He really likes me but i dont like him at all and i dont wanna breakup with him so how do i get him to break up with me?
2007-06-11 15:55:34 · 20 answers · asked by Lindsey 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Break up with him.
2007-06-11 15:59:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont like him at all??! Then why are you his gf?? The answer is simple. Just tell him how you feel without being mean. Say something like "Youre a great guy, but Im not that into you." It isnt fair to either of you for you to continue the relationship when you dont want to be in it. In the end you will end up hurting him more than if you just dump the guy and in the meantime you will be miserable. You need to stand up for yourself girl! Dont be with someone you dont want to be with just to make someone else happy. Get a backbone and learn to express yourself!
2007-06-11 16:03:50 · answer #2 · answered by arwentheelf24 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I reeeeeeeeeally want to just yell "GROW UP!!!!!" like everyone else - but I'll hold off...
Why don't you want to be the one who dumps him? By doing ANYTHING in order to get him to dump you (cheating, flirting, lying, etc.) - you are only going to hurt him a LOT worse.
What is wrong with Honesty? You aren't in to him - and these things happen. If we all spent the rest of our lives with the first person we went out with (thus avoiding breakups) - then there would be wedding chapels in Public Schools!
Just find a nice way to let him down - or get a mutual friend to help you if you can't bring yourself to do it...
2007-06-11 16:25:02 · answer #3 · answered by kr_toronto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly it wouldnt be fair to either of you to try to convince him to break up with you.
You should express your feelings to him and maybe he will come to the conclusion that its better to let you go. If he loves you he would want you to be happy, even if that means letting you go.
2007-06-11 15:59:25 · answer #4 · answered by Exodus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate this situations.What i did was i took him to the club and i started flirting and dancing with a lot of other guys and he got mad and we havent talked since. Or u could tell him how u truly feel. i wish u good luck.
2007-06-11 16:02:19 · answer #5 · answered by Brandie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you have to break up with him because you are the one that is unhappy. You should always be honest with the person that you are sharing your life with.
2007-06-11 15:59:42 · answer #6 · answered by kool aid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is such a common problem with girls. They can't be honest so they think of ways to make a guy miserable. If you want to save time and someone's heartache then just tell him. It will be better off for everyone.
2007-06-11 15:58:47 · answer #7 · answered by gordoncruse54 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Why would you lead him on in the first place?
Beside the fact, you need to tell him how you really feel. You got yourself into this situation, you need to get yourself out. Kind of a shitty thing for you to do...
2007-06-11 15:58:27 · answer #8 · answered by The Man 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
just break it off, you'll feel so much better, your bf will understand.
just one thing, dont date someone until its been at least a month and a half.
2007-06-11 16:00:02 · answer #9 · answered by bob 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be honest that the best way to break up
2007-06-11 15:58:29 · answer #10 · answered by bimshire 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋