why are guys too shy to ask girls out.?

Question

i know that this guy likes me but he won't step up to the plate. i don't believe in asking guys out so how do i give him a hint that it is ok to ask me out.

Answer 1

Cuz girls are meanies who make fun of me!

Answer 2

Sometimes guys are afraid if rejection, I had experience where a girl gave me mixed signals that she liked me but when I actually acted on it and told her how i felt it didnt work out. I think she just wanted me to tell her i Liked her so that she could make a fool outa me.

If you really like the guy, be str8 with him and ask him stuff like when r u gonna see him again or when you two are gonna do stuff together like going to the movies etc.

Remember genuine guys do not find it easy to ask girls out. Guys who can ask a girl out easily have been in the game so long that they can do it without fear of rejection, and you probably just another number to them.

So go for the shy guys!

Answer 3

in order to make him feel more comfortable talk to him. He is probably feels insure or timid to make the move. .U are probably a very pretty girl and he might not be the only guy wanting to ask u out. Let ur wall down. Hang as friends and stop believing in to not asking the guy you like out. Trust me a women that has confidense and the courage to do that means more to the men than a girly girl always talking about make up. How would you feel if ur friend would get a guy u like only beause she doesnt believe in silly things like not asking a guy out. Go with your heart not society

Answer 4

Men, and women, are fearful of rejection. Psychologically people believe that it is better to suffer the single life alone, than to ask someone out and have that feeling rejection. If we don't ask you out, we KNOW we won't get rejected. If we do ask you out, we MIGHT get rejected. Men are very analytical, we don't like not knowing the outcome of a given action. So a shyer, less confident man, may choose not to ask you out if he is not sure you will say yes.

Here's what you do. Talk to him. Make efforts to be in social situations with him where you can chat, get to know one another, flirt. Whatever. You don't have to outright ask him out. But give him clues that you are interested, and if he asks you out, you will probably say yes.

Bate him with date ideas. Suggest interesting things you would like to do - Talk about a movie you want to see, or a new exhibit at a museum. Mention a new cafe that just opened up. Think of things he would probably like to do and talk about them.

Remember to let him do some talking too. Don't own the conversation. The idea is to get him comfortable with talking to you so you can show him your interested and he can build up his confidence.

Good luck.

Answer 5

Because some guys are afraid of rejection. If you've flirted with him and have given obvious hints that you're interested, and he still hasn't asked you out, then I would suggest throwing that predetermined "I don't believe in asking guys out" belief out the window and suggest going out for coffee or a drink or whatever. Keep it casual, but he should get the hint that you're interested. I asked my b/f out and we've been dating for a yr and a half.

Answer 6

You are acting too old fashion to not ask him out. However many guys have problems asking women out because they fear rejection...probably the real reason you don't want to ask.

Do this, drop a couple of very obvious hints that you want him to ask you out. They must be VERY OBVIOUS. If he still won't ask you out, then you are wrong in thinking he likes you.

Answer 7

Because they are scared of being rejected, Girls wonder why guys don't do it, but it's a lot easier to look back at someone and wonder why they don't do something, if you don't Ever have to do it yourself. It'd be difficult to put yourself out there, and ask somebody if they like you in the same way, it takes some balls. no pun intended, but seriously, girls almost never have to deal with that, because it never crosses their minds, they just think "just do it" You'l'l Have to HInt at him alot, or something like that, maybe even kiss him if you are SURE he likes you.

Answer 8

Well most of the time they are afraid of being rejected. I mean we are in the year 2007 and it is totally okay to ask him out. If you arent comfortable with that or you just wanna make him work then I would ask him if he could help you with something he is good at. This will allow you two to spend some one on one time and you can flirt directly. This will also boost his confidence knowing that he is good at something and you care! =) Go get em'!

Answer 9

Guys are just as afraid of rejection as girls are so they don't ask a girl out because they completely mortified that the girl will just laugh in their faces.
I suggest you get a mutual friend between you two to ask him if he likes you and to tell him that you like him back. Hope this helps.

Answer 10

Maybe they are scared of rejection. Imagine how you would feel if you were continually rejected. I am not saying he has been continually rejected, but the act alone is scary. You can show interest in him by smiling, talking with him, etc. But, it is 2007, it's okay to ask a guy out. - Just my opinion.

Answer 11

Well they are only scared because sometimes girls can be really mean and boys don't understand that so they are always scared to ask. They don't want to mess up either because if they do they think that the girls won't like them anymore.