I fantasize of beating up my dad into the ground?

Question

We got in a fight this morning. He refuse to let me go out of town with friends tonight. I said I wished he was dead and he was in shock.Then he left. Im not sure but I think he was crying. All I could think of was I wanted to knock him on the ground and beat him in the pavement.
If u want to know why? Watch the character of "Jack" on Will and Grace (TV show) That's what my dad looks and acts like exactly except my dad is a little shorter and wears glasses.
He also teaches philosophy. He is drama coach at our local theatre of arts. My mom tries to make me feel bad by saying things like just once I should hug my father n say I love him. She said she is worried about my dad because he is becoming DEPRESSED. My sister makes me sick every freakin day she goes hugging and kissing my dad and goes through the "love u daddee have a nice day!!" CRAP!
Its a conspiracy to make me look like the bad guy!

Answer 1

U MUST READ:
helloooooooooooooooooooooo!!!!
stop those stupid thoughts of urs ...u r lucky u hav a dad many dont...a family is all about love pls try n understand

1.ur dad loves u ,he cares for u so may be he would be stopping u.....but just imagine after a few yrs when u hav ur own family...n someday ur own very son whom u've loved all ur life..tried keeping him happy by buying him all that he wants....a day of long work nd u expect to see broad smiles on the face of ur child nd wife not ur teenage boy thinking all stupid stuff abt u and saying "DAD I HATE YOU......I WISH U WERE DEAD!!!!!!"i dont think so.........remember ur parents love u & u cant get the love they give u from anyone else in this universe........pls try n understand him or else its no use writing this answer....
2.ur mom's ur dad's lifepatner she cares for him she understands him....she's hurt if someone hurts ur dad & she's on the top of the world if ur father succeeds in his life....so when u hurt ur father u r hurting ur mom coz she loves ur father thats why she asks u 2 make ur father happy so that ur father may feel 'ya my son cares 4 me ...he loves me!!!'
3.ur sister gives ur dad love n comfort that u r not giving him or should i sau u r failing 2 give him.......
4.really ask ur self"is it always that my dad doesnot allow me going out???"
5.pls try n understand ur father....someday u'll realise that he really does love u!!!!!give him love just 4 one day nd see the happiness on his face nd u'll get all ur answers...trust me....come on i'm sure u con do it!!
ALL THE BEST, I HOPE U UNDERSTAND WHAT I AM SAYING!!!!!

Answer 2

I don't know how old you are but you sound very immature, I think I would probably be right in thinking that you do not support yourself financially as you still live with your parents, so I would suggest that while you live under their roof and they support you, you obey their rules. When you make your own way in the world you can do what you like, stop acting like a spoiled brat.
Why are you so angry at your sister? Is it because she has a relationship with your father that you are incapable of? Just remember the world does not revolve around you now and never will. And no it is not a conspiracy to make you look bad, you are doing a pretty good job of that all on your own with your thug like mentality

Answer 3

I can understand that being a teenager you tend to see your dad as a control freak. But he is your dad and he knows better. So what if he's a drama coach, or he teaches philosopy? Thát's what put dinner on your table, right? You know, you're mad about your dad but he doesn't beat you up. He just left and cried. You should always bear in mind that your dad loves you and perhaps you're attaching yourself to a group of friends who are not good for you and that attitude of yours is a bounce off their attitudes and that's why your dad doesn't want you to go out of town with them. Assess your life, young man. Don't be another columbine.

Answer 4

It is a proven fact that you will catch more bees with honey than with vinegar... meaning as long as you have a bad attitude, you will be treated accordingly. Who knows, maybe it would not kill you to show some affection - wishing he was dead was WAY off the charts of mental cruelty, my Father is dead, and I would give the world to get him back. Seriously, they may be all sweet and mushy, but you are the exact opposite which will not work in this family for sure. Check yourself before you wreck yourself - try a little compromise.

Answer 5

I think your father is very sensitive, and you're overreacting by saying you want him to be dead only because you're not aloud to go out with your friends. You don't have to hug your father if you don't want to, or say that you love him if it makes you feel uncomfortable, but at least be a little bit nicer to him. Would you like it if someone was acting the way you do to your father to you?

Answer 6

awww... I know how u feel but...He's your dad, he's just concerned about u! don't worry i'm sure he doesn't want u to feel bad, sad or something, he loves u really! trust me. Ur lucky u have a dad! that's a good thing, and don't wish that he was dead because u will just realize it when he's gone so don't wish for it. Like me, I'm wishing that my real dad is still alive even though I never seen him once. but... someday and somehow i will.


Cheers! =)

Answer 7

I think you need to thank God that you have a father. My father and I was kind of close when I was younger but when I got older and moved out space took over and we never talked much. My father is gone now and you don't know how much I wish I had one more day, to spend and tell him how much I love him

Answer 8

I think you are still young to understand how much parents care about their kids. Learn it man before you become father. You mom may be right that you should hug your dad and say you love him a lot. DO it man. I mean it!!!

Answer 9

You have a very bad attitude. One of these days, you dad is not going to be ther to take care of you, and you are going to wish that you treated him better! You make me sick!!! You sound like a spoiled brat!!

By the way, what difference does it make what your dad looks like. He is doing what he thinks is best for you.

Answer 10

Your mother should not try to force you to express feelings that you may not have. You might want to go in to therpy to work through this anger. Could your dad represent everything you are afraid of becoming?