I have 8 kids, The Problem is that 3 of them dont like them. swhat should i do. and also a single father. all 8 of them live with me in a i live in a govt house because i have no time to work. because i need to take care of my babys who are 20,18,16,14,13,11,10,8
the 22 year old is in jail will come back soon
2007-06-11
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whose fault is it that you have eight children.
and what in the hell you mean you cannot work because you have to take care of all of them. that is some bull$hit for your @$$.
first of all the 22,20, and 18 year old can move on and get a job and move out. but most likely they won't because you have cleverly showed them how to be low life's and live off the government.
man, just because you said you are a single father, you thought you were going to get some love. ______ please.
oh, if you don't do anything. go back to school. because what you wrote was very hard to read
2007-06-11 16:36:26
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answered by karMA_DAME 4
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YOU don't like 3 of your own kids? That is horrible. Did you ever hear of condoms? We are paying for you so you can sit home on your butt? The 20, 18 and 16 year old are pretty self sufficient and can get jobs to help out. Also, you listed the ages of (9) kids not 8???? You need to get a job, the older ones can watch younger ones. Be a man and step up. You had em, now support em. I supported my own by myself.
2007-06-12 00:21:45
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answered by Anonymous
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Hello, I am preoud of for being a single father of 8!! I would encourage you to give your older children options of working to help the family, be responsible to watch over the younger children or move out! I have 3 kids of my own 14, 3, 1. The 14 yr old is lazy & disrespectful. He knows once he is 18 he will continue scholl to live here, get a job, join m ilitary or move out. Look out to agencies who can help.
2007-06-11 23:35:05
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answered by Lydia 3
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wow I have six and my oldest is 24 years old out of college and one in prison he is 21 ,,,, but it sounds to me like you can work if you wanted because all of them are in school you need to do something go back to scholl ,,,, I only have my 2 youngest children living with me now and one is 11 and the other 14 I work 58 hours a week and still come home and take care of the house duties and food ,clean wash... and take children out when have extra money.... just pray and ask GOD for the strength.... you can do it and I give you props you dont see alot of fathers with children..... let alone 8 my god ..... good luck and GOD BLESS
2007-06-12 00:57:06
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answered by Anonymous
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You have children that can go out and get a job to help you out. There is no reason why a 20 year old, and an 18 year old can not go out and work.
If they don't want to work, let them go live on their own and see how well they do.
2007-06-11 23:36:20
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answered by Island*Chica 5
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The 20-year-old and 18-year-old should move out or help you out with the kids. If they are all at school or out in the day that would give you time to relax. good luck â¥
2007-06-11 23:31:24
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answered by Angelacia baybeeeeee 7
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get a job.why should you not work?the 20,18 and 16 yr old are old enough to work and the oldest 2 are old enough to not be living at home.the 14 yr old could look after younger ones while you work or the 16 yr old could,get off your duff,quit using your kids as an excuse,get off the welfare line and GET A JOBalso tell the 22 yr old to get a job.i use tough love on my oldest these days its hard but as ppl on here told me after they get so old your job is done
2007-06-11 23:35:29
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answered by mamanana9 4
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16-22 can work. 14 and 13 can baby sit. and you can work
2007-06-11 23:39:38
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answered by It's Whatever 2
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have the older kids, the 20 and 18 year old to BABYSIT so you can work!
2007-06-11 23:30:10
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answered by bronzebabekentucky 7
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happy fathers day
2007-06-12 09:12:09
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answered by Anonymous
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