I just broke up with my bf and it kind of hurt, we have been going out for a while and i got real attached to him well when we broke up he acted like he didnt even care, he didnt ask why or anything and he was the main one being insecure about me. well now he dosent really talk to me and he change his profile name to "Imma free man now" I know that he isn't messing with another girl and i feel like he just trying to make me jealous but im not sure but i dont know what to do leave him alone or try to talk to him
2007-06-11 20:48:15 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
because girls are too intelligent and good
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2007-06-11 22:22:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, he may or not be trying to make you jealous. You can't know anything 100% about his motives unless you you are a mind reader.
It seems that you were wise enough to see problems in your relationship or you wouldn't have broken up with him.
I really do not think you love him. You are hurting, because your self-esteem was damaged. Your pride was hurt when he changed his profile name and you feel rejected when he doesn't talk.
It's best to leave him alone until you sort out your feelings.
2007-06-11 21:03:27 · answer #2 · answered by metamorphosisa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that this is best. He is trying to move on. If he acts like it doesn't bother him, it is because he doesn't want you to know that he is hurting. It will take some time, but you will find a nice guy one day that you will be able to love.!! If he was jealous, it would never have worked forever anyway. Jealousy destroys relationships!! Let him go. Why do you need to see him hurting anyway? Let him find happiness with someone else.
2007-06-11 20:54:20 · answer #3 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him alone, hes trying to piss u off, make u more hurt, its his way of getting over it or something stupid.. forget him, if hes treating u like that in the first place is he worth trying to talk to him??? good luck and make the right decision, u should have someone who cares for u more than his immature ego and well u shouldnt care about him anyways u did break up with him
2007-06-11 20:51:52 · answer #4 · answered by starconfusionco1 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
guys are incredibly hard to figure out. when i had given up i found some one who seemed less stupid and he turnd out to be and idiot. so i have found some one else now but this time im not letting my guard down.
so i guess that in my own personal experiance. the reason most guys are stupid is to make woman stronger and smarter than they were before they met that guy and more carfull with the next one to come along.
the importaint thing is this Learn from your mistakes and bad experiances so that you future is brighter.
2007-06-14 19:13:45 · answer #5 · answered by mar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes guys so immature and stupid i think. No matter what and how you cared for him, he wont think that you are great and he just think thats nothing. Better to leave him alone. Move on isnt easy but you can do!
Good luck!
2007-06-11 20:58:15 · answer #6 · answered by BB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your the only one who will know.. follow your instinct its always pretty true.. there is either a few things that is happening here ill be blunt.
1. His happy his single now (you'll only know)
2. He is on the rebound and is missing you saying im single now.. to somehow get with someone else.(you'll only know)
3. or just saying that to make you cut - or jealous to get you to get you back.(you'll only know)
just talk to him.. if you want to continue the relationship and his a good lad do it otherwise if you dont.. just forget it and keep your eyes open for other young lads. would you stay friends with him.. just cause you broke up with him doesnt mean you got to have nothing to do with him.. just remember seinfeld? jerry and her are best freidns now yada yada.. its up to you
2007-06-11 20:58:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya I think he's trying to make you feel bad. He's got a lot of growing up to do, leave him alone and move on!
2007-06-11 20:53:11 · answer #8 · answered by ßỰŦŤΣЯ§! Guess who's back...for now! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's free. Move on and find a guy who isn't stupid. Well at least you got rid of that loser while you could. Why talk to him.. he doesn't seem worth talking to.
2007-06-11 21:03:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just give it some time. remember he may be sad also and trying to cover it up with "talk"
just don't stoop down to his level and try and make him jealous cause somebody elese feelings might get hurt. work on becoming frineds first.
2007-06-11 20:53:15 · answer #10 · answered by singinluver 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey dont worry yar u just talk to him in a friendly manner make sure he senses that u r not injured of his deed.make him feel u r special and different
frm his present girl
2007-06-11 20:55:25 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋