Family & Relationships - 20 May 2007

2007-05-20 04:38:27 · 17 answers · asked by john 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i have a boyfreind for almost 8 years....he had a job before but he quit to apply abroad..unfortunately, he didnt make it until now...until i was able to find a job and currently work abroad..stil he dont have any job..he stayed in their house for two years doing nothing and finally he said he is applying now and willing to take any job???but why he doesnt have any job until now?is he really giving his best?what should i do?ive been working abroad for almost 3 yrs but stil his in our country.we even cancelled our engagement....does he really have a plan for us?does he really care for me and love me?

2007-05-20 04:36:27 · 10 answers · asked by longing4truhappiness 1 in Singles & Dating

Im an atheist and I was curious. How do atheists marry? Are they just living together? How does it work. And I dont need anybody yelling at me about god or anything.

2007-05-20 04:35:16 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

We share alot in common, I can feel when he thinks about me, I know what he wants to eat, I can almost tell when he is going to call. And I sometimes don't even have to be thinking of him it just comes whenever.

2007-05-20 04:34:15 · 9 answers · asked by reddsmith69 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-20 04:34:02 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have been with my wife for three years now. Our marrage has been filled with alot of stress. We were presured by my parents to get married and then moved to another state 2 weeks later. ther has been extreme finacal problems in the last 2 years and we just moved again to try to help are finacal situaion. After beening back in az my wife asked if see could hook up with some old friends and I said sure. Well old friends turned into going to the bar 3 night a week. Then I found a naked pic of a guy on her phone and confunted her about it. She toke it as i accussed her of cheating. She then told my she was very unhappy and that I was not giving her what she needed emotionaly. I asked her to go to marrage couseling but she said the problem is with me and that I need to fix me first. She is still going out 3 times a weekand has been online talking to about 30 guys and some of the talk is pretty nasty. We also have a 5 year old daughter from her first marrage. what shold i do. i do love her

2007-05-20 04:28:22 · 8 answers · asked by redsixaz 1 in Marriage & Divorce

The other day I found porn downloaded on my dad's videos in the computer. He goes into the computer room often with the door shut. I told my sister and we are trying to decide if we should confront him or just let it be. Any ideas?

2007-05-20 04:13:11 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

They are both well paid have a beautiful home and go on loads of holidays and they asked for money. I think that is rude I will give them money and a small gift what do you think?

2007-05-20 04:10:46 · 78 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I've been married for 7 yrs. My wife says she isn't turned on by sex and that she can live without it. On the other hand I need it often and this has created a fustration with me and I don't know what to due. This is my love language and she is not speaking it to me. Any suggestions?

2007-05-20 04:08:52 · 8 answers · asked by jabez07 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ive heard guys like a girl who knows what she wants and sometimes an assertive girl. Im both and (Im married now) It took forEVER to get a guy that actually liked me for me. Whats so bad about and assertive girl?

2007-05-20 04:08:40 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Judging on the picture of the avitar. I have brunette hair, green eyes, a nice personality and i and i have alot of friends. i am average height and weight. I need OPINIONS! Also, I am going to be a model this summer. I already made the cut.

2007-05-20 04:07:18 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-20 04:06:59 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i have residential custody.If u split visits 50/50 do u go to sport activities that fall on your ex's day?or do u just go on the days u have your child?if u do go do u all sit together or seperate?

2007-05-20 03:53:59 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

im 18
a couple of months ago i got in a chat room
just because i was bored

and i met a guy
and u know he asked me out and i said yes
but i was only playing around
now we have been talking for like a year now

i think the relationship has gotten serious (hes about to be 26)
i gave him my number( i thought i was never gonna do that)
and now were making plans of seing each other in person

but i think there one problem

im from usa
and hes
from egypt.
and a muslim
i meen i dont know t
hat kinda scares me cuz i have heard that men over there treat women real bad and all that stuff i think yall have heard too

so i just wanna hear some peoples opinion about this

ohh and do yall think hes too old for me??

thanks everybody

2007-05-20 03:50:26 · 14 answers · asked by MoNiCa 2 in Friends

She's very sexually attracted to me, very affectionate, and generally more emotionally needy.
I'm interested being in a monogamous relationship right now, and like the idea of making a commitment, *settling* down if you will, but wonder if I'm kidding myself. Is hot passion an esstential ingredient for a successful, happy & healthy long-term relationship?

2007-05-20 03:46:45 · 14 answers · asked by Nimbot 2 in Singles & Dating

how different or similar are your kids to you when you were a child.

2007-05-20 03:46:28 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

my boyfriend (kinda fionce but thats another story) has this friend which is a female and i know theyre just friends but it bothers me! a friend of mine is also her friend and she's always tellin me how it seems like sometimes the girl is hinting that she likes my boyfriend! im really nervous and i get jealous whenever shes over his house "chillin" with him and his roommates. she doesnt like me and now i think its because shes mad that im with him and shes not.. i dont want to tell him he cant have friends that would seem really messed up.. but what CAN i tell him without making myself seem really controlling?

2007-05-20 03:45:17 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

~Your passion
Lit a glowing fire
That filled my soul
With sweet desire
You're all
That I was dreaming of
For the web you spun
Was made of love~

2007-05-20 03:42:50 · 12 answers · asked by G?ld?n ang?l 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-20 03:31:08 · 14 answers · asked by jerrybird28 1 in Marriage & Divorce

what are the spots in a woman body, which turns the woman on when a man touches it.

2007-05-20 03:30:03 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Icant help bt get a sneaking suspiscion.......
bt we are getting married in las vagas 20th sept
BRING PIE Y'ALL!!!!!!!!!

2007-05-20 03:23:20 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I'll admit that most of these questions are worded poorly, as they never seem to make mention of the fact that these relationships are consensual in nature. They end up giving the impression to the reader that these spankings are forced on the person and that the asker is promoting such a relationship as being the "right way" for a marriage to be. Sandstorm, in particular, has asked several questions along these lines that have riled up the masses. I often get to these questions far too late to inject any rational thought.

Spanking for discipline in an adult relationship should be a consensual agreement between the parties involved, regardless of the gender of who is spanking and who is being spanked. In most cases, it should be the one that wants to be held accountable that should approach the other. While my roommate and myself both knew of each other's interests in adult spanking, it was her that came to me and asked to be held accountable for misdeeds.

2007-05-20 03:22:50 · 5 answers · asked by baka_otaku30 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

Well, I've been friends with this girl since she switched over to my gradeschool in 7th grade, and we just started high school together at the same place. I've had this big crush on her ever since we first met and I don't know how to tell her. If I come out and say it she might get freaked out and never talk to me again, and if I don't say anything there's this guy that she has a chance of dating, and they'll be together all through high school... What should I do?

2007-05-20 03:19:49 · 10 answers · asked by Joey 1 in Singles & Dating

We are going with an early fall feel. Lots of greens with touches of dark red, orange, golden yellow and ivory. My dress is "chianti" in color (looks like a deep red/burgundy). I want a small bouquet with the ribbon wrapped around the stems. Help!!! Can I put some in my hair, since I'm not wearing a veil? Thanks.

2007-05-20 03:18:58 · 7 answers · asked by DitziD 2 in Weddings

2007-05-20 03:10:28 · 5 answers · asked by mommyfor2 1 in Friends

how do i tell a guy i love him if he already has a girlfriend?

2007-05-20 03:01:20 · 26 answers · asked by alyssa baybee 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a boyfriend and we're like havin a long distance relationship. But the thing is, his life is much more better if he stay near his family and friends in terms of lotsa things (but he'll be movin far2 from me). Should I let him go or not? He's givin me the oppurtunity to choose. And I'm kinda wanted to let him move for his own good sake but I'm gonna really miss him and it's gonna be hard for me to meet him anymore. What should I do? Can u guyz plz help me. Thanks.

2007-05-20 02:57:30 · 17 answers · asked by aim 1 in Singles & Dating

I lived there for years because my parents made me and hated every minute of it. These yokels are exactly the kind of people that have ruined the country with their simplistic minds. First day of the week they go to church and worship Oral Roberts and send him money to make sure he doesn't kill himself. Then they go to the boy scouts and learn how to make their parents happy and serve their country. Then they join the army and get their legs blown off. Then they spend the next twenty years having children and teaching them to behave the same way and laughing at kids like me who point out what is wrong with what they are doing. I got humiliated at school because I believed in Evolution and wanted to study science, got beaten half to death with a paddle while a teacher held me down, was forced to do the scouting thing because with an absense of any science programs (or belief in it for that matter) it was the only way to go to college, and told I would burn in hell for talking to cathlic

2007-05-20 02:51:25 · 9 answers · asked by Canadian Time Traveler 3 in Family

my birth date is 14th November 1980, birth place mumbai, time 7:15 am

2007-05-20 02:48:23 · 8 answers · asked by nmrt_gkwd 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-05-20 02:41:03 · 3 answers · asked by ~Charity~ 6 in Singles & Dating