Sweetheart, everyone has difficult times in their lives. Its just part of the ups and downs of life. And its these times that make us question what we are doing and where we are going. If everything were just great all of the time, we would know nothing of other people's pain, and how we can help others.
Its easy to think that God is punishing you, or that satan has his hand in everything that goes wrong, but quite often, we make our own mistakes so we can learn from them. There are those that are easily ashamed of themselves, and find it difficult to admit to making the mistake and therefore blame something or someone else.
Your moms depression is a biological state of mind, and obviously feels that the weight of the world is on her shoulders. Has your mom looked for help or financial aid of some sort? Perhaps from the Department of Human Services. For help getting into schools, has your mom tried talking to someone at the US Department of Education?
And maybe your father could get help from the US Small Business Administration regarding his business.
It always helps to pray, but God will not do for you, what you can do for yourself. And in this situation, its a material problem, so therefore, its up to your parents to fix it.
And God is not going to punish the whole family just because your oldest brother does not choose a christian path. I have done many religious studies with many different religious groups, and the one thing that I have learned, is that God knows a person from the goodness that's in their heart, not from the church they pray in. In christianity, you get people with good hearts, that endeavor to do their best, but you also get people who still hurt other people and use God because they think that they will be forgiven, but be able to continue with their bad behavior. God is smarter than that. If you know that what you are doing is wrong, God will punish you as he sees fit, and in his time.
But what about the non-christian with a good heart, but still has a faith in God, as I'm sure your brother does! Do you really think that God will forget him? Not likely. As you get older, you will discover what it means to have your own personal relationship with God, therefore God will direct you in the direction he sees fit, which is not always the direction that people would choose for you. Remember, our minds are not capable of understanding what Gods true abilities are, but that he has purpose for everything, and that includes your brother. Don't worry so much, try to help your mom, marriage is beautiful when its with the right person (and yes, God allows for mistakes here too) and don't stop loving your brother because he chooses something different for himself. God gave us brains to think with, so I can guarantee you, there is a solution to the problem.
Good Luck :)
2007-06-11 16:53:09
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answered by eviichristensen 2
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Don't worry about taking prayer away from sick people. There's always enough to go around. You and your family are surrounded with Angels working on helping you through your troubles.
One thing I've learned in life is that when things seem to all be going wrong it's because there is something better waiting in the wings. There is a reason why all these things are happening now. I don't know what that reason is but God and the Angels are preparing your family for something better. Continue to have faith. If you have any influence on your annoying brothers maybe you can talk them into being a little less annoying and a little more helpful. You and your family are in my prayers.
2007-06-11 16:11:46
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answered by innerradiancecoaching 6
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I will pray for you every night. Pray that your Mom and Dad can make it work out. You'll never be on the street sugar. People always survive a time of less money. It's just the spending that needs to be under control. All of you can go to public school like most people do. Private school is not really any better. This will help with expenses. Sounds like your Mom needs to get counseling on how to cope with life's pressures. We all have them. Good luck.
2007-06-11 16:02:19
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answered by JR 5
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You and your family are in our prayers.
What type of business is your dad doing?
Your mom should try and find public school as it's free and will free her up from the stress of homeschooling.
Maybe your mom can find a job outside of the home once you kids go to public school, this will help relieve someof the stress she's going through.
My family will be praying for you and I hope your mom and dad can find back the path that they were on before it's too late. As for your brother, what is he doing that you think may make your parents divorce, can you talk to him .. What about an outside family member.. good luck and you are in our prayers.
2007-06-11 16:08:47
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answered by Chef D 4
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Whoa, Have you ever heard of "Be nonetheless and recognise that I am God. Ps. forty six:10. Jesus will go back while it's time. There is not anything guy can do to pace it up. There is figure to be performed, like getting the gospel out to the sector and that's taking place.Sorry to disagree with you, learn the ebook of Revelation while Jesus returns,now not the rapture, however to pass judgement on the sector this global might be converted. As terrible as it's to listen to approximately baby abuse and all of the different horrible matters on this global we need to comprehend that that is the fallen situation we are living in. It is our accountability to aid the ones in discomfort, now not blame God. Save your breathe and quit yelling at God for the rotten global we are living in, move aid any individual much less lucky and ask God to aid you.
2016-09-05 13:25:03
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answered by ? 4
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Bless you heart. Yes, I will pray for you and your family. I'm so sorry you are going thru this. The good thing is you know who to turn to in your time of need. I know it seems hard right now and I pray things will get better. Sometimes parents forget that issues like this hurt our children as much as us. Just let your Mother know you are there for her and that you need her as much as she needs you. You are a brave girl and keep praying. God knows all your fears and He hears your prayers. I love you my sister in Christ. My prayers are with you right at this moment.
2007-06-11 15:58:38
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answered by preachers daughter 3
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I will keep you in my prayers. Just hold on to your faith, life is a test, and you will never be given more than you can handle. Things will turn out exactly as they are supposed to be. Just pray that the Lord will guide you to the right path.
2007-06-11 15:51:48
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answered by ? 2
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I will pray for your family. I hope that you will lost your faith. Remember Job in the Bible, he went through a lot. Also, remember GOD said I will not give beyond you can bear. This is just one of those storm or challenges of you family. Always pray to GOD, HE will be there always.
2007-06-11 18:51:01
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answered by Sun Valley 4
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i pray that things work out for the best for you and your family but, i don't see the conection between your parents marriage,your dad's business and the fact that your brother isn't on "the path"
2007-06-11 15:52:48
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answered by racer 51 7
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Dear Heavenly Father..you know before we ask what we need,I am asking Jesus in your holy name to help this family..I dont know them but you said where two or more agree in your name you will be there too,you know Jesus what they need,and how to fix this,they need you Jesus,show them,lead them,and help them along,guide them,give them what they need Jesus.We thank you and give you the praise and glory for it,Amen.Jesus loves you and so do I ..Goodluck and may God bless all of you.
2007-06-11 18:33:53
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answered by hotmommadru 5
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