My friend hung out with someone and said that she would only hang with them until she tired of them. It almost feels like she is doing the same to me. She, another friend of mine, and me were really close at the beginning of the year, but now my other friend and I don't really want to hang out with her. She is rude to the people she doesn't like, she is even worse to her parents, and if u r at her house she asks you to help with her chores that she only was asked to do. idk if I should drop her or give her a chance.
2007-06-11 15:51:36 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Honestly? I think that first you should try to find out if there is an underlying reason as to why she does this. Maybe she is having some problems that she doesn't feel like she can talk about with anyone and she's afraid if she shares them with you, even as best friends, maybe she fears that she'll be judged for it. So, if it is possible, then try to talk to her about it.
If you know or find out that nothing is wrong, then I would say that you should just drop her because you definitely deserve better. If you are truly best friends, then she should be comfortable coming to you and sharing what's going on with her life.
Also, talk to her about how you feel, because she should care enough to see how it really makes you feel. If she doesn't care, then you should find other people who will be true friends and who will value your friendship and opinions.
So, if you feel like you have a strong friendship with her, then you should make the effort to give her a chance. But, if you feel like giving her another chance would just make you feel more used than you already feel, and you feel that your friendship isn't really all that great anymore, then you should drop her and find other people who will value your friendship without abusing that privilege. Good luck with whatever choice you make!
2007-06-11 16:07:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you can be friends with her, but tell her you arent there to do her chores. And leave while she has to do them. If she is rude to people, stand up to her and tell her, you know that was really rude, I dont want to hang out with you if you are going to be like that. When she says things like I only hang around people until I get tired of them, tell her thats pretty rude, and if everyone was like that she would have no friends because she is pretty boring.
2007-06-11 22:56:41 · answer #2 · answered by melissaw77 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is using you my friend. Drop her and find a better friend. You are first hand watching her patterns with other people. Do you really accept the idea of treating people like crap especially her parents? I would hope you would never treat your parents with the same disrespect she treats them. DROP HER. I have to give you great respect for picking up on her behavior WHAT A SMART GIRL YOU ARE!!!
2007-06-11 22:55:32 · answer #3 · answered by hbuckmeister 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd tell you to "talk to her about it"...but usually its not like that..
shes spoiled and thats the end of that.
if i had a friend that constantly asked me to do their ****, i'd just say no and sit down on their couch and watch some quality tv.
unless she only asked a couple times.. then i'd help
but seeing from what you're saying, i'd go with the tv thing
if she gets pissed then hell with it
but honestly, think about it, if behind all that ****, shes still a good friend, i'd put up with it, because its hard to get good friends..
iuno, this is what *I* would do, well..maybe i'd get a little bitchy, but thats just me.
sorry if this didnt help
2007-06-11 23:00:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I were you I would limit the amount of time spent with this girl. You don't need 'friends' like that, who are just going to use you. Try to spend your time with more positive people. Good luck.
2007-06-11 22:54:32 · answer #5 · answered by BAnne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't cut off all connections with her. Just be a little less avaible with her but still be friends. If you don't enjoy her company, don't have her for company very often. But don't purposely cut her out of your life completely.
2007-06-11 22:55:25 · answer #6 · answered by Jaya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already gave her a chance. She is too self centered to want any real friends, only servants.
2007-06-11 22:55:02 · answer #7 · answered by Rich Z 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let this be a lesson to you what a user it. I'll bet she thinks she's hot and should have the best of everything, too.
2007-06-11 22:55:35 · answer #8 · answered by Cheech 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm, well don't hate her for it.....be good and just tell her what you think.... If she really likes you, and wants to be friends with you, she will make it up to you and apologize. But if not, and she just goes, screw you....and leaves, then she was no friend.....
2007-06-11 23:00:58 · answer #9 · answered by Tea Crazed Person. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop her, she doesn't sound like she deserves friends.
2007-06-11 22:56:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋