
2007-06-11 19:07:51 · answer #9 · answered by First CHARLIE 7290 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it takes a while 2 find the "right" 1, there plenty fish in the c ur time will come round soon and u wil b so happy u b thankin me lol hahaha good luck hun xxx
2007-06-11 19:05:10 · answer #10 · answered by English 'n' Blonde Babez ;) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋