Hi, I wanted to know if A loves B with all her heart and B does not, what should A do?
1. Is it becasue A is lacking something and A must ask B what is lacking?
2. Is it destiny?
3. A does not deserve B?
4. A's love for B is not true enough?
Lastly, any other reason?
2007-06-11 22:06:36 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Unfortunately, we can not always make the person we love, love us. It is not necessarily anything that A is doing wrong. B just does not feel the same way. Maybe it is time for A to find someone that will love them as they need to be loved.
2007-06-11 22:11:56 · answer #1 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
True love do exist, but not in the form of romance.
Anyway, the answers are:
1. Yes, A must ask B what B seek for.
2. It might be destiny A and B don't have a relationship today, but maybe it's also destiny that A and B have a relationship tomorrow or even the day after tomorrow.
3. Everyone deserve everyone.
4. If it was romance, then it's not true enough.
A should focus on making a relationship based on love and not romance.
2007-06-11 22:39:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think there is any sense in looking for reasons WHY! I know for you it means a lot at the moment since you are the one whose love is neglected. That's how it normally works - hearing NO triggers some kind of secret mechanism that makes us like the other person even more. Once you can realise what's happening - you can help yourself. Listen, sitting there and waiting for the B to come is no use. Your B might appreciate your affection, but it's gonna take some time (maybe not even a year or two). Do you wanna wait, feel sorry for the poor you and not to pay attention to all the other nice people that are around? If the answer is yes - it's up to you. If no, say your B a huge thank you for being in your life and giving the miracle of love and try to move on!!! ;)
2007-06-11 22:17:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anja 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no destiny, deserving nothing.
See, love is pure form of trust. If situation is like that B does not love A, then there should not be any problem, as you can force any body to love some one. It might be problem of A or of B. They should talk to each other or rather A should ask B for what he or she wants, what are his or her priorities. May be Loving someone is least priority for him or her. May be he or she is trapped in some situations that love can not be afforded i mean loving someone at the cost of certain essential thing is not affordable. Anyways, this can be resolved only by discussions.
2007-06-11 22:16:10 · answer #4 · answered by gr8man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm i come from an indian background,and some of this things is from my cultural view, a lot of ppl dont understand that the real true love is when you are married to the person,, other things in between is natures way of educating you,, take this things easy, you cannot force nature, if ppl dont like you then there is no point to push it, if you push then you are forcing nature,, think about this,, if you let this person go then maybe he will be with a person he truly loves, if you force it then he might get married to you and then have another affair when he realizez he doesnt love you anymore,, take things easy even during during bf and gf stage, just keep in mind that not every relationship ends up with marriage, a lot of ppl think it does, nature allways chooses your partner at the end and not you,,
2007-06-11 22:15:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A's screwed. She should understnad that it's not B's fault. You can't love someone just for the wanting. Tough luck on A, much sympathy from this end. For B it must be pretty embarrassing, but (s)he should be sensitive and respect A's feelings, but A should not demand love from B because it is not B's fault.
I feel like I'm writing a physics equation... e = mc2 and all that...
2007-06-13 11:12:14 · answer #6 · answered by Lyra B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think what "A" should do is still loving "B" but respect "b" feelings... unfornatly nodbody can force other to love! you are and not will be the first perosn in this world witha broken heart!
It's truly sad but its life! sometimes is destiny to make us stronger and learn about it, others is bad luck ! In this world is very difciult to find our sould mate... maybe B doesnt deserve A, but "A" should be always humble and respect how things are!
If its a true love will last for ver in "A" heart!
Good luck:)
2007-06-11 22:16:14 · answer #7 · answered by Kinynha 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'ts hard to let go of someone who became a part of your life...
But sometimes you need to go out of his/her life to ease the pain...
But how will you say goodbye to the person you dont want to go???
You just have to accept the fact that he or she doesn't like you the same way and move on... I know it's hard but when the time comes and you find some one who would love you the same way you'd realize that likeing him was just a waste of time...
2007-06-11 22:51:55 · answer #8 · answered by Querty-burty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could come out and ask but be ready because the truth may hurt ALOT. it is very common n human nature that there is a physical charactoristic (EX overweight) that discourages their interest in you. i know from experience you have to bite the bullet on this one. it SUCKS. but someday youll meet someone that likes you for you. they are a rare breed.
another possibility is that they are uncomfortable with having a relationship and do not have maturity to handle it yet.
2007-06-11 22:14:33 · answer #9 · answered by wazzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
None of them, dont take unreturned love personally. True love does exist, if A truly loves B, she'll be happy in his happiness. Dont force love. Just keep loving with all your heart and dont get disheartened. One day u'll meet a B, who loves you for who u are.
2007-06-11 22:14:17 · answer #10 · answered by arch_25jan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋