We're just acquiantances,but we wentn back and forth on and off for months being abrasive to each other.I finally had a conversation with her where i put the attention on her,asked her how her year was going,i also restrained my temper in front of her,was as gentle as possible and also gave her the space she needed when she needed it.Shortly therafter,she walked by me slowly with a warm peaceful happy look and also a bit of a smile on her face.What did i do to make her react this way,and is it a good thing?
2007-06-11 21:52:17 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think she reacted like this because maybe she wanted you to give her wat she wanted. DUH it's a good thing. Would u rather make friends or enemies?
You should try asking her out someday. ;)
2007-06-11 21:57:35 · answer #1 · answered by ♥qien"' 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You put aside your need to be right and abrasive and treated her like a human being. This allowed her to respond in kind.
If we could do this in all our relationships, the world would be a much better place.
So yes it's a good thing.
2007-06-12 05:00:02 · answer #2 · answered by Steven 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It seems like she may not be use to kindness. Some people have a guard up all the time, and it seems like you may have broke through that barrier. It is definitely a good thing. You should keep it up, maybe you can change her.
2007-06-12 04:55:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Natural is was a good thing, its nice to be nice to people,why did you have to be abrasive to each other? its just as easy to be nice! Keep smiling.
2007-06-12 05:06:03 · answer #4 · answered by 121aloraphotos 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand what happen but it is up to you if it is a good thing or not. If you like the girl and she is smiling at you then you know that it has to be a good thing that she is smiling at you.
2007-06-12 04:59:04 · answer #5 · answered by kool aid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she was happy you spoke to her...make your next move soon, otherwise she'll get bored of waiting. just be a gentleman like you were before.
2007-06-12 04:56:40 · answer #6 · answered by Mila 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women do not like a man that acts "MR MACHO" on them. They like a man that treats them with respect.
2007-06-12 04:56:28 · answer #7 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
get a new girlfriend
2007-06-12 05:03:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋