paying off my debt / not enough money to go out?

Question

I have this friend that talks like she have money stacked, but yet she can barely afford to fix her car. she always want to go out, but there are days when I cant go out because im short on cash, she make remarks like I need a man that can lavish and take care of me.(it cost me $26 every time to go see her shes like 40min from me so gas and toll adds up and to go out it adds up )
the sad thing is I'm taking care of my debt first so I can get nice things myself later on in life. she has a graduation coming up she want me to go, I told her I'll watch her walk but i cant go out and eat with the rest of her and her friends. because I may not have enough. but my birthday is coming up I would like to try and do a little something for myself.
even tho I tell her my being broke is just for the moment but I don't think she seeing my goal of clearing up my past. so should i just cut her off and run because she is selfish with a hint of gold dinging or just don't pay her no mind
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and no she never did any thing for me.
be sides get me a spider man mug set which i should of rewrap and give it back to her (yeah it was a Xmas's gift how cute)

Answer 1

I guess it depends on what the whole graduation thing costs, and how you feel about her. It does not sound good right now:) If she means anything to you, her graduation should take precidence over your birthday. Your goal is not her goal:)

Answer 2

I'd say that neither of you is grown up enough for a relationship.
You are both too much into yourselves, in order to share.
You both need to develop some empathy for each other.
First deal with your past debt; it sounds like she has some money problems too. You both need to get your act together.

Answer 3

GOLDDIGGING *****!! leave her, all she wants is money, she doesn't care about you.....Tell her you want someone who wants you for yourself and not your money!!!