Family & Relationships - 20 May 2007

and no they dont know about each other.

2007-05-20 10:10:21 · 22 answers · asked by Dan 1 in Marriage & Divorce

paragraph below???????
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Husband who gets lots of sex from his wife:
* Happy
* Smiles* Goes to work with a smile
* Comes home with a smile
* Spends more times with his family.
* Spring in his step

Husband that doesn't get sex from his wife:
* Cranky
* Feels unappreciated
* Gets addicted to online porn
* More likely to cheat
* Cheating results in divorce
* Divorce results in a broken home with messed up kids
* Husband remarry's / mom get's an absuive boyfriend
* Kids suffer
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How can being naked and secretions all over the sheets and an used condom have some kind of special meaning????????

Not only that you have to bathe and change the sheets .Why all of the trouble ????????

2007-05-20 10:10:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my girl and i have been dating for only a month but she acts like it's been a year. i start noticing that my apartment is becoming PINK. she brought a box of pink womenly stuff to my place and started decorating it. she put a pink teddy bear on my couch she put pink towels on towel rack thingy, she put her female products in my bathroom among other pink girly things she put in my apartment. why is she doing this stuff? is this to annoy me? is she trying to tell me like to clean my place? what is it?

2007-05-20 10:08:38 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Some may find it inconvenient to go on talking with someone who seems indifferent .

2007-05-20 10:07:09 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

There is this girl on my team who is a TOTAL brat! she gets everything HER way. I.E. You know how teams have Christmas Partys? well we were suppossed to have a party at this pizza place, but she didn't want to go there, so the team mom had to CANCEL our reservations to the pizza place and get new reservations at this REALLY expensive place! And the worst part is, SHE ONLY HAD A SALAD! She didn't even eat it! she could of had the same salad at the pizza place, but NO she got her way, AGAIN! So, If I tell her anything mean, I will sit the bench and not play. So, do any of you have something I can tell this brat that will make her stop makeing fun of me and other team mates?

2007-05-20 10:06:36 · 5 answers · asked by The_Strokies 2 in Friends

I ve been workin at my company for bout 2 years now and have known my boss for bout the same time.Bout a few months back she started flirting with me and i mean a caress or tellin me how good i look.Last week we had a convention out of town and were stayin at a hotel and there was an after party during which she became really flirtatious.She told me "Ya know, Billy Graham never got onto an elevator with another woman." I said"Why not?!" She responded by saying that Billy Graham didn't want a woman to make any wrong assumptions or false accusations, then she said, "And I assure you, I am no Billy Graham."I dint know wot to say.We were all having some champagne and at the end of the party i was feelin really drowsy which is funny coz i wasnt that drunk.The next thing i know is that im almost out on my couch with my boss undoin my pants and then everything else goes blank.When i get up she's all dressed up i get a smack on my lips and she subtly drops the hint "Itwud be nice if noone knew

2007-05-20 10:03:47 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i was just wondering what a guy actually looks for in a girl. I know its different for all of them, but was wondering what things some of them do look for. so yeh, please give me some answers :P

2007-05-20 10:00:56 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i live with my bf and we're saving to buy a house together in the next six months to a year, but we never get any quality time together because of his job, which he was supposed to leave six months ago.

i was offered a great job, great money doing something i love, being a manager of a spanish restaurant bar, i sat down with my bf and discussed the offer, but he said we would never see each other it would put a strain on the relationship and that i could earn better money on a 9-5 basis.

i reluctantly turned down the job. and went on to an earning
£4500 less than what i could have been on!
He then went and got a job in a bar saying it was the only thing avaliable for him at the time, but he would quit before christmas.
but he didnt, he hasnt even looked into alternative jobs and now that the assistant manager has left he has applied for a promotion.without even discussing it
i have tried to make him see what he said to me, but he just doesnt get it..

what can i do?

2007-05-20 09:59:34 · 10 answers · asked by Melinda 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm asian, i have dyed hair, i wear eyeliner and mascara, i shop at abercrombie and hollister, i wear big earings, big sunglasses, i have a million friends, i'm nice. Why won't the right guys like me? The guys i like don't always like me. the guys i've never met always asks me out because they think i'm hot. The guys that i hate like me, but why not the guys i like.

2007-05-20 09:55:28 · 7 answers · asked by <3mily 3 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend of 1 1/5 years recently started talk to his ex. She cheated on him and hurt him pretty badly and they ended on pretty bad terms. He has been very open with me about talk to her and she came over to his house the other day to talk and stuff. He told me she was coming etc. she has a boyfriend and he loves me. I'm not too worried since i know he would never go back to her because of what she did, and he's also being very open about it with me. I just can't help having doubts and worry in the back of my mind. Anyone have any advice or experience with their bf/gf being friends with an ex?

2007-05-20 09:49:39 · 7 answers · asked by bob123456789 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-20 09:48:34 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

if u had a choice to just be home all by ur self instead of going to the fair..would u go or would u stay??

2007-05-20 09:47:49 · 20 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

i just left my husband of four years and moved 1800 miles away. there were elements of domestic abuse involved,he beat me pretty badin december, but i'm a big girl, and don't consider myself physically abused. but he would constantly keep love and sex from me as 'punishment', would be gone all the time, and now that i'm actaully gone, he's doing everything in his power to make himself out to be the victim. i just want to start over, me and my kid left everything behind for the sake of our safety and sanity. why, then, does he be all nice one minute, for almost two weeks now, then calls me this morning and threatens me with this and that, tells me i'm a piece of crap and no one loves me and i'm incapable of being good to people. i just want to heal from this and move on. but i have no idea how. i'm scared to death and feel like the piece of crap he tells me i am. where do i begin?? how do i start??

2007-05-20 09:47:18 · 26 answers · asked by sarahjonas 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-20 09:45:44 · 6 answers · asked by oopsididi 2 in Singles & Dating

Sara's my best friend. She's the funniest, nicest, funnest girl ever. But the problem is that whenever i suddenly make a new friend, she takes her/him away. Like, i make friends with brianna, all of a sudden sara would just start hanging out with her, and then brianna would like sara better than me. HELLO?? i met her first. This happend like 20 times. Also when a guy likes me and i tell sara, she just starts flirting with im 24/7 and BAM he likes her. Or when i like this guy, and i tell her, 2 seconds later she likes him and she goes out with him. yes i've talked to her about this but its like it doesn't matter. Now she treats me like crap. I think she was using me because before i met her, i was popular, and then when we became friends, its like she's the most popular girl in school. yes i'm jealous, but if i talk to her about this she'll be mad at me...i don't wanna ditch her though either..

2007-05-20 09:40:35 · 4 answers · asked by <3mily 3 in Friends

i have had sex before, many times, but only with one person. i have a new boyfriend, but i am nervous about having sex with him the first time, because it was always one person before and i don't know what to expect from someone new....can anyone help me out? whats the first sex like with a new person

2007-05-20 09:39:29 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Anyone out there paying alimony? What does it cost, as a percentage of your income (not including child support)? For how many years did the court order you to pay?

Any help you can offer is appreciated. Thanks! :)

2007-05-20 09:37:53 · 7 answers · asked by kagerousan 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My daughter is pregnent with her boyfriend child. She is 18 and on # 3 baby in as many years. A month ago her friend knocked me down. He was thrown out of my house immediatly. She ofcourse stood up for him,he is 19. A few weeks ago he threatened me again in front of my husband and the fight was on. Police came and he has a no trespass order on him now. I am disabled and unable to defend myself well. I told her he will do it to her if he will do it to me. She says no what do you say

2007-05-20 09:36:10 · 14 answers · asked by lynapow 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

IF a guy "fakes" getting off, why would he? Please serious answers - i have questioned regarding other things relating to this but still are unanswered .... that area in my life with husband was NEVER a problem until he used coke a few times and now it's not the same. I'm not positive he still uses but sexually it seems like it. Please guys help out in this issue??

details.... husband used cocaine, i found out because of the sexually problem and other signs of course, he suppose to have not done coke since january and other than him not being interested in me(although he says he very much is), or when we do he sometimes goes limp, and i can tell if he has ejaculated or not. I have been with him almost 20yrs, we have 3 teenagers and i think know the difference. Other than this sex issue, he has NOT one other sign of continued use. Could the coke have messed up the ability for the blood to circulate correctly or what? I took mant sociology class

2007-05-20 09:32:28 · 6 answers · asked by Kiera 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My parents never let me do anything. They get mad if I want 2 go 2 a friends house they won't ever let me sleep over. They won't let me swim. I'm always locked up in my house unless i go 2 school. They won't let me go to school dances the cast party for my drama class. And when I ask 4 a simple reason they won't tell me. They yell instead. Now they took my cell phone my iPod and My computer away. I don't no why because they won't tell me. I cry every day in fact I'm in tears right now. They say i'm too young. I'm 14. How can i have a life when I have to stay home every day? I hate them. They make my life a living a helI and they don't even know it. I don't even tell them about boys because i'm afraid if I get a boyfriend or ilike someone they'll shoot him.

2007-05-20 09:31:23 · 9 answers · asked by ♫♥violinist♦♫ 1 in Family

I am a girl and i have a lot of girlfriends who are married but dont live with their husbands and they cheat on them all the time. I have a girlfriend whos boyfriend makes love to other men and she is okay with this. i also know have friends who are swingers and they all hang out. i have another girlfriend who lives with her ex husband and she is a swinger and he doenst love her. This stuff to me is kind of new to me is this normal

2007-05-20 09:27:17 · 11 answers · asked by sophie 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

can a girl be bad at sex?
how, and what could make it better

2007-05-20 09:26:27 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Recently my husband has been hiding his phone, or he'll take out the battery when its out in the open. & everytime he gets online he makes sure he deletes the history? Wouldn't you think your husband was hiding something if he was doing this?

2007-05-20 09:24:08 · 34 answers · asked by * lovemykids * 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a brain disease and went through heck raising my first daughter. So, when I found out 18 years later after having my first one, that I was pregnant I started PTSDing and was not in a good place. So, when I had Amber, my sister offered to take her. I knew then it would be a mistake but felt I had no other real choice. I was hoping against hope but sure enough, my sister, to make a long story short, made me into an 'egg donor', that I don't matter and my daughter doesn't even or ever has given me hugs even though I see her at my mom's often and buy her things etc. I respected my sister as her caregiver by asking her if I could take Amber here or there or whatever else, but she always found an excuse why I can't. She didn't nurture our natural relationship or anything. I knew my sister was a self centered insensitive control freak. She didn't take Amber for me, she took her for her and now I see that. I'm sitting here feeling defeated even though I tried to talk to my sis

2007-05-20 09:23:43 · 5 answers · asked by whatever 1 in Family

today i woke up a girl and i was really confused all my sisters said was to stop worrying and that it was all over now and that soon i will relize that this girl they ingorned everyhting i said and pretended that i was always a girl they said they would take care of everything i don't no what to do help

2007-05-20 09:22:57 · 5 answers · asked by cubegod666 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

like what?

2007-05-20 09:22:40 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I am a very tall lady. I am almost 5'10''. It is hard to find a guy taller than me and who i have interests with. Do you tend to stray away from girls with height?

Also I like to wear heels but I am too afraid of becoming even more tall. Please help.

2007-05-20 09:21:38 · 26 answers · asked by ALI 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-20 09:15:48 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been diagnosed with HIV last summer. It is getting worse every day. My tried to suck the blood off my finger when I accidentally cut it yesterday I avoided it but then she said to me that if I really loved her I would transmit the disease to her and so we can have a shared destiny. I love her above anything on this planet and now I am stuck in this dillema. How do I talk her out of it?

2007-05-20 09:13:18 · 37 answers · asked by John W 1 in Marriage & Divorce

what are some different ways to say "i love you"

2007-05-20 09:04:00 · 16 answers · asked by xoxocean 3 in Singles & Dating