2007-05-20 08:05:00 · 23 answers · asked by I love you 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
get her a button or t-shirt that says "jail bate" and make her wear it or buy a shot gun and clean it in the living room whenever she brings a guy home.
2007-05-20 08:09:21 · answer #1 · answered by Panda 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the question do you really want to do that. Because if you decide to keep them away that wont work. U have to talk to your daughter but not as a mother but a friend make sure she understands the resposibilty of growing up and becoming a young women. U cant keep them away she is probably 13-15 and this is her time to develop confidence and have stories to tell her kids as opposed to run away from men for the rest of her life just because her mother told her so. As a mother you have to acknoledge that your baby is growing up and there is nothing you can do about it.
It will be fine everyone goes through it !!!
2007-05-20 08:10:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a parent, I'm sure you want more than anything to protect her. Avoid becoming overprotective & resist becoming an overbearing parent that she can no longer come to with her problems because of how you react. If you've been a good parent & you've taught her well, then trust her when it comes to guys. Be there if/when she gets hurt. Be someone that she can talk to about anything. That way if she DOES run into a problem with some idiotic guy, you'll be the first to know.....whereas if you were this maniac parent who showed bitterness towards every guy she tried having a relationship, she'd be very hesitant to come to you for anything & it's probably worse knowing that she'd be hiding issues from you & not considering you to be her comfort blanket in those times.
2007-05-20 08:33:28 · answer #3 · answered by Peighton 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only way for you to get your point across is to express how you feel about the boys your daughter picks. keep reminding her right from wrong. i dated a few bad ones when i was young and my parents kept telling me how they felt. i would buck it at first but always knew in the back of my head it didnt seem right. she will do what she wants to either way but always be there for her, the best way to learn is through experiencing.
2007-05-20 09:06:47 · answer #4 · answered by BONNIE B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rather than YOU keeping them away, perhaps you should have a real heart to heart talk with your daughter. Men pick up on signals. Women are born knowing how to send them! She can turn it off or turn it on...I'm a Mom with two grown sons. I know what women are capable of...I worry about my boys.
2007-05-20 09:14:10 · answer #5 · answered by janice 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When they come to your house bake bad food where ugly clothes and wear ugly perfume and try to act cool.
They will think your insane and leave and never come back plus they will tell all their friend but you have to think about your daughter she could be teased I really can't help you farther then this because i'm only 13.
2007-05-20 08:08:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you have to keep them away do you think your daughter should be able to socialise and mix with boys, she is at the age now where she will be getting boyfriends and it comes to all of us you are gonna have to accept it. the thing you can do is make sure she isnt sleeping around or that boys are not using her
2007-05-20 08:08:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't, only your daughter can.
If you try to, all you will do it drive her to them. What you want to do is the biggest cause of mother/daughter fights. You can't control what they do, you shouldn't control your daughter, however you should have already instilled in her right from wrong.
2007-05-20 08:09:40 · answer #8 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you can..plus in my opinion it's not really your place to protect her from bad relationships.
She's a teenager..and like it or not you have to let her experience things..the good and the bad.
I don't mean any offence by this, because I'm sure you just want to protect her and want what's best for her, but you have to start letting her live for herself.
2007-05-20 08:09:09 · answer #9 · answered by Trevor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't, she will get with the boys one way or another, and if you make a big deal out of it she will just rebel against you.
A much better approach would be to educate her about unwanted pregnancy and STDS.
2007-05-20 08:10:37 · answer #10 · answered by bender_xr217 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋