how do i tell a guy i love him if he already has a girlfriend?
2007-05-20 03:01:20 · 26 answers · asked by alyssa baybee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i love this gut named jake but he has a girlfriend and well i think he is getting the picture about how i like him like he caught me stareing at him in science! and so how do i tell him i love him if i cant even talk to him? ( oh yeah and his girlfriends best friend wont even let me say one word to the guy!!!! ahhhh!
2007-05-20 03:12:47 · update #1
ok well you people tell me to find someone better but there is nobody!! i love him and only him!
2007-05-21 09:53:58 · update #2
You DON'T!!
2007-05-20 03:06:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You don't. For one, that shows lack of respect for a committed relationship. After intruding like that, he would be safe to assume that you wouldn't respect a relationship with him. If he wasn't happy with his girlfriend, and had feelings for you instead, he would have already broken up with her and asked you out. But he hasn't done that, has he? So why would you think your declaration of love would be welcome? Sorry, but the only polite option is to wait, go on with your life, date other guys, and if one day, you both are single, approach him then.
2007-05-20 10:08:08 · answer #2 · answered by Flamekat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can come right out and say it. Being upfront is always good. However, in your situation, it may be dangerous and most likely, your heart will be broken. I advise you to sit back and see what happens. Don't wait at home for the phone to ring, get out and make your life happen. Love is wonderful, it is better if we find somebody who loves us back.
2007-05-20 10:06:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi, iam in the same postion with my friend don't worry uam a guy! i know how you fell you just want to tell the but u cnt but relly it is't easy as it sounds. ok have you tryed siting next to him in class if so dissregrad! try and pull a side and tell him that u like him. dont tell him that u love him! he might end up messing with ur head. just tell him how u fell and see where you stand the worst is that he says no!!!
2007-05-20 10:29:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, do you have any ideas about how he feels about you?
If you have beyond a shadow of a doubt that he feels the same for you, then, just tell him how you feel. But, if you are not sure, then, time will have to be a factor, because he is taken. Good luck.
2007-05-20 10:05:40 · answer #5 · answered by Rogue 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just do it. He's not married and may not be interested in this girlfriend who's attached herself to him. But you know what? You don't really "love" him, you're just infatuated with his image. Once you get to know him you may find that you don't even like him. Think with your head and not your hormones.
2007-05-20 10:03:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be too late. Or simply you are too late. Silly, can't you find other charming gentlemen out there? He's had one - now you take your turn and never look back. Life's too too short to wait for only one guy.
2007-05-20 10:06:29 · answer #7 · answered by salimdist 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK if you haven't spoken to him nor associated him, then I'm sorry it's not love. I think that your crazy about him. I think you should give it some more thought, before revealing your thoughts to him cos he is with some one else. Good Luck!!
2007-05-28 04:53:32 · answer #8 · answered by coal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont you need to respect that he has a girlfriend, but at the hint of trouble you move in and tell him straight out.
2007-05-27 23:10:39 · answer #9 · answered by twinkle2twinkle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok if this is the guy of your dreams, dream bigger. If this guy already has a gf, and it's not you, well, find somebody better. there are always hotter guys and I doubt he's one of the hottest....
2007-05-20 10:13:21 · answer #10 · answered by ☼Sunshine☼ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think of it this way, if he leaves her for you, what makes you think he won't leave you for someone else later?
Leave it alone and find someone who doesn't already have plans.
2007-05-28 09:19:42 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋