so he would ignore my e-mails and then reply back one of my messages with roses and gifts online and calls me sweetie. i gave him my number and he didn't call me and so i asked for his number. so i call him and he doesn't answer but then calls me back. we talk for 15 minutes and he told me he's gonna call me back. he didn't call. i don't know if he likes me or not but he knows i talk to lots of guys and he thinks i'm cute. what should i do? wait for him to call or should i call him.
2007-06-11 15:51:37 · 24 answers · asked by yennay 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he doesn't call you don't call him. Just wait and see . Maybe you said something that you weren't suppose to say or he doesn't want to talk to you. just don't call him . and if he calls you don't answer let him call you a second time and now you can talk yo him .
2007-06-11 16:03:59 · answer #1 · answered by val88 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop chasing the cat, that is his job. If a guy says he will call you and waits a couple days/ week, don't pick up the phone when he calls, no matter how hard it is, and take the same time to return that phonecall. Then if he's smart he'll get the hint, if he doesn't then keep it moving, there are wayyyyyyyyyy to many men out there to chase one.Obviously someone or something else is occupying his time.......bottom line his loss.....
2007-06-11 22:57:57 · answer #2 · answered by lkn4em 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what part of he did'nt call raise a red flag. if i were you i would not waste my time with this loser and if he is a hottie than run for the hills. cause if he will not give you his # it only means he has a girl friend or worst he's married or he has so many girls calling him you would just be wasting his time and he would'nt want to answer your call. the reason he does the sweet things is that he wants you only when the other girls are not availible so wise up which i see you did and take the advise of an old man who saw this alot growing up good luck
2007-06-11 23:00:36 · answer #3 · answered by zenmenow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is what is commonly referred to in the dating world as "playing head games" with you. Welcome to dating my friend. It happens ALL the time, even with grown men. Some boys never grow up and mature, and continue trying to play head games with women. In time you'll learn to recognize it and steer clear of the types of guys who do that. But it just takes lots of time and experience to recognize it. My suggestion is to move on and forget about him. But once you do don't be surprised if he starts paying more attention to you and calling you. Guys like "the chase" more than anything. When he calls give him the brush off. Say "sorry, I gotta go, my boyfriend's here.I'm so glad he doesn't play head games with me." Even if you don't have one. He'll get the picture. What a jerk.
2007-06-11 22:59:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore his butt. He's a player OR he thinks you want a serious relationship and he's NOT ready OR he has a girlfriend and when he feels lonely or needs an ego boost thats when he calls you. hey your better than that so put yourself out there for a guy who will shower you with attention you deserve sweetie.
2007-06-11 22:59:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like this guy is married or has a live in girlfriend. Threr are lots of fish in the sea baby girl let this one go bye bye . Please trust me on this one , I mean why waste your time & energy on someone that dosnt follow thru or that keeps you waiting? Life is too short and your are too cute to be worrying about a creep like that !!Get out there and find somebody who adores you and wont let you out of their sight! IFeel free to contact me anytime via E-Mail, violetlemurfox@yahoo.com and I will give you my opinions on life & love anytime cuz i have been there and done that . Keep in touch, seriousley girlfriend!
2007-06-11 23:03:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's got a lot on his mind or on his hands or both. Personally, I think it's more like having a lot on his hands in terms of having another partner. Unless you are looking for booty calls only, you might as well forget this guy.
2007-06-11 22:58:51 · answer #7 · answered by Bantree 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will come across as needy and he prob loves the attention ure giving him so i say back off and let him come to you. If he likes you he will make an effort otherwise move on and dont waste time and effort plenty of other potentials out there
2007-06-11 22:56:22 · answer #8 · answered by Missy French 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is just not that into you. Don't ever wait on a call. Go have fun. Decide for yourself what kind of behavior you will allow to happen to you. MOVE ON. Don't call......don't wait for a calll.
2007-06-11 23:05:27 · answer #9 · answered by tlbrown42000 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's playing head games sweetheart. Move on... A guy who is really interested in you will call you when he says he will, will answer when you call, and won't blow you off when he says he's going to be around. I hate to say it, but you're probably one of many.
2007-06-11 23:01:30 · answer #10 · answered by simplykrystie333 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋