Family & Relationships - 20 May 2007

2007-05-20 08:05:00 · 23 answers · asked by I love you 1 in Family

well im in highschool and prom just passed well the orignal guy i was going with canceld on me 3 days b4 prom and i had to find a new date well i was gonna with my best guy friend but my mom and teacher find this guy named paris and his cute but shy!!!! well my mom thinks we make a great couple and get this so does his mom!!!!!! our parents have been friends for like 20 years !!!!!!!!!!!his mom and mine try to get us together and talk . to make even more akward he has a girlfreind and i dont like him !!!!!!!!! should i be worried ?????? everytime paris and i r together its really werid!!!!!!!!! should i get my dress and the priest??????

2007-05-20 08:02:24 · 15 answers · asked by smiley_meliy 2 in Singles & Dating

my friends ally and josh are like deserting me because they think i am 'flirting too much with too many guys' when really i'm just being friends with one guy, half flirting with two!!! i really aint flirting that much!!! they are both taken and i dont know i guess they dont want to see me getting to flirt... how do i keep being me and have my friends at the same time???

2007-05-20 08:00:33 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I made the mistake of involving myself in a group called standers who believe that I have to wait for my ex to come to her senses. I say there is a difference between forgiving her and waiting for her (reconciliation). I am not waiting for her to realize she made a mistake, in fact, I don't believe it matters.

If she does come to her senses too late, then what is that to me? The Bible talks about the foolish virgins who lost out on their chance to enter the kingdom because they were not prepared. I think many prodigals (like my ex) are going to discover that they've repented too late. Not that I want this but, I a don't have to wait. Life is too precious to wait and put on hold for someone who willingly has given their marriage to divorce.

2007-05-20 07:59:20 · 17 answers · asked by ? 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i know that this guy likes me but he won't step up to the plate. i don't believe in asking guys out so how do i give him a hint that it is ok to ask me out.

2007-05-20 07:56:25 · 21 answers · asked by gymnasticschick 1 in Singles & Dating

I have made a bad choice by cheating on my wife and I told her because she was concerned how my car got broken into and I came out and told her everything. We are 21 and I really want to be with her. I have sex problems that stem from past issues (no excuse). I need to find people trying to help. If you have on intentions on helping then dont write. I dont need any better peoples responses. I love my wife and want to find out about outside help (professional). Thank!!

2007-05-20 07:55:17 · 11 answers · asked by New Mama 1 in Marriage & Divorce

When you hurt your spouse and children in that way - can you ever be truly happy with your new life? Is it possible to simply walk away from one life into another and not look back other than to spend time every other weekend with your kids? Can you truly start loving another person so much you are willing to risk everything you have built with another person - your spouse - to be with this person? Or is it pure selfishness?

2007-05-20 07:55:15 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

At what point does a relationship, for you, become more work than it's worth?

2007-05-20 07:54:26 · 10 answers · asked by devilishlyclever™ 6 in Singles & Dating

so there is a guy I like...and he MIGHT like me back. I am not sure if I should tell him how I feel* ruining the "friendship" I am establishing* or let it go unsaid. I think he knows...and yet I am not sure. How do I know if he actually likes me?

2007-05-20 07:53:05 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My mom hit my 3 times in the last 2 days for very small reasons. I don't even know if she still loves me. Before she used to be kind. Now shes just... I donno how to say it...

I've tryed everything I could find. I'm desperate. Talking to her doesn't work, and I'm worried about her. I dont have any friends I can trust, and I'm losing it!

2007-05-20 07:51:16 · 34 answers · asked by Melina 1 in Friends

I read how some women say

Well if I don't do it ,someone else will"


Where do you draw the line?
I have read some bizzare requests from the wives husbands.

2007-05-20 07:49:02 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend tells me I'm a wet kisser. I can't seem to figure out how to improve that. Is there something I can do to prevent from slobbering all over the guy?

2007-05-20 07:42:23 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

In a nutshell, my twin sister is a lesbian and she is having a ceremony with her partner in July...but we had a very intense disagreement last month...We were hanging out with a group of friends, and at some point we began having the debate about whether homosexuality is genetic or a choice...during the discussion, my sister said she believes it is genetic, and me being her twin brother (and straight)...I disagreed with her...I guess we just never talked about this before, I accepted her and she accepted me and that was it (and I don't really care in the first place)...but this led to the worst argument we have ever had together...we haven't spoken since, and I feel like I've lost my best friend...we went from talking at least once a day to total silence, and its killing me inside...on top of that, I know the invitations have already been mailed, and I did not receive one...if she's getting married, I really do want to be there...and further, I want to make up...any ideas?

2007-05-20 07:39:21 · 13 answers · asked by Dokdouglas 4 in Family

I am Catholic, she is Baptist.

2007-05-20 07:37:49 · 10 answers · asked by Tim M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

notice, she is married and has 2 sons one of them older than me, but she seems to be loving me too but I don't know for sure,she is my teacher(my tutor) , and Im fascinated by her.she has pretty face like a child not like an old woman.

2007-05-20 07:34:07 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im very outgoing and i talk to random ppl at school. Like this guy was in the hallway and me and my friend were going to lunch and i was like "hey". Some people make fun of me for it. Do you think i weird??

2007-05-20 07:34:03 · 18 answers · asked by Omgsh ! Its aly :) 2 in Friends

she's in high school and he's not going to college because he's working, do you think the age difference is too much?

2007-05-20 07:33:14 · 12 answers · asked by unknown 1 in Singles & Dating

when you have really strong feelings for a girl
but yall dont talk what signs do you send her?
and when you guys look into a girls eyes why do
you do that? im asking because there's this one guy who im always having eye contact with but
i confused because he has a girlfriend who he doesnt even look like he cares about ......... what is this about??

2007-05-20 07:31:39 · 20 answers · asked by redfairy 2 in Singles & Dating

I am in my late twenties and have been married for 5 years, but seperated for awhile. My husband was supposed to be moving back in at the end of this month, and he told me last night that he wasn't completely sure he was in love with me. He said 75% sure, 25% unsure. He wants to postpone moving in even longer, but even though he doesn't know for sure, he wants to continue with the relationship. He said he wants to "honor his commitment to me". I do know he loves me, and he isn't having an affair. I am not worried about that. He said he has been questioning this the last 4-6 weeks, as the "deadline" of moving in gets closer. I think he has "cold feet" so to speak. He was shifted around a lot as a child, and he doesn't want to risk moving in if even an ounce of him thinks it may not work. He is terribly afraid of failure - not just in our relationship. I am not changing myself, and I know everyone is different, but what qualities do women have that men fall in love with?

2007-05-20 07:27:34 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

can a man ever be satisfied with a woman's flaws...every woman has them. sometimes we have hairy legs, smelly feet, bad breath, stretch marks, or any other number of things. women work really hard to look good and appeal to men, yet we still seem to feel like we could be better in some way. we don't always have time to do our makeup or have perfect hair or shave our legs. we aren't victoria's secret models who spend hours getting their hair and makeup done, whose photos are airbrushed. don't men understand that it's hard for real women to keep up? we just try our best.

2007-05-20 07:23:44 · 12 answers · asked by KellyKapowski 3 in Singles & Dating

I have been in a monogamous relationship with my boyfriend for 9 yrs. now, we have been living together for the past 4 yrs. We are both 38 yrs. old and have 5 children between the two of us. Him 2 and me 3. We used to talk about marriage until recently he told me that it was not a priority of his and wasn't on his top "10" list of things to do. He has never been married, I have been. He is happy and content with just playing house. If he doesn't want to commit and marry me then what makes him think he has the right to tell me that I "belong" to him? I tell him that I don't see a ring on my finger and I don't carry his last name, I belong to no one. Why do men think they have the right to lay claims on you without marital commitment? Yes, being married to him is important to me. I feel like nothing that I say or what I want is important, he only cares about what he wants. Honestly I am tired of feeling like I am nothing more than his "bed buddy".

2007-05-20 07:18:00 · 23 answers · asked by monkey on my back 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Well, I`ve been talking to a boy one year younger than me(freshman). He is so quiet around me but talkative around his friends. I`m usually the shy one but when I talk to him I have to do most of the talking. When we first started chatting it was the other way around, so now I don`t know what to say to him when we have conversations.
Sometimes he would talk to other freshman girls and seem comfortable around them, but he was never totally comfortable around me.
I`m confused and I think I`m doing something to intimidate guys. I`m nice and sweet and they know I`m intelligent, but for some reason it doesn`t go smoothly.
Anyway, I have a crush on this boy and I just don`t want him to feel uncomfortable around me for whatever reason. He`s so quiet around me and I don`t think it`s because he doesn`t like me, I just think I need to work on my conversation skills. What can you say to a quiet guy like this? I`ve talked about band(because we`re both in that), his activities...

2007-05-20 07:14:28 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i was doing something bad and my dad walked in on me

2007-05-20 07:11:06 · 24 answers · asked by Jets123 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My "friends" always make fun of me because of my race and call me gay (i'm not gay).

My parents think i'm spoiled and completely useless (I'm not spoiled. . . i cant even get a cheap guitar for my birthday) .

I have excellent grades (4.0) and my parents are EXTREMELY wealthy, but refuse to share their money with me.

I am a nobody but even though I'm nice and generous to everyone, i'm still unpopular.

Nobody truly loves me.


Do you think its time for me to end my life?

2007-05-20 07:10:14 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

He likes this girl who is pretty sweet, I want to talk to him about how he feels about her, how do I make it not awkward conversation?

2007-05-20 07:08:36 · 11 answers · asked by Lady Lark 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I need help my husband abandoned my house almost a month ago, I can't deal with the depression he left without saying anything he hasn't given any child support or a single phone call, he went out of my house saying he was fed up wih everything but to be honest since our baby was born he has been trying to leave. Now he did it he said he loved me and he didn't want the divorce but he came 10 days ago and picked up everything he had here. He didn't even gave me the chance to talk to him I'm sure he's living with another woman. He was always a good man but now I don't know what to think of him I don't sue him because I like his mum she has been talking to me and sending money, she was upset with him at the start but I think he has told her lies about me... I think he got upset because we couldn't go out because I was concentration on the baby..what am I supposed to do? just go out and leave him?...I'm very depressed because I think that he could be sleeping with somebody else .

2007-05-20 07:04:37 · 37 answers · asked by Nancy L 1 in Marriage & Divorce

why is it so easy to cheat, or lie, or be disrespect full, why do people treat strangers better than the one they "love" between reading questions on 'answeres' and my own life,,, relationships are battlegrounds instead of love nests,,, what is the problem people???

2007-05-20 07:02:02 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I asked her if she would like to go to movies and thats what she said, maybe I was a bit rushed - not sure if i ruined firiendship. But does she really meann it?

2007-05-20 06:58:52 · 23 answers · asked by Amachronic 2 in Singles & Dating

how should i handle this one??

2007-05-20 06:50:01 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok i wont tell you my age or his age but do you think that if he is willing to wait untill i am 18 to do anything do you think he likes me or do you think he is gonna say that but then he will try to get me to do stuff??...please ?!?!?!?!?

2007-05-20 06:48:57 · 19 answers · asked by Ashley 1 in Other - Family & Relationships