i got my self in to a bad place/ a girl i like is about to have a kid but shes still with the dad though . ive been friends with this girl for 2 years and i love her i want to go out with her after she has the kid but i dont know how to make this work/ if it means any thing shes 17 please help this sucks and i dont know what to do
2007-06-11 15:58:39 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
so if she is with her babi's daddy n still in love with him then u will have to wait. if she dont love him tell her that u love her n have for some time n its ok to leave him that u will b there for her.
2007-06-11 16:02:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look fellow, your on the outside here, just be only her friend. You can give her a baby gift and be a friend for lunch with a friends concern only. Things will change alot for you this year, and her concerns are with her family and baby. You need to get graduated and get training for a good job. The future may change for her but get your self ready by being gainfully employed and graduated. The adult man deals with reality--------she is not available now---deal with it.
2007-06-11 23:08:12 · answer #2 · answered by kim 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do not want to get into this mess.
You're still young, move on. Don't settle to play Dad to someone else's child. Let them figure out how to deal with the responsibilities they've taken on. It's not your responsibility, although commendable that you would want to.
2007-06-11 23:10:41 · answer #3 · answered by Island*Chica 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see the dilemma here. You know a girl who has a family. She sounds happy. Where do you come in the pic? You don't. So find someone who likes you. She's taken and having a child!
2007-06-11 23:07:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she is choosing to stay with the guy who got her pregnant than i hate to say it but i think that you have no other choice but to let it go. well actually you could let her do her own thing for a while she will figure out that the other guy is no good and she will come back to you!
2007-06-11 23:04:05 · answer #5 · answered by Okey Dokey Smokey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's still with the dad, leave her alone....think of the kid.
2007-06-11 23:02:02 · answer #6 · answered by not_as_sweet_as_i_look69 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dam that sucks baby daddy drama. if he is still with her baby daddy, that means he wants to be in her life. i don't think it would be a good idea for you to try and be with her.
2007-06-11 23:03:23 · answer #7 · answered by Miss Diiana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best you can do in that situation is to be her friend.
2007-06-11 23:51:57 · answer #8 · answered by honey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you "grow a pair" and knock up somebody else!
2007-06-11 23:01:48 · answer #9 · answered by redrover928 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋