How do you get a man to respect you when he only wants one thing?

Question

He always talks about sex, and I have done this in the past when I was younger, but I forgot how. I know not to have sex with him, but how can I get him to see me as a woman instead of a sex object?

I plan to take any good advice I get and if he's still a dirty *** then I'll just forget him.

Thanks

Answer 1

May be this man you are with is simply the horny type..can't get the sex out of his mind. But you are right, to a womans' eyes, you feel like a whore/sex object...because this is what the man don't understand. We appreciate the great sex alright but we also want a good time spent out of the bedroom, ryt?

Well, Man are from Mars, Women are from Venus.

Answer 2

Well, you need to forget him because he is a dirty playa***.

Trust your instincts. If you only talk about sex, that will be the basis of your relationship. That is how a playa operates. He steers the conversation and get women involved in bantering sex talk back and forth. She gets curious, caring and gives it up~~usually much quicker than she is ready for.

We are not ready, if we don't make the first move. Playa's think they can TALK THEIR WAY INTO OUR DRAWERS! SADLY, THEY ARE USUALLY PRETTY EFFECTIVE. The more we banter with them, the hotter and curious we get and wham!

This man does not and never will see YOU OR ANY WOMAN as anything but a sex object. FIND AN EXCUSE TO LEAVE HIM TALKING TO HIMSELF...HE WILL MOVE ON TO ANOTHER VICTIM.
CHECK THIS OUT TO GRADUATE TO A PLAYA-SLAYA!::

If A Man Really Wants You!

If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
If he does not want you, nothing can make him stay.
Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that is not meant to be.
S l o w e r is better.
Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve; then heck no, you cannot "be friends".
A friend would never mistreat a friend.
Do not settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
Do not stay because you think, "it will get better".
You will be mad at your self, a year later, for staying when things are not better.
The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
Avoid men who have a bunch of children by a bunch of different women.
He did not marry them when he got them pregnant. Why would he treat you any
differently?
Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up.
Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.
You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within.
Do NOT EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if he has more education or in a better job.
Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
Never let a man define who you are.
Never borrow someone else's man. Oh Lord! If he cheated with you, he will cheat on you.
A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
All men are NOT dogs.
You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two-way street.
You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about baggage. Deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship.
You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you. A relationship consists of
two WHOLE individuals. Look for someone complimentary, not supplementary.
Dating is fun, even if he does not turn out to be Mr. Right.
Make him miss you sometimes. When a man always knows where you are
and you are always readily available to him, he takes it for granted.
Do not fully commit to a man who does not give you everything that you need. Keep
him in your radar; but get to know others.

Answer 3

You develop an inner core of respect for yourself, that is unshakable. No one can make you feel inferior b/c you are strong and secure in your convictions. You get all that from having a close relationship with God thru Jesus Christ. I know of no other way to get it. [there may be, but I am perfectly satisfied with what I have; b/c it works just super fine]. I don't think he is going to change and it would be futile for you to even try to get his respect. I bet he'll get it when you say goodbye as you walk out the front door, without even looking back...

Answer 4

Tell him that you are not a little kid anymore. You are a lady, and you deserve to be treated with respect. Tell him that you do not appreciate being treated like a sex object. Tell him that if that is all he has in mind, he needs to hit the road!! You must always respect yourself and demand respect from others!!

Answer 5

HE will only respect you when you PUT YOUR FOOT down and tell him NO and mean it. This is also where you know his true colors and intent. Even after you told him no and he's still hounding you then you know he's just a "JERK" and is only for the sex and not for a relationship!

Answer 6

When he starts to talk about it, simply change the subject. He should get the idea that you're not interested. Then he'll see you in a different light.

Answer 7

Just expecting you must give it shows there is and never will be any respect so move on girl you deserve better

Answer 8

ummmmmm... simple, let him have it.